Staying friends with your ex...

[nairdas]

So me and this chick broke up and decided to remain friends. Now she is back with her old flame and he's this bum ass, no job, no car having piece of shyt who also is controlling as hell. He doesn't want her to talk to any men at all. Not say hi or nothing. shyt's crazy. I mean she let him move in with her one time and she said he didn't help her pay nothing. Like why even still talk to that trash after that?

Anyway, so apparently they've been arguing a lot about her still talking to me (we work together) and on top of that they're not fukking like she wants (I wanted to say bytch you shouldn't have left me when she told me that) so she frustrated as hell and it's getting to the point where she is starting to take it out on me. She catches an attitude real quick now and I try to be nice and just say calm down but I know eventually I'm going to snap on her. What should I do? I want to stop talking to her and I don't at the same time.

 

[Sleepy Walker]

Don't be friends with her you're just being an emotional crutch

 

[360dagod]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

 

[Alex Cross]

She ain't even yours and you're worried about her too much breh.

In the bushes is where she should be.

She made her bed....

 

[Mr.Forte]

Don't do it

It's always funny when they find out the grass isn't greener on the other side

 

[Born2BKing]

You better than me. I saw my ex a few weeks after we broke up at the club dancing with another nikka. I fought buddy.

 

[HoloGraphic]

She is weak. She went back to a dark place.

I wouldn't wait up for her. I've been that guy with that girl... The concept of friendship eludes me.

I'd let it go and move on with my life.

 

[Mr.Forte]

You better than me. I saw my ex a few weeks after we broke up at the club dancing with another nikka. I fought buddy.

That's some p*ssy ass nikka shyt

 

[Heafcliffe]

Keep work convos business- related only.

When she gets into about her relationship, hit her with "Sad to hear" and K.I.M. (i.e. act like you are talking a call or pull your phone out to respond to a text).

She depends on your "emotional" input. Fukk nuturing. Cut that off and let her look at herself ALONE.

 

[bigmac]

It ain't nuttin to cut that bytch off

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

At the title

And you know he was tapping that while u was wit her right

 

[Wildin]

for what?

 

[HoloGraphic]

The best thing to do with an ex is

And KIM

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

There's no way he's she's letting him do all that and he ain't piping her right unless she's doing some motherly instinct type of relationship where she feels the need to take care of him or something. Nothing more critical to self esteem than anything for a chick to say he was better . I had a homeboy that his girl did the same exact situation to him and they got back together and are happy now so....do what you feel bruh just be cautious.

 

[Abstract83]

Yo cut her off. Unless she single and giving u some p*ssy ain't no reason to stay in touch with her.

U don't need that emotional baggage in your life breh. Focus on you and get ur own shorty or shorties.

Just tell her straight up I'm not interested in what your doing with dude. Lose my number. Or just delete hers.