Stephen Jackson- The quickest way for the demise of a successful black man is a bitter black woman

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How women are trying to destroy and rob a successful black man, taking him through financial hell, keeping him from seeing his children, talking shyt about the father to the children, lying on the father saying he did some deprave shyt to hurt this man, just doing anything she can to put him out of a job and put jail but still want money from him even if hes broke. Like how is he suppose to pony-up if you are trying to get him fired and put him in jail???

But this is only an issue if you as a successful black man don't vet these women thoroughly before fukking them raw. It's the same as how you have triffling ass dudes that can't support themselves, let alone a baby, making babies. It's on women not to let these nikkas fukk them raw or at the very least to get on the pill or one of the other forms of birth control. This stuff is totally avoidable and the person with most to lose should be the main one trying to avoid it.
 

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stephen jackson preaching and giving game to the young ones about his own mistakes:yeshrug:

I agreed with everything he said but the only thing he gotta chill with is comparing Bitter Baby Mamas to Cop killing innocent black ppl :mjtf:
 

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Never said I did but I’m not seeing how throwing blame on black women in this thread is helpful to the bad decisions some of you have made when it comes to the women you choose to be with.

I don’t care who he is, I don’t like the pointing fingers at women all the time. Some of you have a victim mentality that exposes itself in these types of threads all the time.
:dwillhuh:What. The. fukk.


ma’am did u watch the video? he said he chose to lay down with multiple women and he takes accountability for those actions. not once did he blame black women. again he is the author of his own misery which he acknowledges

he said BITTER black women can destroy your life... which is fact

just like fukk nikkas can destroy the world of a young black woman.

choose wisely both men and women
 

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Unfortunately majority of dudes STILL get caught up in this. Men have been giving other men this advice for decades, my stepdad tried to tell me in the late 90s.
We think with our dikks though and only the lucky few avoid these kind of mistakes :yeshrug:
If you get caught up let it only happen ONCE at least
 

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I agree about the black woman part. That's nothing more than clickbait. However, saying "a bitter black woman will ruin your life" is not taking accountability. Bitter black women are not what put him in this situation. Being reckless is. That's the moral of the story. No matter how shytty a woman is, she can't do shyt to you if you don't let her in. I know plenty of dudes in durags that are quite profound and plenty of dudes in suits with massive vocabluaries that don't have anything real to say. If all you got is a 4 minute video on IG from a stranger, they you are fukked. Young men need older men that are actually in their lives to step up and give them the game and more importantly check their bullshyt before life does it the hard way.

I think you missed me defending him, I wasn't shytting on him wearing a durag. I think it's weird breaking down every word he said like it's a prepared sermon

You're putting requirments on his expression by litterally taking something he said out of context.

Keyword is "bitter," but, ya'll turned it to "black women will ruin your life."

Ya'll can't even go with him not caring for his kids IF (keyword if) he really has paid millions in child support.

My problem with your reply is; he started with my decisions put me in this situation and your 2 cents is well, his decisions put him this situation

And you don't see the problem with that position :mjlol:

Let this man vent and express himself

Which is why most men don't open up to tooany people especially women . You can sit back and knowledge the role you played and take accountability for your action. Then in a debate or heated argument it will get tossed back in your face as pretty much to shame you or gaslight your experience . This why I don't like to talk about myself around people I don't want people to know a whole lot about me ....

Most people in the comments "What about white/latina woman? This is your fault!" :laugh:
 

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I think you missed me defending him, I wasn't shytting on him wearing a durag. I think it's weird breaking down every word he said like it's a prepared sermon

You're putting requirments on his expression by litterally taking something he said out of context.

Keyword is "bitter," but, ya'll turned it to "black women will ruin your life."

Ya'll can't even go with him not caring for his kids IF (keyword if) he really has paid millions in child support.

My problem with your reply is; he started with my decisions put me in this situation and your 2 cents is well, his decisions put him this situation

And you don't see the problem with that position :mjlol:

Let this man vent and express himself



Most people in the comments "What about white/latina woman? This is your fault!" :laugh:

Please don't "ya'll" me. I speak for myself only. I agreed with you about the black women part. The problem with what he said is that "my decisions put me in this position" is all there is to say. That's all there is for young men to learn or take away. When you start with accountability and then talk about how wrong someone else is/was you are contradicting yourself. It doesn't matter how bitter or evil or shytty a broad is if you do what you are supposed to do.
 

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He is preaching to the choir. Like someone else said, he was told the same thing by some washed up nikka who went bankrupt because of having 10 kids with 10 women...then went and did the same thing because at the time he was young and the millions were rolling in so he didnt give it a second thought.

Most dudes have to find out the hard way unfortunately which is why these cycles of 1 dude having 5 babymamas will never end :yeshrug:

It doesnt help that women in their prime are attracted to the same men. I read an article that 70% of young black women have kids compared to 45% of black men. But we still get the label of deadbeats :francis:

If you are a black man in your 20s or 30s, stop placing getting p*ssy as your number one priority. Focus on building wealth, getting physically fit, and attaining tangible skills and knowledge and it will pay off in the future. Nowadays this advice is considered incel babble so oh well, enjoy paying child support:yeshrug:
These young idiots act like the times change but the only thing changing is shyt getting worse as more people are added to the mix
 

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All of Stephen Jackson’s baby mothers are black hence why he racialized it. This is his experience that he is speaking from. Him not speaking on white, Asian, or Hispanic women isn’t him saying that these women also aren’t bitter. It’s JUST NOT HIS STORY TO TELL!

But please remember when Tarana Burke said it wasn’t her job to go after white men, it was because her experiences were only with black men. Her not going after white men was her saying that these men weren’t also guilty. It JUST WASN'T HER STORY TO TELL!
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But this is only an issue if you as a successful black man don't vet these women thoroughly before fukking them raw. It's the same as how you have triffling ass dudes that can't support themselves, let alone a baby, making babies. It's on women not to let these nikkas fukk them raw or at the very least to get on the pill or one of the other forms of birth control. This stuff is totally avoidable and the person with most to lose should be the main one trying to avoid it.
A dusty nikka won’t try to completely destroy or defame his bm or turn his child against his bm like a woman would. Let’s keep this buck.
 

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If a man is complaining about how bitter sister's are holding him back due to decisions he had plenty of control over, then yeah I'm gonna say it's on him.

Same way I'd say it about a sister if they were the one complaining.

I agree it’s on him. But if you’re going to hold the man to a higher standard of conduct than the woman then let me know that they’re not equal
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When men abandon their families no woman is blamed for her choice in men. You know it and I know it...
 

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no wasn’t bullshyt he’s talking specifically about brothas, not cacs or anyone else.. He told no lies period... white women get their child support and keep it moving, that’s the shyt y’all cats don’t understand.. what stack is saying is after black women get the bag they still want to see you suffer in your new relationships and other things in life you are happy with. White bytches get their money and disappear

Thread shoulda ended here
 

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Brooklyn keeps on taking it.
Don’t feel sorry for dudes who use “running wild” as an excuse to use protection.


What Jack is saying isn’t even game. It’s crazy how common sense in the black community = game.

I’ll never understand dudes who see what other men go through with baby mama and HIV and somehow still proceed to run wild.


I got dikk head homies on Facebook now who only preach about doing it raw and I’m supposed to feel sorry for them if they end up having 3 baby mamas or an STD?
 
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