Spinoff: Matchmaker says brehettes were rude to brehs at her singles event.

[lib123]

No

I really don’t know what happened over the past 15 years

But this whole i have a degree, house, car, career, 2 or 3 different businesses going on, etc etc has been put in first of their profile over just the simple thing of “ im feminine and a good woman for a man”

U literally have sisters today say “ I’ll be sweet and kind to the right man” WTF is that

This is why you seen 60% of black marriages up to 1970 drop all the way down to 25% today for sisters

Good luck for a guy if he find that diamond in a rough

Got it. Seems like smartphones and that ‘08 recession played a big role in the shift.

 

[King Poetic]

Got it. Seems like smartphones and that ‘08 recession played a big role in the shift.

Social Media false narratives with these fake relationship gurus

But u can even begin with that steve harvey fake 90 day no sex rule bullshyt and oprah having this clown on her show

 

[Brolic]

People need to start redefining what options are for a legit relationship. Likes and matches don’t equate to options.

Out of the group of 100 men that liked her, more than half are probably broke, weird, or just trying to have sex, then the few that might be physically appealing might have a bad personality or character.
So she might have 5 legit options out of that group hundred men, but she passed them up because she was being too picky or thought she could do better.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

No

I really don’t know what happened over the past 15 years

But this whole i have a degree, house, car, career, 2 or 3 different businesses going on, etc etc has been put in first of their profile over just the simple thing of “ im feminine and a good woman for a man”

U literally have sisters today say “ I’ll be sweet and kind to the right man” WTF is that

This is why you seen 60% of black marriages up to 1970 drop all the way down to 25% today for sisters

Good luck for a guy if he find that diamond in a rough

Since 2020

 

[lib123]

Social Media false narratives with these fake relationship gurus

But u can even begin with that steve harvey fake 90 day no sex rule bullshyt and oprah having this clown on her show

Lol I actually think the 90 day rule would bring a lot of clarity to Brehettes as far as being able to see clearly dudes who just tying to smash. And yeah social media, but I blame smartphones more because they allow people to constantly be on social media. If we had the same current social media but only desktops and laptops like the early 2000s, it wouldn’t be as impactful.

 

[WIA20XX]

Y’all are old enough to have been dating in the early 2000s. Were the sisters like this back then? Seems like more of them had the Tracee Ellis Ross type approachable vibe. And as a young child I remember seeing more brehs approach women in public and everyone seemed cool about it.

It's always been like this, but now it's just getting documented and exposed.

 

[Wiseborn]

Some others have already stated this, but I’d like to reiterate it. If a man can attract women without attending a singles event, there’s no reason for him to go to one. That, I believe, is the basic answer to the women’s question: why don’t the men they’re interested in attend these events?

As for the men they’re not interested in, they tend to serve only as an ego boost—at best—for the women present, without any real matches being made. The internet has pulled back the curtain and revealed truths to men that, in the past, they might never have known.

Since women often encourage each other not to adjust standards that far exceed their actual value in the dating market, these events will likely remain ineffective for the foreseeable future.

If women asked this question or even flipped it on theirselves or asked why they're ain't 20 something year old women at these events they'd have their answer. But that would require them admitting something to themselves.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Men out there mess with shyt like this? I never thought about going to a singles event, never needed it

Only person I knew who went to shyt like this was another coli former poster. Sirbiatch. He was also the most swagless creature I ever met. Pure p*ssy repellent. Dressed like he fell out a donation bin. 6'4 with bumpy skin and a weird body

He also ended up basically coming out as a bisexual.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Advertised where though?? Ive never seen a speed dating advertisement


Where there's plenty of p*ssy, men are willing to go. You say men aren't desperate but I highly doubt with all the so called lonely dudes and incels.

These are things you have to explicitly look for.
Speed dating is like shooting fish in a barrel.
The reason a lot of men aren’t showing up is due to women wanting a relationship, when 95% men are fine with keeping a relationship with women of just smashing. Not worth it otherwise, for a man. Simple as that.

 

[Hater Eraser]

That's exactly the point. The brehs who would find it fun dont need to pay money and go out their way for it. If you can find "fun" at the grocery store, gym, bar, book store, car wash, Chinese restaurant, concert, whatever the fukk just existing and opening your mouth, or even on an app why would you go to this?
They better set up some fukkin gaming PCs with apex legends on em and some big screen tvs with the football game on and free beer if they want brehs to come

Game is to be sold .. not told breh breh

Come at they dating management team like ..

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Social Media false narratives with these fake relationship gurus

But u can even begin with that steve harvey fake 90 day no sex rule bullshyt and oprah having this clown on her show

So what’s a solid time frame to wait for you? Are we telling women to vet men, and choose better, or not? You want them to jump into bed after 2-3 weeks. Can a woman tell a man is going to commit, and treat her well after that amount of time?

I smashed on the third date with my wife.



But we met in high school, and reconnected almost 20 years later. So she knew me, and knew I wasn’t a killer.

 

[WIA20XX]

They better set up some fukkin gaming PCs with apex legends on em and some big screen tvs with the football game on and free beer if they want brehs to come

LOL, Women hate watching men enjoy sports, and truly despise men that play video games.

There are very few places where man gather that women want to be at, much less want the men that show up to those things.

Took my Ex to a low rider/jdm car show.

Her neck was breaking on seeing the # of good looking and well-to-do dudes at the spot

She said, "A girl could really do well for herself here"...

Had me feeling like

 

[etrofllenrod504]

A lot of “regular” dudes need to know that realistically it’s okay being regular. Finding out the hard way that you’re apex is mediocrity — like most people — is an ego blow a lot can handle but will have to come to terms with it silently.

Tons of these dudes out there and a ton of basic women who don’t want them because they don’t see who they themselves really area.

For any man 25-35 you gotta have a legit inventory of yourself and decide if you want to turn the corner for good and level up.

99% of dudes won’t. Straight up.

The ones left know that they will have to have many sleepless nights grinding, not nutting in wack females, getting their minds right, getting fit and establishing some sense of style that won’t be outrageous but set them apart from the pack.

Asking dudes to do that is like trying to ride a skateboard across the ocean. But the brehs that take on the challenge — knowing there’s a chance of failure — could care less about dating anyone and being accepted. They are in their own damn time zone.

Post so accurate.

 

[O.G.B]

I don’t think it’s a black woman issue though. I think it has more to do with the fact that black men are probably happier single or exploring other options in this current economy.

How is not "a black women issue" when the women complaining in videos are black women?

 

[lib123]

No it is. If you're going to get rejected, it'll be for something stupid, much like what the matchmaker lady and the other ladies in the second video were indicating. Either an issue of height, or something else that shouldn't be such a dealbreaker.