Exactly, so why did you smile at him as you giving him a sign?
Y'all brehettes and y'all contradicting selves.
"Just cuz we're at the club and I rubbed my ass on you don't mean I want you"
"I rubbed my ass on him. Why can't he tell I want him"
when I'm speaking to him? I didn't do the googly eyes 
shyt when I catch eye contact I play start digging in my pocket and looking down at what I pulled out like I was really looking for them two lint pennies
was I supposed to be like
EXACTLY!!!!
I look the other way so quick...almost snap my neck...
You could of said I'm not interested in you in that way , it's blunt butThis is basically it.
For instance, this guy at the gym...we walked up to the elevator at the same time, he initiated the conversation by asking me where I am from? I told him and he said yeah I figure you are not from here. He had an accent and I asked where he is from, he answered...and I told him hello neighbor cause we share the same island and started talking etc. I continued to entertain the convo...because I was thinking of networking opportunities...him not so much...he asked for my number and I gave it to him and told him maybe we should grab lunch. etc. cool
he calls me outside working hours and don't pick up...when he sees me at the gym he asked why I didn't' pick up?..gave him some bullshyt lie that I was out of town...bla bla bla...but I still kept it friendly with him...now every time at the guy this dude wants to interrupt my workouts by initiating convos...
he asked me out to dinner, I gave him another lie...I don't like to go out when is raining
needless to say...he finally got the hint.
I say all this to say that yeah a woman may smile and be nice to you but that does not mean that she is thinking about sleeping with you. This also applies to women.
I have so many examples of men from an obese man on a wheelchair to a former perverted supervisor) trying to get with me because of just me being civil with the opposite sex.
Pic vio.that doesn't always work...I am hard to "read"...and some women are...so men are not going to approach if they think that they are going to get rejected...
I give no signals, if I see a guy I like...I just admire from afar...that's it; start off by looking at his ring finger, then height, then any sign of dikk print, then if he has a gut, then if he is bald, then if he is attractive...after all that is checked off I continue to.
Men hardly, approach me, I've been told because I look intimidating
this year I had a streak of fat, middle aged/handicap men approach me and I NEVER GAVE THEM ANY SIGNALS but I gave them A+ for bravery and the "I have a boyfriend" line and KIM.
This is exactly my situation my dude. Most women will give hugs and compliments like it's nothing when they know you. So if you're trying to catch a man's attention you gotta go a lil harder than that.Exactly because women are allowed to act a certain way like they can easily ask for hugs and stuff at work without much fear of backlash , some female coworkers touch my shoulders while I sit at my desk women or compliment my shirts at work as I tend to dress nicely or my cologne . I can't think every woman wants to get with me . Also I'm in a field that has more women than men working in it and when a bunch of women are In one officethey are worse than men with
That shyt's the worst. Then they wanna call you soft or gay cuz you didn't wanna deal with them.
Well for one he didn't ask to sleep with you. He just asked to hang out. You should have communicated some times when he should call like "I'm available this time to this time, give me a call" or something like that if you didn't want those random calls. Also you shouldn't have lied to him. You should have told him that you only take call during certain hours and if he calls at that time you won't pick up. Also it's not rude to say "hey i will have to talk to you AFTER my workout". If you don't want to talk to him at all just say you are not interested in him.This is basically it.
For instance, this guy at the gym...we walked up to the elevator at the same time, he initiated the conversation by asking me where I am from? I told him and he said yeah I figure you are not from here. He had an accent and I asked where he is from, he answered...and I told him hello neighbor cause we share the same island and started talking etc. I continued to entertain the convo...because I was thinking of networking opportunities...him not so much...he asked for my number and I gave it to him and told him maybe we should grab lunch. etc. cool
he calls me outside working hours and don't pick up...when he sees me at the gym he asked why I didn't' pick up?
I say all this to say that yeah a woman may smile and be nice to you but that does not mean that she is thinking about sleeping with you. This also applies to women.
I have so many examples of men from an obese man on a wheelchair to a former perverted supervisor) trying to get with me because of just me being civil with the opposite sex.
Y'all both at the pump and you bend over and reach extra long for that 3cent ashtray change and dude finishes pumping and leave
Y'all playing it off looking down at ya phone walking towards him and moves out the way like "scuse me
Y'all sitting waiting on something/somebody and ask him the time knowing damn well ya iPhone in ya replica Louis bag but he tells you the time and walks off.
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