*SPINOFF* Its 2020: IF YOU ARE STILL COLD APPROACHING RANDOM FEMALE STRANGERS, YOU ARE A CREEP

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Gas stations a no too:jbhmm:
That's fine as long as you don't hold her up or slide up to her window like a serial killer

Iunno bout this one, results tend to be great up in the store

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Last week a mutherfukker was all nosey talking about "I want a sandwich" as an opening line:mjtf: stay the fukk up out my cart. Its 7 am, can I live.

Cold approaching is how human being procreated for thousands of years
Cold approaching is annoying but fine, It's just inappropriate in most places
Really there are bars and clubs for this and online dating so I thought this behavior would be curtailed.

It's fine in some cases, just not most. I'm sure I would finally feel old and ugly, like the coli says I am, if I was never approached in public but it's still annoying in most situations. It cross the line to creepy when you're followed
 

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It's where y'all meeting them at. Ok let's say Gym is a no no. There are wine tastings,art galleries,spoken word. Also it's your approach to women.Every beautiful or decent woman on this planet knows the game .They know how when they leave the house some man is gonna try to speak to them they know this shyt.For example you are at the grocery in same aisle and near finest woman you ever see a.She asks you to reach an item for her. That right there is an opening /signal. She could probably reach if she tried if not there are workers there who can but she asked YOU for a reason. (Assuming you are decent looking to her). Now wrong approach would be to bother her saying "Excuse me ma'am are you single?"etc . Timing is everything with women. You see her looking at her phone or talking on phone.She ain't talking to nobody she wants to not be approached and knows there is man within her view she doesn't want to be talked to by.
 
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Stop being afraid of women, OP.

Only thing I say is that you shouldn't cold approach a woman at a place that both you and her will be at a lot.

For instance, I wont holla at a woman that works at my favorite store for 2 reasons

If things go bad, I gotta keep running into her and it's awkward

If things go good, that place turns into a no fly zone for me and I cant talk to any other women there.
 

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Yeah, I tend to agree that cold approaching ain't the wave in 2020. When you look at the odds of getting a negative response vs the odds of getting a positive response, it's just not worthwhile IMO.

Maybe for dudes with impeccable social skills that are great at reading women, but I don't see your average dude being successful with that type of approach.
 
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It's where y'all meeting them at. Ok let's say Gym is a no no. There are wine tastings,art galleries,spoken word. Also it's your approach to women.Every beautiful or decent woman on this planet knows the game .They know how when they leave the house some man is gonna try to speak to them they know this shyt.For example you are at the grocery in same aisle and near finest woman you ever see a.She asks you to reach an item for her. That right there is an opening /signal. She could probably reach if she tried if not there are workers there who can but she asked YOU for a reason. (Assuming you are decent looking to her). Now wrong approach would be to bother her saying "Excuse me ma'am are you single?"etc . Timing is everything with women. You see her looking at her phone or talking on phone.She ain't talking to nobody she wants to not be approached and knows there is man within her view she doesn't want to be talked to by.




You just gotta learn to read social cues, that's all.

I can tell when a woman is digging me all by body language.

Sometime they be digging me but dont want it to go any further cause she could have a man at home, etc.

But I know when a woman finds me attractive.
 
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That's fine as long as you don't hold her up or slide up to her window like a serial killer


Last week a mutherfukker was all nosey talking about "I want a sandwich" as an opening line:mjtf: stay the fukk up out my cart. Its 7 am, can I live.




It's fine in some cases, just not most. I'm sure I would finally feel old and ugly, like the coli says I am, if I was never approached in public but it's still annoying in most situations. It cross the line to creepy when you're followed



Im sliding in ur window paper at the gas station

Like what ur name

U too fine to be single

Let me take u out and show u what a real man about:mjlit:
 

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I cold approached my whole life and always had a lot of success and never once had a woman act like I was a fukking creep towards her, whether I got rejected or not. Y'all just don't know how to communicate without coming off like a lame or a pervert. Conversation rules the nation bruh, learn how to strike up a conversation without being lame.
 

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Yeah, I tend to agree that cold approaching ain't the wave in 2020. When you look at the odds of getting a negative response vs the odds of getting a positive response, it's just not worthwhile IMO.

Maybe for dudes with impeccable social skills that are great at reading women, but I don't see your average dude being successful with that type of approach.
This is it in a nutshell.

Its weird how so many nikkas in 2020 are like:


":unimpressed:Nah, Imma cold approach, women better know they gunna get hollard at if they leave their house:ufdup:"


Its not ok. They're harassed online at home, and harassed as soon as they leave the house. This isn't the 1920s or older anymore.
 

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If women aint approaching you
Gotta trick at this point
Come to the dark side
This is the direction society is moving towards anyway, a cold approach is only opening yourself up for the opportunity for a transaction of some sort.

cold approaching is for sex purposes, no real man is looking for the love of his life is doing that through cold approaching, and those that have the strictly coincidence.

A cold approach is a sexual attraction acknowledgement first and foremost, which is why it is being branded as street harassment these days. It's an archaic caveman way of thinking.
 

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You just gotta learn to read social cues, that's all.

I can tell when a woman is digging me all by body language.

Sometime they be digging me but dont want it to go any further cause she could have a man at home, etc.

But I know when a woman finds me attractive.
True I agree bro. Women are heavy flirters,most these dudes get confused by the flirting/actual interest. Women check dudes out but we rarely catch them because they are crafty .They won't make it obvious unless they really feeling you.
 
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