Stephen Jackson- The quickest way for the demise of a successful black man is a bitter black woman

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When you start with accountability and then talk about how wrong someone else is/was you are contradicting yourself. It doesn't matter how bitter or evil or shytty a broad is if you do what you are supposed to do.

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He ain’t lie :manny:

I got a cousin who making bank in IT. Was running around wild in his teens/early 20s got 3 kids with 3 different women. he married happily and has a kid with his wife but the other two tearing him alive with child support.

I remember him telling me imagine making way over 6 figures but only seeing 60% of it :francis:
He's got three kids by three women, and the baby mothers are the problem, and not him? :gucci:
 

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All of Stephen Jackson’s baby mothers are black hence why he racialized it. This is his experience that he is speaking from. Him not speaking on white, Asian, or Hispanic women isn’t him saying that these women also aren’t bitter. It’s JUST NOT HIS STORY TO TELL!

But please remember when Tarana Burke said it wasn’t her job to go after white men, it was because her experiences were only with black men. Her not going after white men was her saying that these men weren’t also guilty. It JUST WASN'T HER STORY TO TELL!
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The difference is Burke is a tool propped by white supramacists and MeToo THEORETICALLY is a movement designed to go after sexual predators REGARDLESS OF RACE. As the figurehead of the movemenT, It was within her duty to use her platform to go after the white males accused of sex crimes and harassment. When she specifically said she will not go after white males that reinforces the notion she is out to protect white daddy from MeToo and was only visible when the RKelly’s and Bill Cosby’s go to trail. The same vitriol for black males never applies to white males.

This guy not only is telling his personal experiences but he isn’t telling it from a place of hatred and bitterness as he takes full responsibility for his actions . He isn’t even lecturing to Black women. He is lecturing to the black man. 9/10 when a famous bw “lectures” a black man it comes from a place of jadedness as least and hate at most. It’s not like your momma giving you lectures which comes from a place of love (most of the time).
 

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Lmaoooo that's absolutely not what I said. Never said he shouldn't say it I said it's sad he had to. I'm upset people don't think before they act. THAT'S IT. Your lack of comprehension skills resulted in you thinking I'm upset with him and not impulsive people in general. All of that other men bashing bs you're hoebabbling about is superfluous.


How this got turned into I'm male bashing/shytting on him for being accountable for his fukk ups is wild as fukk :snoop:

What a lot of people don't realize is if you keep attracting ain't shyt mfers, that really means you ain't shyt neither..
 

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Bingo he just complaining because he had to pay child support to 5 different baby mommas. That’s reckless behavior right there, he’s a nba player what he thinks those women are not going to want money from him?


So are you saying Women by nature are gold diggers?
 

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What a lot of people don't realize is if you keep attracting ain't shyt mfers, that really means you ain't shyt neither..


THANK YOU!!!! When I hear people constantly say men/women ain't shyt I know they suck at life and ain't shyt. People tell on themselves without even knowing it. Keep making the same mistakes and end up confused as to why their lives are shyt.
 

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Suffice it to say the lifestyle he is living is based on a culture and a mentality. Until he fixes that in himself, it won’t matter who he puts his dikk into. I’m glad he is at least acknowledging the role he plays in this dysfunction, but he also needs to understand the crux of this issue isn’t him dealing with black women. There are plenty of biracial kids with absent blk fathers too. And you can find plenty of methhead bitter white trash chicks making some blk men’s lives hell too. So even when you take the evil, bulldog, hairhat, nonsubmissive, dark butt, aggressive, masculine, blk bytches (did I miss any labels:mjlol:) out of the equation, you are left with one common denominator: the minority within a minority of blk men who have “muh dikk” mentality.

Men are masters of deflection but deflecting to women won’t save you. Blk male culture spent 3 decades emblazoning how horrible blk women are in hip hop and pop culture. Ya’ll have already inundated yourselves with “bytches aint shyt, we don’t love these hoes, fukk bytches” mentality. After decades of pure anti-bw indoctrination and warning labels and full fledged acknowledgement of how evil and nasty and treacherous blk allegedly women are, these dudes STILL going raw in the worst women they can find. AND repeating that pattern even with the allegedly perfect, submissive, light-hearted, fun Beckies, Ling Lings, and Margaritas of the world.

Why? Because our culture has brainwashed black men into viewing their sexuality as both their primary source of value and the primary purpose in life. It’s the internalization of the oversexed blk buck stereotype. To the extent that even when they get successful, get out of the hood, have access to better blk women and non-blk women they STILL choose dysfunctional lifestyles. Yes Future. I’m talking to you.

Until they deal with this internal psychosis, they will be doomed to repeat these dysfunctional lifestyles regardless of socioeconomics, mate selection, and race of the women they deal with.

And please spare me the “you hate blk men, you bitter, you”:angry::angry::angry: hoemotional responses. Ya’ll know exactly what the hell im talking about. It just doesn’t feel good to hear it coming from a woman.
I get that but I’m tired of going round and round and not addressing this shyt.
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And yes this dysfunctional culture impacts blk women as well. Namely in their curious misconception that a dude fukking them raw somehow equals love and affection. :mjlol: What?! How do u think these chicks became bitter? The “trap a nikka” component of blk female culture is probably one of the dumbest things I’ve ever seen.
But all of this shyt comes from being raised in dysfunctional environments and trying to act like it’s okay.

Nobody in my family on either side has any illegitimate children out of wedlock. The males in my family look at dudes like these like they scum. And the women in my family think these kinds of chicks are damn near helmet level dumb. It’s not because we are uptight or conservative or prudish about sex. But simply b/c not being able to control ur dikk and vagina is impractical and not conducive to a good life.

:yeshrug: You can literally fukk whoever u want. Go to Outworld and give Katana some back shots, buss it open for whatever Tom, Dikk and Harry you want. But in the age of contraception ain’t no excuse for 8 baby mamas and daddies unless some dysfunction in you makes u unable to control urself or u trying to use sex to work thru some deeper inadequacies.
 

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Woman looks twords men to lead.

I'm saying if you gone reverse roles, keep it all in context.

Not just with generalizations.

Who the fukk is trying to "reverse roles??" Im saying a black man will NOT go and try to destroy a woman like a woman would. YOu are going way into something that does NOT need to be going into. SO are you saying a man who is trying to take a woman to court is feminine?? That's a female trait?? Oh btw are also women on child support, ask Halle Berry.

We are actually living in a society where its ok for a woman to destroy a successful man :dead: Ole bu bu bu pick bettter-ass nikkas yet absolve the women in ANY responsibility for the money to stop coming in and switching dates for the father to not see the child just to name a few of the fukkshyt that goes on. But its all the man's fault, right?? :skip:
 

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A woman could change over time, doesn’t make it a man’s fault if she tries to ruin him :wtf:

No one said it was his fault. However, as an adult you are accountable for your own well-being. No perfectly innocent and righteous woman just turns evil out of nowhere. Was he really even checking to see how they were cut? And let's be real...there are plenty of good women that would never think about trying to ruin him that he looked right past for a fat ass. This is the same thing women do when they breed with a shytty man...make it about that man and try to act like his shyttiness was a big surprise that some simple vetting wouldn't have uncovered.
 

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100% facts :yeshrug:

my uncle baby moms makes 100k, kids live with her.. she still tryna milk this nikka for everything
bruh worked half his salary in overtime last year to get a nice car
judge counted the overtime as base salary and said she didnt care that it was overtime shes going based on what it said on his income report
so basically he's forced to do overtime or he cant live
 
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