Stephen A. Smith catching hell on twitter right now from his own Colleague at ESPN

[FTBS]

as men, we dont have the resources that women have when it comes to this shyt. i tried talking to my mom- she said pray about it. real dad- laugh at me. even the police that arrested her made light of the situation.

men should learn to speak out more about f-m dv, but how can you do that while maintaining some form of pride in this uber-macho society we live in? we as men should speak up on this topic, and allow men to speak on this topic without fear of being ridiculed, or being called a bytch.

Part of being a man is stepping up as a man even if it means you might be called a bytch. Ain't shyt macho about a society where grown ass men walk around with their pants hanging off their ass, gossiping and carrying on like bytches, living in their mama basement at 30+, having kids walking around that they don't support. That's real bytch shyt. Beating on your woman is bytch shyt. Sitting back taking and the beating is bytch shyt. I'd rather be a safe, reporting bytch than a battered one. Reporting a broad that is violating you is what a man should do. I am sure pops and those officers would have a much different reaction if you got killed or seriously hurt.

 

[theGoldmangod]

And you nikkas come off looking extra bitter on this shyt. You dudes know how many times Steph A has sold Black people down the river on this show??? But you nikkas hate broads so much you are willing to cape for HIM? Scust. I still remember the crap he was spitting about Black players' dress codes and even his comments during the Sterling debacle. fukk Stephen A.

 

[philmonroe]

Hold up....you must be BLIND to me pointing out the selective outrage of Beadle and all of these types.

I don't like Stephen A for this reason....he VICTIM BLAMES blacks for being victims of racism.
I don't like Beadle because SAS BEEN victim blaming and only NOW does she see it.

You rock for that clown if you want to.

We not going to change each others mind so we might as well save the old song and dance. Maybe others feel like you but you are going more harder than anybody else acting like people can't agree with people they don't like on an issue ever. That's why I know its some personal stuff with you and that's cool just own it and stop trying to strong arm others into your views with that garbage talk of yours. Agreeing with somebody don't necessarily mean you rock with them outside of a certain pov unless stated otherwise. If you believe you rock with SAS 100 off one agreement well as I said before you got it.

 

[The War Report]

So is Beadle gonna apologize for her actions too or nah?

Nobody tunes in to hear what Cari has to say.

 

[BLAZO da GAWD]

That plea copping was cringeworthy.

 

[Adebisi_Said]

Is Stephen A. really off of ESPN Radio? Beadle must be blowing some powerful people at ESPN.

 

[duncanthetall]

Part of being a man is stepping up as a man even if it means you might be called a bytch. Ain't shyt macho about a society where grown ass men walk around with their pants hanging off their ass, gossiping and carrying on like bytches, living in their mama basement at 30+, having kids walking around that they don't support. That's real bytch shyt. Beating on your woman is bytch shyt. Sitting back taking and the beating is bytch shyt. I'd rather be a safe, reporting bytch than a battered one. Reporting a broad that is violating you is what a man should do. I am sure pops and those officers would have a much different reaction if you got killed or seriously hurt.

Preach. KNOWWWWW if a bytch starts acting up on me, IMMA pull the camera out quick as fukk on some, "Huld up. 1) I want you to see later how you was acting. 2) Aint no goddamn way you bout to put hands on me and Imma catch a charge for defending myself". bytch will either get madder or fall the fukk back. Either way, you won

 

[NYC Rebel]

We not going to change each others mind so we might as well save the old song and dance. Maybe others feel like you but you are going more harder than anybody else acting like people can't agree with people they don't like on an issue ever. That's why I know its some personal stuff with you and that's cool just own it and stop trying to strong arm others into your views with that garbage talk of yours. Agreeing with somebody don't necessarily mean you rock with them outside of a certain pov unless stated otherwise. If you believe you rock with SAS 100 off one agreement well as I said before you got it.

