Step-Dad checks Biological Father.

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If this aint some internet shyt, I don't know what is :dead:
 

Dak Pickscott

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What's more important to you,
Seeing your child or "not wanting people in your business"?

Aren't people already in your business that they see you never have your child? then the police say hand over the child selfish bytch, the father is entitled to his time.

Why wouldn't you want legal paperwork that you can show the police if you go and she won't hand over your child?

Why wouldn't you want to exercise every single legal right that you have as a parent?
everybody not legal out here some of us illegal out here and the bm know that so they force you to go that route to see your child that shyt is not fair no matter the "legal" options there are out there to counter that type of parenting its not fair to be put through that
 

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Well if the step dad wasn't there then that little girl would mostly likely look for love somewhere else once she hits puberty and then end up continuing the cycle of black underachievement. Bless that step dad for trying to raise a queen..
 

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everybody not legal out here some of us illegal out here and the bm know that so they force you to go that route to see your child that shyt is not fair no matter the "legal" options there are out there to counter that type of parenting its not fair to be put through that

No matter what your situation I do agree that it's wrong that you're not allowed access to your child. she thinks she's only hurting you, but shes hurting her child even more.

I hope that you are able to work it out whatever way you can, even if it involves you getting some other shyt straight first.

Babies and children are wonderful blessings but they damn sure tie you to someone for at least 18 years that you may or may not want to be tied to.

Good luck breh.
 
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What's more important to you,
Seeing your child or "not wanting people in your business"?

Aren't people already in your business that they see you never have your child? then the police say hand over the child selfish bytch, the father is entitled to his time.

Why wouldn't you want legal paperwork that you can show the police if you go and she won't hand over your child?

Why wouldn't you want to exercise every single legal right that you have as a parent?


The courts dont give certain men rights especially if u have a record etc. these chicks will keep ur kid away and no this
 

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The courts dont give certain men rights especially if u have a record etc. these chicks will keep ur kid away and no this

The only men I know that don't have rights have child abuse or molestation type charges, or there really is something severely unsafe about them or their home.
My nephews mom''s ex tried to beat her to death while she was pregnant and kicked her down the stairs, it was so bad she has a lifetime restraining order against him.
He still has visitation. just has to go through his people.

Differenthe states have different rules so if you say you know of situations like that then I believe you. I just don't personally know of any regular non ongoing criminal activity or basic criminal record that's gonna completely bar you from visitation.

People, baby mama's and daddies need to choose better beforehand. afterwards it's too late.
 

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so i have to put the folks in my business just because this dumb bytch dont wanna let me see my child? fukk THAT
Is that what you're going to tell your child :scust:




Sorry I never saw you son. Your mom is a bytch


But dad couldn't you have gone to court like she took your punk ass for that 15k in back support?


Yea but instead of seeing you, I kept the folks out my business and that was a much better decision :mjgrin:
 

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This is some simp shyt only simp be super dad to dna that not theres. I know plenty who dated woman and had kids by single Moms and never took a pic or did anything with they kids. it's only mandatory for Simps not anyone else to have to be apart of the child life. They don't carry ur last name. They not ur dna stop breh
Well then In this situation, if the blk community had more simps like him, the blk community would be a better place...
 
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Well then In this situation, if the blk community had more simps like him, the blk community would be a better place...


Huh? how u figure. u dont know how long they will be together? nor u know if he actually a good simp dad. u just going off the instagram post. u know nothing about them. I rather woman pick the right man the first time so men dont have to go through this bs. or he stay out of the bm and bd buisness
 

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Is that what you're going to tell your child :scust:




Sorry I never saw you son. Your mom is a bytch


But dad couldn't you have gone to court like she took your punk ass for that 15k in back support?


Yea but instead of seeing you, I kept the folks out my business and that was a much better decision :mjgrin:
No we'll continue to try and contact him and let him know that our family wants to be apart of his life

he has a "cell phone" so we communicate with him through that way when possible but for all i know the bm has the phone

we extend invitations to come over to spend some time with us time after time but somehow he never "wants" to come...when my father died my brother contacted his BM about letting his son come to go to the funeral and she declined saying "he didn't know him (his grandfather)" smh

when he's 18 that communication hopefully can become more direct but until then we have to put it in God's hands
 
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