*SPINOFF* Its 2020: IF YOU ARE STILL COLD APPROACHING RANDOM FEMALE STRANGERS, YOU ARE A CREEP

[Unknown Poster]

Ig and online is a thing nowadays

It ain't the same as vibing with a woman IRL.
And people are so fake online...men and women...that you don't even know if you're getting a genuine conversation.

Also, I'm 36. I'm not about playing text games or ghosting or any of that immature crap and that's so prevalent online with dating.

 

[Unknown Poster]

You only get one chance sometimes.

Approach that woman

Exactly.

Don't be like "what if" not approach that woman you feeling and then you all at what possibly could of been. DO IT!

 

[Unknown Poster]

You gotta stay in your lane, I swear to god a few years ago I was walking to the grocery store and I saw a breh trying to lick a chicks earlobe trying to get her attention ever since then I can’t defend dudes being extra thirsty in their approach

AW HELL NAH!



Yea, I can't condone that...that's creepy/rapey as fukk.

 

[lamont614]

Cold approaching is annoying but fine, It's just inappropriate in most places, the grocery store is a hard no. Gym is mainly a no, especially when you semi stalk a girl from machine to machine, at least get some eye contact and a smile first. Don't follow women on the street, and absolutely not in your car if she's walking. Really there are bars and clubs for this and online dating so I thought this behavior would be curtailed.

grocery store is a hard yes


nikka I ate good at Kroger target Walmart

 

[Rack4K]

You're only a creep if you're not attractive and it doesn't work

 

[SuaveyBoi115]

If dudes stopped cold approaching, women would literally complain about why dudes don’t approach anymore

 

[The True HD]

Cold approaching till my body goes cold..... Being tall, handsome n fly hits different in person.

 

[god shamgod]

In what world is approaching a woman you’re attracted to creepy? The Grew up on the internet generation y’all

 

[SATAN]

Why are men always trying to restrict other men from getting at a female?

My longest relationship was off a cold approach

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Nikkas gotta eat and closed mouths don't get fed

The issue comes from dudes not know how to read subtext of interactions. Girls don't mind being hit on by dudes with game who can wrap sexual intent in a fancy bow.

They want sex, but their brains play tricks in themselves in an almost shut shaming way. That's why they love plausible denialiblity when it comes to going home with a random dude. Going home with a rando to listen to him play guitar and "things just happening" sounds a lot better to her inner slut shaming mind than "I went to fukk a rando".

Dudes come out the gate swinging on some "wanna fukk?" shyt, without realizing she wants to be romanced a bit and taken in an emotional journey (aka warm up her oven before loading the meat in).

Understand the narrative that women like and you'll go far.

They want anticipation. They want emotional rollercoasters. They want serial tension. They want Prince Charming to RAVISH them and then RAVAGE them. Foreplay starts outside the bedroom for them.

Rep pending serious game here

 

[badboys11]

When a random female approaches a man is she a creep?

 

[Scaaar]

This girl I'm talking to was complaining about guys not cold approaching anymore. I told her that it takes two to get it done and what have you done to the guys that have actually stepped up. She said she shut them down because she really don't want random people talking to her

 

[MajesticLion]

Dudes who say this corny & dumb shyt deserve to be ridiculed to oblivion.

Like women only exist to please you....maybe she don't wanna smile for you cause she think you a lame...how about that?

Wait until a woman says it to you.



Anyhow this is the world women have allowed to take shape, so they'd better learn how to communicate effectively like anybody else.

 

[Weaver31]

Nikkas gotta eat and closed mouths don't get fed

The issue comes from dudes not know how to read subtext of interactions. Girls don't mind being hit on by dudes with game who can wrap sexual intent in a fancy bow.

They want sex, but their brains play tricks in themselves in an almost shut shaming way. That's why they love plausible denialiblity when it comes to going home with a random dude. Going home with a rando to listen to him play guitar and "things just happening" sounds a lot better to her inner slut shaming mind than "I went to fukk a rando".

Dudes come out the gate swinging on some "wanna fukk?" shyt, without realizing she wants to be romanced a bit and taken in an emotional journey (aka warm up her oven before loading the meat in).

Understand the narrative that women like and you'll go far.

They want anticipation. They want emotional rollercoasters. They want serial tension. They want Prince Charming to RAVISH them and then RAVAGE them. Foreplay starts outside the bedroom for them.

AMEN! Excellent post. But u still need to be somewhat attractive to the women u approaching. Even if ur game and convo is good to sufficient...if they not physically attracted to u even remotely, then something can still be off like energy or whatever. But ur right...some people lack the social skill of reading social ques, other ques, signs, and not responding approately to not getting choosing signals.

 

[Koli_Kat]

My dad approached my mom at the bank.So there's that.

But then again this is internet don't talk to me in person generation.

Women got all these qualms about when and where men should approach them.

If you take time to decide if the situation fits your going to talk yourself out of approaching. fukk around and go home and swipe on lower quality women on a dating app.

When women get comfortable approaching men their problems will stop.The general consensus would be "don't harass a woman,if a woman is interested in you,she will let you know".

But that will never happen. So men, approach on.