Staying friends with your ex...

[The Guru]

Only thing i learned from keeping in contact with my last ex:
Why the fukk was i with this whiny c*nt?
Don't you do anything other than complain and hate on other people ?
Situations may vary but i don't see the up side.

 

[Mr.Forte]

You played right into her hands with a simp move like that...

Real Talk

Men are killed everyday over bullshyt like that

 

[360dagod]

The 9-5 nikka who goes straight home after work is considered boring by the same female who will then complain about having a no good nikka the morning after while her guts are in the recovery stage from the night before....

BY THE SAME NO GOOD nikka WHO COMES IN WHENEVER HE WANTS..

Don't reform or conform for these bytches

 

[bigmac]

Don't even entertain that. Young men see this every day.

"Wah wah wah, he treats me blah blah blah."

She isn't a hostage. She can leave. Chances are if you are listening to a woman say this, you have dated or wanted
to date her at some point, so now she abuses your attentiveness. She is where she wants to be, or she wouldn't have used the opt-out
clause and went to another team. Stay Pacing, breh, let her be at the bottom of the league on the Bobcats. She fukked that up.

Real shyt

 

[Dwolf]

No offense taken. i was drunk, we had just broken up, i saw her grinding on another nikka and just lost it. I wasn't ready to see that.

You win the fight?

 

[Diondon]

Too much bullshyt

 

[MikelArteta]

Digs in the crate


If you desire drama in your life……Just stay friends with an ex, there are exceptions to every rule, but generally being friends with an ex is a horrible horrible horrible idea. I cannot fathom any circumstances where it is constructive unless you have reached the summit of peace where you can witness the ex with someone else and without an ounce of jealousy, bitterness or selfishness in your heart feel ecstatic for them and vice versa.

Reasons to never be friends with an ex.

1. Liberation of their guilt.

No one wants to be the bad person in any situation and an ex may still care about you in some capacity, so by offering friendship and you accepting the diminished role in their life the weight of guilt they feel in making that decision to dump you is lifted.

2. Just in case….

Just in case things don’t work out with the new John or Jane Doe, having the safety and security haven of an ex that in their mind is still waiting for another opportunity. So by keeping you around as a “friend” if the grass is not greener then the….Hey remember our first date when you made me laugh type stuff starts to regurgitate.

3. Encumbers the natural healing process

By continually being “friends” with an ex the seed of hope which destroys the progression of healing continues to be watered and grows. Hey my ex text/phoned/ smiled at me that must mean they still wants me. When in general that is not the case, it’s the equivalent of starting on the 11 yard line in football, heaving an 89 yard pass for a touchdown but it being nullified due to a holding penalty that is ten yards and having to now start at the one yard line. Every time you think are getting ahead, feeling good the seed of hope pops up and you end up in even a worse spot than you were before.

To wrap it up as I always like to say people who I call friends have never made me feel disconsolate nor have they demoted me in their life. Life is already too short for any added further drama or stress. Just because someone dumps you does not make them a bad person nor do you have to hate them, they did what they thought was the best decision for their life, now it is time for you to do what is the best decision for your life.

 

[MikelArteta]

If a woman doesn't see you as valuable eject let her rot.

The 9-5 nikka who goes straight home after work is considered boring by the same female who will then complain about having a no good nikka the morning after while her guts are in the recovery stage from the night before....

BY THE SAME NO GOOD nikka WHO COMES IN WHENEVER HE WANTS..

Don't reform or conform for these bytches

 

[Born2BKing]

You win the fight?

Yeah but nothing to brag about. Dude was a bytch nikka.

 

[scarlxrd]

You better than me. I saw my ex a few weeks after we broke up at the club dancing with another nikka. I fought buddy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Wishy washy women don't respect or view you as valuable without that your nothing .

Respect and being viewed as valuable is everything

The hardest lesson to learn, breh. Once you get over the shine of a woman who wasted your time, you start to realize there was a long line of women who showed
interest in you who would have been better choices. Falling for whiny, wishy washy women are how you end up with a girl who will find any reason to cheat on you.
They are the same, though they won't admit to it.

 

[Rekkapryde]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

Gotta flash the signal breh...

 

[Dwolf]

Yeah but nothing to brag about. Dude was a bytch nikka.

Then it was worth it

 

[Rekkapryde]

You better than me. I saw my ex a few weeks after we broke up at the club dancing with another nikka. I fought buddy.

Yall nikkaz stupid.....

 

[Elle Driver]

Need to leave her alone since you clearly still have feelings for her. Just move on.