Stand Up Dude or Sucker?

[Maschine_Man]

I feel your post for the most part. But let's not act like the kids always suffer. Cause in this case they are not. That being said lots of others suffer cause of someone using kids as pawns or as a means to a free meal. Just like they play the govt. the play a nice guy willing to do what he can to help.

When you have women who birth kids cause of spite, jealousy, envy, financial gain, neglect etc. you tell me where to draw the line breh?

unfortunately though it usually is the kids that suffer.

I will NEVER support a woman that uses their kids as a pawn to benefit from some other guy (a simp or not) or the govt.

that shyt is shameful, and needs to be stopped.
I just wish there was a way that the kids didn't have to be the ones that get screwed over.

 

[JLova]

Simp, huh?

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

He's a good dude, but he needs to be careful that hoe bytch doesn't push a lot of extra shyt on him. If she has another kid by some deadbeat nikka (damn she's a fukkin hoe) then that one's her problem. If she tryna get dude to pay for all sorts of shyt, nah fukk her. So long as he does it on HIS terms, not that HOE'S terms, then it's fine.

 

[JBoy]

I think it's a good thing, but because it isn't the other girls fault that her daddy isn't shyt and it is good for her to do things with her other sibling

 

[kevm3]

I find it respectable he doesn't want to shun one kid. He just has to be careful she doesn't try to shift child support on him.

 

[A-Train]

I wish I had someone who took into consideration the relationship between me and my sibling.



But for real, I hope he really really sat down and thought about all of this. Like hopefully he didn't just see the girl in the back of the house with the face cuz her sister was about to go out and then said "fukk it, I'll bring lil shorty too". If he gonna do this, he really got to do it until she's all grown up. He can cause just as much emotional and psychological damage if he says "fukk this" when she's 12 and rolling her eyes and neck than if he had not bothered to look out for her at all. There may or may not come a time when she's a teen or preteen where she might act out because even though he's been there, not having her biological dad may still be an issue for her. For many kids, even a stand up dude like ya friend doesn't completely fill that void of not having a biological parent. As long as he realizes she ain't gonna be the sweet lil 4 yr old forever, and is willing to tough it out til she grown then ..

 

[Swirv]

I cant call it. I wouldnt do a thing for the other kid if i was in the same situation. The mom should have known better than to open her legs to a deadbeat .

 

[Still Benefited]

A lot of nikkas without daddys wishing sum ol generous nikka woulda came along and been they father figure too....he ain't a sucka cuz he ain't bein tricked into doin it,he just bein stupid...I'm almsot concerned ya boy might be on his Sandusky bcuz who does that guess nobody else wuz wondering that

That ain't his daughter,he ain't in a relationship with the baby mother,its not his place....Take ya daughter and leave and go do your thing,if u wanna bring the little girl sumthin back that's what u do,that's nice and reasonable....if he care that much invite the baby mama to come along with em,if she don't care the little girl is not resentful of her sister that's on her,lil girl don't get to leave the house that day.....this ain't shyt u should be doin all the time,maybe goin around the corner to grab a icee cream cone or sumthin....but spendin afternnons like she your daughter too...u see ur daghter bi weekly spend that time with her.

And if u not willing to take this girl on for 18 yrs it ain't cool to just do it while she cute and then stop when she gets older and annoying....and on top of that I don't wanna be hangin out with kids that ain't mine alone,so I get hit with sum false molestation charge....u don't know what's goin on in these kids life u playin daddy too when u not around,bcuz u just part time daddy by law.


If I wuz a judge and Any nikka doin what ur boy doin came in front of me on a molestation claim talkin bout "bu bu but I wuz just tryna be nice ur honor"....I'm givin em the " that don't even sound right nikka,take this son of a bytch to jail"

 

[↓R↑LYB]

This type of shyt sad 2 say is common, n1ggaz need to stop knocking up these bucketheads b/c yall are f^cking up the next generation of our population

these kids growing up with no FATHER FIGURE, people don't realize how much of a impact that has on a little boy or little girl; it's even far as it's effects

not all play out like this but

little boy : grow up reckless, thinking he big sh1t b/c no1's checked his silly @$$ and develops with no guidance

little girl : doesn't know how to treat a man, falls into to some n1ggaz ain't sh1t type of sh1t and end up not being marriage material

You need to have a talk to the nikkas in this thread then

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/43693-hoodrat-appreciation-thread.html

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I'm going through this right now.My baby moms had a son before we met and I've basically adopted him.I figure I have the extra income to spare, so why not? I really don't give a shyt what his moms intentions are, I'm doing it to benefit him.If she feels like she's getter over on me, she can have that.


