Suffice it to say the lifestyle he is living is based on a culture and a mentality. Until he fixes that in himself, it won’t matter who he puts his dikk into. I’m glad he is at least acknowledging the role he plays in this dysfunction, but he also needs to understand the crux of this issue isn’t him dealing with black women. There are plenty of biracial kids with absent blk fathers too. And you can find plenty of methhead bitter white trash chicks making some blk men’s lives hell too. So even when you take the evil, bulldog, hairhat, nonsubmissive, dark butt, aggressive, masculine, blk bytches (did I miss any labels

) out of the equation, you are left with one common denominator: the minority within a minority of blk men who have “muh dikk” mentality.
Men are masters of deflection but deflecting to women won’t save you. Blk male culture spent 3 decades emblazoning how horrible blk women are in hip hop and pop culture. Ya’ll have already inundated yourselves with “bytches aint shyt, we don’t love these hoes, fukk bytches” mentality. After decades of pure anti-bw indoctrination and warning labels and full fledged acknowledgement of how evil and nasty and treacherous blk allegedly women are, these dudes STILL going raw in the worst women they can find. AND repeating that pattern even with the allegedly perfect, submissive, light-hearted, fun Beckies, Ling Lings, and Margaritas of the world.
Why? Because our culture has brainwashed black men into viewing their sexuality as both their primary source of value and the primary purpose in life. It’s the internalization of the oversexed blk buck stereotype. To the extent that even when they get successful, get out of the hood, have access to better blk women and non-blk women they STILL choose dysfunctional lifestyles. Yes Future. I’m talking to you.
Until they deal with this internal psychosis, they will be doomed to repeat these dysfunctional lifestyles regardless of socioeconomics, mate selection, and race of the women they deal with.
And please spare me the “you hate blk men, you bitter, you”



hoemotional responses. Ya’ll know exactly what the hell im talking about. It just doesn’t feel good to hear it coming from a woman.
I get that but I’m tired of going round and round and not addressing this shyt.
And yes this dysfunctional culture impacts blk women as well. Namely in their curious misconception that a dude fukking them raw somehow equals love and affection.

What?! How do u think these chicks
became bitter? The “trap a nikka” component of blk female culture is probably one of the dumbest things I’ve ever seen.
But all of this shyt comes from being raised in dysfunctional environments and trying to act like it’s okay.
Nobody in my family on either side has any illegitimate children out of wedlock. The males in my family look at dudes like these like they scum. And the women in my family think these kinds of chicks are damn near helmet level dumb. It’s not because we are uptight or conservative or prudish about sex. But simply b/c not being able to control ur dikk and vagina is impractical and not conducive to a good life.

You can literally fukk whoever u want. Go to Outworld and give Katana some back shots, buss it open for whatever Tom, Dikk and Harry you want. But in the age of contraception ain’t no excuse for 8 baby mamas and daddies unless some dysfunction in you makes u unable to control urself or u trying to use sex to work thru some deeper inadequacies.