You can know what you feel like knowing. I'm my own spokesman and have long on this board disliked SAS victim blaming. I'm from an era where we confronted racism, not tell niqqas how to live with it and if you don't, you're wrong . I will never tell another black man to live on his knees like SAS. That's clown shyt. Congrats on agreeing with that mentality

 

[The War Report]

im going to be completely honest. i have been a victim of female on male DV. THERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR IT, and men have almost zero resources for dealing with it. My situation went to the point where i got hit in the head with a hammer and had to call the law.
before that, i had gotten beaten with a pipe and left unconcsious. as a man, i felt i had nowhere to turn to, i had my own real father making fun of me calling me al green. i slipped into a deep depression. finally i called the law after the aforementioned situation. she got counseling and a year probation.

so when i say that the provoked argument is bullshyt, its because there have been 100's of times that i have been provoked. and honestly if i had reacted violently, i might not still be going through that shyt. BUT, i know that if i hit her, i am not a man. thats why i say there is no excuse.

You should of left her ungrateful ass, man.

 

[bigrice25]

im going to be completely honest. i have been a victim of female on male DV. THERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR IT, and men have almost zero resources for dealing with it. My situation went to the point where i got hit in the head with a hammer and had to call the law.
before that, i had gotten beaten with a pipe and left unconcsious. as a man, i felt i had nowhere to turn to, i had my own real father making fun of me calling me al green. i slipped into a deep depression. finally i called the law after the aforementioned situation. she got counseling and a year probation.

so when i say that the provoked argument is bullshyt, its because there have been 100's of times that i have been provoked. and honestly if i had reacted violently, i might not still be going through that shyt. BUT, i know that if i hit her, i am not a man. thats why i say there is no excuse.

Breh... all we are saying (i think...) is that if she hit you with that pipe, then you in turn decked her dubmass.... WE WOULD UNDERSTAND.......

You shouldnt be the one held totally responsible for reacting to somebody assaulting you....

 

[NatiboyB]

Nobody tunes in to hear what Cari has to say.

I tune in to watch

 

[philmonroe]

You can know what you feel like knowing. I'm my own spokesman and have long on this board disliked SAS victim blaming. I'm from an era where we confronted racism, not tell niqqas how to live with it and if you don't, you're wrong . I will never tell another black man to live on his knees like SAS. That's clown shyt. Congrats on agreeing with that mentality

Look at this emotional shyt. Fam lay off the shyt I didn't say none of that shyt about co signing that part of SAS but you keep right on believing whatever you'd like to believe to make you feel better.

 

[FTBS]

Preach. KNOWWWWW if a bytch starts acting up on me, IMMA pull the camera out quick as fukk on some, "Huld up. 1) I want you to see later how you was acting. 2) Aint no goddamn way you bout to put hands on me and Imma catch a charge for defending myself". bytch will either get madder or fall the fukk back. Either way, you won

We gotta pick better. Some of the baddest bytches with the best p*ssy and the best mouth are batshyt crazy. Learned that shyt the hard way. I encourage dudes (and females for that matter) to be more aware of the warning signs. shyt like this doesn't come out of nowhere.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Part of being a man is stepping up as a man even if it means you might be called a bytch. Ain't shyt macho about a society where grown ass men walk around with their pants hanging off their ass, gossiping and carrying on like bytches, living in their mama basement at 30+, having kids walking around that they don't support. That's real bytch shyt. Beating on your woman is bytch shyt. Sitting back taking and the beating is bytch shyt. I'd rather be a safe, reporting bytch than a battered one. Reporting a broad that is violating you is what a man should do. I am sure pops and those officers would have a much different reaction if you got killed or seriously hurt.

crazy thing is, my sisters and my niece (rip) had the opposite reaction than most men i told. they instantly wanted to whip that ass and didnt go the victim blaming route. men are generally taught to just deal with dv. the only male who didnt make light of the situation was my nephew, who was raised up with me as a brother.

this topic, along with mental illness, is one that we a black community need to discuss and reassess.

 

[NatiboyB]

You can know what you feel like knowing. I'm my own spokesman and have long on this board disliked SAS victim blaming. I'm from an era where we confronted racism, not tell niqqas how to live with it and if you don't, you're wrong . I will never tell another black man to live on his knees like SAS. That's clown shyt. Congrats on agreeing with that mentality

I co-sign this to the fullest...But problem is I still support Stephen A stance on this even though he doesn't support his own community..I'm kind of torn...I can't stand him to be honest...But he's right on this one...However when you factor in if they were talking about African Americans instead I bet you Beadle wouldn't of had an issue at all...Stephen A is a prolific yassa boss to me.