You don't know how you'll react until you're in that situation.It's some cold shyt to be lacing your son up with nice things and taking him out to different places, while the other kid is over in the corner looking

I just looked at the lil nig and told him to hop in.I took him on like some Pac and the Outlawz type shyt.We mash as one unit now.Got a extra soldier on my team

Damn, imagine your son coming home from the weekend with you with a brand new PS3, 5 games, and new Jordans and asking his half bro "you ain't seen your pops in 3 years? DON'T THAT shyt PLAGUE YOUR MIND "

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Sucker, because he could be put of CS for the other girl.

I don't know exactly how it works, but I know if you act as a parent in certain states, you could end up being financially responsible for the other kid

 

[Born2BKing]

Damn, so spending a little time with your daughters sister is some sucker shyt now. The fukk is wrong with some of you nikkaz.

 

[Taadow]

A lot of nikkas without daddys wishing sum ol generous nikka woulda came along and been they father figure too....he ain't a sucka cuz he ain't bein tricked into doin it,he just bein stupid...I'm almsot concerned ya boy might be on his Sandusky bcuz who does that guess nobody else wuz wondering that

That ain't his daughter,he ain't in a relationship with the baby mother,its not his place....Take ya daughter and leave and go do your thing,if u wanna bring the little girl sumthin back that's what u do,that's nice and reasonable....if he care that much invite the baby mama to come along with em,if she don't care the little girl is not resentful of her sister that's on her,lil girl don't get to leave the house that day.....this ain't shyt u should be doin all the time,maybe goin around the corner to grab a icee cream cone or sumthin....but spendin afternnons like she your daughter too...u see ur daghter bi weekly spend that time with her.

And if u not willing to take this girl on for 18 yrs it ain't cool to just do it while she cute and then stop when she gets older and annoying....and on top of that I don't wanna be hangin out with kids that ain't mine alone,so I get hit with sum false molestation charge....u don't know what's goin on in these kids life u playin daddy too when u not around,bcuz u just part time daddy by law.


If I wuz a judge and Any nikka doin what ur boy doin came in front of me on a molestation claim talkin bout "bu bu but I wuz just tryna be nice ur honor"....I'm givin em the " that don't even sound right nikka,take this son of a bytch to jail"

I'm sad to say, this is the first chit I thought of, maynes.

I clap for ol' dude. That's real nicca chit he's doin', and if it were me I would consider it also. But, it's a cold world. All cuzz has to do is look at his Baby Mama wrong one day when he picks the girls up, and she callin' them people to go pick him up at Chuck E. Cheese talmbat "he kidnapped my other daughter..."

It is 100% FUCCED UP that that's what it is today, but it is that. Ion even like being in the same vicinity with a:

- child
- pre-teen
- white woman I don't know

...without somebody else present because you never know what might go dyne or what they might say you did.

 

[Easy-E]

far as I know, he isn't still smashing the baby mother. Is he being a stand-up dude or is he being a sucker?

Maybe because I'm a virgin (go head clown me), but, y'all make everything about sex

It's actually complicated;

It could go many ways, but, dude is a stand up dude

Too bad children pay for the poor decisions of adults

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Fukked up to those who end up being collateral damage. At the end of the day, the system is looking out for abandoned kids and that's a good thing.

Would you be saying that if you were paying child support for a kid that wasn't yours?

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...child-support-kid-wasnt-his.html#.UITAWW_A8kQ

What if you ended up like this cat?

Man jailed for child support, even though he was not the father, | www.ajc.com

Or this one?

Man Jailed For Child Support For Baby That Wasn’t His « CBS Dallas / Fort Worth

But it's all good cause it's for the kids right breh