"Step" dad posts on Facebook why he won't pay for daughters wedding anymore
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EDIT: The immediate aftermath was tantrum and people sitting there mumbling while not actually saying anything to me, but to each other. After much yelling with the GF about me being selfish, I spent the night in my home office and no one knocked on my door, not once. Today's aftermath is kind of depressing for me. GF brought me Bride's wedding planner to show me how much work I was ruining. I thumbed through it, found a page in the music section for Father / Daughter dances. All of the songs were catered to Real Dad's taste. So I thought they were just being disrespectful, but now I'm feeling like they never really gave a crap at all, especially since the menu included two ingredients I'm allergic to, that actually made me laugh. Either way, I'm glad to be done, returned the planner and asked her when she and bride could move out. Also, I never promised to pay for the wedding. I offered them the use of my home when they were sure it was going to be small, but other than that, all I've heard is how it's the Bride's family that should pay, so, let it be the bride's family then, aka, not me.
EDIT: June 9th 1:15 am. Girlfriend and Bride are now moved out. They are moving in with the groom. It was very hard not to be petty with some of the "belongings" they took with them, but it's done and I switched out the locks and now it's time for a brew. I can't believe how popular this story got, but I feel good to be given support by so many. If I find out what happens with the wedding, I will let you know, but I can't guarantee that I will put in the effort to find out. From what I've heard they are trying to "scale things back" and get his parents to help out. GF burned bridges when I found out she tried to write herself a check on our joint account the day after the unpleasantness. By then I had already moved money, so I guess I'm a bigger ass than her, but I could feel it coming. That's all. Thanks.
Shyt is like clockwork with these hoes. As "complex" as women claim to be it's incredible how similar their characteristics are in certain situations.
This. /threadDisrespect your sugar daddy, brehettes
thats why I cant mess with single moms man, the kids will never see you as the equal to their parent. and then the real pops always there looking at you like 
I shot that club up in its prime, you getting the left overs.
I shot that club up in its prime, you getting the left overs.
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The brides parents pay for the wedding.
why tho? they're not getting married to him, I am lmao.
He was a deadbeat dad. So, he was out of the picture. It's not unusual for the biological father who divorces the wife to be out-of-sight, out-of-mind. You can't replace the biological father, but you can let him know that they aren't higher than the step dad who "acts" like the father of the family. Deadbeat dads usually understand that and take that L, because they usually having nothing to stand on.
Now, the reality check he got was rough. And, the step-daughter and his girlfriend treated him like crap once the bio-dad stepped back into the picture. If they invited all 20 of his friends and put his name on the wedding invitations, that would have been as easy $50,000 free wedding. So, they did it to themselves.
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I know one thing for sure, this wasn't blacks
Typical fake broke white chicks who a lot of black people think all these broads are living off daddy money but in reality worst than the sisters u nikkas hate at trying to find a rich dude so they don't have to work or even worst killed a dude to get insurance money and a whole lot of shyt
Some of These white chicks do anything not to get label as white trash by pretending to be something their not
Typical fake broke white chicks who a lot of black people think all these broads are living off daddy money but in reality worst than the sisters u nikkas hate at trying to find a rich dude so they don't have to work or even worst killed a dude to get insurance money and a whole lot of shyt
Some of These white chicks do anything not to get label as white trash by pretending to be something their not
The "parent" is the one who raised, supported and cared for the child, whether or not he is biological, he was still her parent. The man in the story is a simp and an idiot for even allowing himself to be placed in that position but at the end of the day, he did more for that girl and her mother than her biological father ever did and they will feel this in the future, it's all down hill for them two now..This is why it's imperative that a woman respect her man with the upmost respect..My wife wouldn't ever think to disrespect me in anyway because she knows there will be hell to play, women know when they got a weak ass sucka and they know when they got a real one..