spin: would you be upset if your daughter had a :mjpls: policy?

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Well, I would hope that my daughter doesn't do this. I wouldn't care what color the guy was as long as he did right by my daughter. But I would hope that she wouldn't be so close-minded to not date someone because of their color.
 
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Well, I would hope that my daughter doesn't do this. I wouldn't care what color the guy was as long as he did right by my daughter. But I would hope that she wouldn't be so close-minded to not date someone because of their color.

what if he did wrong? would race affect even just a little the situation?

i remember this family member (distant) was in an abusive relationship with a wm and the family was more upset she was allowing the wm to beat her like she "was a slave" rather than just caring she was getting beaten.
 

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thank you for that lovely addition. what is your response to the questions in the op :ld:

it's a honest reality for any man who raises his daughter properly. these single mothers breed such an abundance of useless, destructive males that a lot of BW will automaticaly gravitate towards non-black men

i don't know how i'd feel if it happened to me. personally , i'd use the same manipulative tatics cacs use to scare their children away from blacks at a young age. if she happens to actually have sincere love with a non-black male, it wouldnt bother me.
 

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In the back of my mind I'd be like :why:, but unless it some white trash dude I wouldn't give a fukk.
 

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what if he did wrong? would race affect even just a little the situation?

i remember this family member (distant) was in an abusive relationship with a wm and the family was more upset she was allowing the wm to beat her like she "was a slave" rather than just caring she was getting beaten.
There are a$$holes in every race. Now let's say she was in an abusive relationship with a white man. I hope that she would be smart enough to get out of it. But that would be so wrong to let one person mess up what you thought about a certain people. That's just like saying if you was with an abusive black man and now you thought that every black man was abusive. That one dummy would give all of the other black men a bad rep to you. That's not cool. We all would have to judge individually. Yeah, one guy may not have been good but don't turn away the next guy because of that.
 

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It always kind of amazed me how we Blacks are the least popular race for Interracial relationships, but seem to be the ones least bothered it
 

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the majority of the decent, well-to-do black men are dating and marrying interracially these days, so I would understand.

let's be reality, there's a 90% chance the father of my daughters black bf would look like this:

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:heh:

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:youngsabo:
 
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It always kind of amazed me how we Blacks are the least popular race for Interracial relationships, but seem to be the ones least bothered it

:usure: i think all races are bothered by it about the same amount but show it in different ways

and some pairings are so rare that you rarely get a chance to see the reaction from their races overall to say whether or not it bothers them.

let's be reality, there's a 90% chance the father of my daughters black bf would look like this:

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:heh:

that's my dad in that photo :krs:
 

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you don't see as many crazy ass reactions to non-blacks dating blacks from black parents though
 
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