*SPINOFF* Its 2020: IF YOU ARE STILL COLD APPROACHING RANDOM FEMALE STRANGERS, YOU ARE A CREEP

[TRY GOD]

For two days straight I seen posters justify being creeps in the gym to women when they're working out


The level of thirst is just ridiculous. Have some decorum about yourself. Who wants to be bothered when they're in the zone working out sweaty and smelly sometimes?


why are you still approaching random strangers? There's many ways to put yourself in a situation where you will have higher success than approaching random strangers.


you're proving the metoo and Street harassment people right, you're not entitled to talk to random strange women because you feel sexually attracted to them.

Have some decency.


@AquaCityBoy please post the pic

 

[Silent_H]

Nikkas gotta eat and closed mouths don't get fed

The issue comes from dudes not know how to read subtext of interactions. Girls don't mind being hit on by dudes with game who can wrap sexual intent in a fancy bow.

They want sex, but their brains play tricks in themselves in an almost shut shaming way. That's why they love plausible denialiblity when it comes to going home with a random dude. Going home with a rando to listen to him play guitar and "things just happening" sounds a lot better to her inner slut shaming mind than "I went to fukk a rando".

Dudes come out the gate swinging on some "wanna fukk?" shyt, without realizing she wants to be romanced a bit and taken in an emotional journey (aka warm up her oven before loading the meat in).

Understand the narrative that women like and you'll go far.

They want anticipation. They want emotional rollercoasters. They want serial tension. They want Prince Charming to RAVISH them and then RAVAGE them. Foreplay starts outside the bedroom for them.

 

[YvrzTrvly]

Thread real sus

 

[TRY GOD]

Nikkas gotta eat and closed mouths don't get fed

The issue comes from dudes not know how to read subtext of interactions. Girls don't mind being hit on by dudes with game who can wrap sexual intent in a fancy bow.

They want sex, but their brains play tricks in themselves in an almost shut shaming way. That's why they love plausible denialiblity when it comes to going home with a random dude. Going home with a rando to listen to him play guitar and "things just happening" sounds a lot better to her inner slut shaming mind than "I went to fukk a rando".

Dudes come out the gate swinging on some "wanna fukk?" shyt, without realizing she wants to be romanced a bit and taken in an emotional journey (aka warm up her oven before loading the meat in).

Understand the narrative that women like and you'll go far.

They want anticipation. They want emotional rollercoasters. They want serial tension. They want Prince Charming to RAVISH them and then RAVAGE them. Foreplay starts outside the bedroom for them.

Bro how often is this going to happen with a cold approach? None of this usually happens off cold approaches anyway.

Everything you saying is cool, but can also be done by online dating, with better success.

 

[Wiles]

Op is a gay man and we dont judge

 

[Soundbwoy]

You gotta stay in your lane, I swear to god a few years ago I was walking to the grocery store and I saw a breh trying to lick a chicks earlobe trying to get her attention ever since then I can’t defend dudes being extra thirsty in their approach

 

[Mowgli]

For two days straight I seen posters justify being creeps in the gym to women when they're working out


The level of thirst is just ridiculous. Have some decorum about yourself. Who wants to be bothered when they're in the zone working out sweaty and smelly sometimes?


why are you still approaching random strangers? There's many ways to put yourself in a situation where you will have higher success than approaching random strangers.


you're proving the metoo and Street harassment people right, you're not entitled to talk to random strange women because you feel sexually attracted to them.

Have some decency.


@AquaCityBoy please post the pic

Negged for being passive and not aggressive

 

[Luke Cage]

People just don't know that there is a time and a place. Cold approaching someone in a social setting or while doing something recreational is perfectly acceptable, (you still might get rejected, but thats part of the game). Vs Cold approaching someone when they are walking home. If you literally have to start following her to cold approach, you're being creepy.
also cold approaching in situations where they are at a disadvantage also turns on creep vibe. For example if she's working, she is required to be friendly to you.
You also have to take into account how you look. Some of ya'll, no offense, are too ugly or intimidating looking for the cold approach. You gotta find a way to break the ice naturally before shooting your shot.

 

[TRY GOD]

People just don't know that there is a time and a place. Cold approaching someone in a social setting or while doing something recreational is perfectly acceptable, (you still might get rejected, but thats part of the game). Vs Cold approaching someone when they are walking home. If you literally have to start following her to cold approach, you're being creepy.
also cold approaching in situations where they are disadvantage also turns on creep vibe. For example if she's working, she is required to be friendly to you.
You also have to take into account how you look. Some of ya'll, no offense, are too ugly or intimidating looking for the cold approach. You gotta find a way to break the ice naturally before shooting your shot.

this sounds like a lot of precautions to take in regards to cold approaching, when you could just put yourself in the position to be in places where approaching is not so intrusive.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Bro how often is this going to happen with a cold approach? None of this usually happens off cold approaches anyway.

Everything you saying is cool, but can also be done by online dating, with better success.

Y'all online people are the real creeps..

True cold approach gym heads know when to approach a woman at the gym..

And if the woman is interested in you, she'll never ever view your cold approach as a interruption..

 

[TRY GOD]

Y'all online people are the real creeps..

True cold approach gym heads know when to approach a woman at the gym..

And if the woman is interested in you, she'll never ever view your cold approach as a interruption..

I respect you wildhundreds and I'm not talking about you specifically, but this is the problem that women are talking about.

We have to stop speaking for women.

 

[paperbag]

Cold approaching is annoying but fine, It's just inappropriate in most places, the grocery store is a hard no. Gym is mainly a no, especially when you semi stalk a girl from machine to machine, at least get some eye contact and a smile first. Don't follow women on the street, and absolutely not in your car if she's walking. Really there are bars and clubs for this and online dating so I thought this behavior would be curtailed.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I respect you wildhundreds and I'm not talking about you specifically, but this is the problem that women are talking about.

We have to stop speaking for women.

If a breh politely approach a woman, and she politely says no thanks, and he politely walks away..

What harm was done?

 

[TRY GOD]

Cold approaching is annoying but fine, It's just inappropriate in most places, the grocery store is a hard no. Gym is mainly a no, especially when you semi stalk a girl from machine to machine, at least get some eye contact and a smile first. Don't follow women on the street, and absolutely not in your car if she's walking. Really there are bars and clubs for this and online dating so I thought this behavior would be curtailed.

You're saying exactly what I am, and thank you for adding a woman's voice, because there's about to be a million men justifying they're creepy behavior.


In this new era and going forward, there are avenues to approaching and dating. Randomly accosting people in the streets that are strangers is not the wave, and could be seen as an illegal act soon especially if Street harassment comes back into play.

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

Cold approaching is annoying but fine, It's just inappropriate in most places, the grocery store is a hard no. Gym is mainly a no, especially when you semi stalk a girl from machine to machine, at least get some eye contact and a smile first. Don't follow women on the street, and absolutely not in your car if she's walking. Really there are bars and clubs for this and online dating so I thought this behavior would be curtailed.

Gas stations a no too