Spinoff: Matchmaker says brehettes were rude to brehs at her singles event.

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The nature of the event seems like it’s well intentioned but let’s keep it 100 — the organizers are trying to get the bag.

They will do something where the women pay more and the men’s tickets are low price or even free but what is the real structure of the event programming?

Then man of these women — let’s be real — are unattractive and washed.

What’s bringing them to these events in the first place is a legit question.
if you have to go to a named singles event several things went wrong in your life.
 

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Ive never heard of these events and im pretty sure a lot of men dont know anything about them.


Say what y'all want, but when it comes to p*ssy, men are willing to go through a lot.
Men understand that women aren't going to these events with the intention of dating with intention they're looking for attention.
 

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The logic of women is amazing you're already struggling because of your shytty requirements if you not gonna drop them why go?:stopitslime:
they're expecting the few male thirst buckets there to give them attention and validation that the nikkas that they do like don't give them.

Men are getting too hip to the game.
 

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It’s over for these modern day sisters for any type of marriage

Their education and career have them believing they are the cream of the crop that every man want, but refused to look at the numbers of reality

Y’all are old enough to have been dating in the early 2000s. Were the sisters like this back then? Seems like more of them had the Tracee Ellis Ross type approachable vibe. And as a young child I remember seeing more brehs approach women in public and everyone seemed cool about it.
 

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Dating apps are good for those looking for a good time. The shyt that will get you rejected on an app is the same thing that will get you rejected in face to face encounters so I don't see the issue. The bold is the best method if they are serious anyways.
No the fukk it is not :dead: :russ: yall just be saying anything.
 

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I have no clue why men don't go to dating events, they sound like they can be fun.

I don't need to go to a speed dating event to meet women, get their contact info, go on dates, etc... so I don't go lol.
That's exactly the point. The brehs who would find it fun dont need to pay money and go out their way for it. If you can find "fun" at the grocery store, gym, bar, book store, car wash, Chinese restaurant, concert, whatever the fukk just existing and opening your mouth, or even on an app why would you go to this? :russ:
They better set up some fukkin gaming PCs with apex legends on em and some big screen tvs with the football game on and free beer if they want brehs to come :dead:
 

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No the fukk it is not :dead: :russ: yall just be saying anything.
No it is. If you're going to get rejected, it'll be for something stupid, much like what the matchmaker lady and the other ladies in the second video were indicating. Either an issue of height, or something else that shouldn't be such a dealbreaker.
 

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That first time u offer to buy a drink and she hit you with the loud ass “…HUH..?” So her friends and passerby’s know you're about to strike out, followed by the “NO THANK YOU” with no eye contact while she shift her body around to something more important. That’s gon turn you to a supervillain every time, especially the dudes that be like “it’s all good bro her loss.” Those the ones u gotta keep an eye on cause they bout to do something dastardly by the end of the night
 

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Some others have already stated this, but I’d like to reiterate it. If a man can attract women without attending a singles event, there’s no reason for him to go to one. That, I believe, is the basic answer to the women’s question: why don’t the men they’re interested in attend these events?

As for the men they’re not interested in, they tend to serve only as an ego boost—at best—for the women present, without any real matches being made. The internet has pulled back the curtain and revealed truths to men that, in the past, they might never have known.

Since women often encourage each other not to adjust standards that far exceed their actual value in the dating market, these events will likely remain ineffective for the foreseeable future.
 

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Good looking men/women don’t need to attend dating event ..lol they have better options


Flabbynsick bros are looking at overseas options or they have given up and are not trying to attend dating event with :flabbynsick: women in attendance




Mid looking sisters are stuck holding the bag
Hence the op video
 

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Some others have already stated this, but I’d like to reiterate it. If a man can attract women without attending a singles event, there’s no reason for him to go to one. That, I believe, is the basic answer to the women’s question: why don’t the men they’re interested in attend these events?

As for the men they’re not interested in, they tend to serve only as an ego boost—at best—for the women present, without any real matches being made. The internet has pulled back the curtain and revealed truths to men that, in the past, they might never have known.

Since women often encourage each other not to adjust standards that far exceed their actual value in the dating market, these events will likely remain ineffective for the foreseeable future.

Facts except the last paragraph. A lot of women complaining conflate their value in the sexual market with their value in the dating market. The men approaching them at these events largely reflects who they can get for relationships but those men aren’t as good looking as the men they can get into casual hookups and situationships with.
 

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Good looking men/women don’t need to attend dating event ..lol they have better options


Flabbynsick bros are looking at overseas options or they have given up and are not trying to attend dating event with :flabbynsick: women in attendance




Mid looking sisters are stuck holding the bag
Hence the op video

There are probably some good looking women at the events. Like dude said earlier, I can see some going for an ego boost. Also they could legit be struggling to find good men who want more than just to smash. I think that’s the case with a lot of attractive women on these dating apps.
 

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Facts except the last paragraph. A lot of women complaining conflate their value in the sexual market with their value in the dating market. The men approaching them at these events largely reflects who they can get for relationships but those men aren’t as good looking as the men they can get into casual hookups and situationships with.
And who encourages them to continue doing that? Oh, I will answer that, the other women around them.
 

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Y’all are old enough to have been dating in the early 2000s. Were the sisters like this back then? Seems like more of them had the Tracee Ellis Ross type approachable vibe. And as a young child I remember seeing more brehs approach women in public and everyone seemed cool about it.

No

I really don’t know what happened over the past 15 years

But this whole i have a degree, house, car, career, 2 or 3 different businesses going on, etc etc has been put in first of their profile over just the simple thing of “ im feminine and a good woman for a man”

U literally have sisters today say “ I’ll be sweet and kind to the right man” WTF is that

This is why you seen 60% of black marriages up to 1970 drop all the way down to 25% today for sisters

Good luck for a guy if he find that diamond in a rough
 

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Truth is a lot of women have a rude and dismissive dispostion about them a lot of men can sense..I dont know if it comes from being female and needing to keep your guard up, but it debilitates their ability to see things for what they are and make better informed decisions..so they rely on general fairytale markers for what constitutes a great man, 6 ft, nice shoes, nice belt etc..
 
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