Stephen Jackson- The quickest way for the demise of a successful black man is a bitter black woman

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I agreed with his message until that last minute. Bitter baby mamas, in general, are an issue. And I’ve seen the scenario play out on both sides. I’ve known women and currently even have friend that is definitely bitter and won’t let the breh see his child and got her POV and I’ve seen the other side of the scenario, in how it’s impacted a couple of Brehs who’s baby mama would never let them see the kids. Its very toxic, and cautionary tale for anyone that has a child with someone he can’t see himself with the rest of his life.

He stated nothing but facts but I'm not going to go deeper but my mother was the first black women that I heard say black men anit shyt ....I'm leave it at that cause he could have went deeper .

One thing that parents have to recognize is that kids listen to what you say and remember things you say especially if it’s a message that relates to the child. I always recognized this with my own situation, no matter how much we got into it, I would never talk ish about him to my fam and especially not in front of my son. I don’t talk about men at all in front of my son. I don’t bring my son over my friends houses anymore for that reason either. As I’ve noticed that with my friends when we get together as a group, that the conversations being had don’t have that awareness, even when their kids are in the next room. Conversations about having sex with brehs, talking shyt about men, letting Brehs do sleepovers at your house when they aren’t your man—all of those things make impressions on kids that are impressionable.

But it’s not just bw. I’ve seen these situations take place with others too. I think it’s important that people recognize how game changing children are—you have to be willing to put aside differences, make sacrifices, and think more carefully about what you do and say, and what your modeling when it comes to your children.


anyways bitterness will make even the sweetest shyt taste sour—if you have a lot to loose, then you must act like it.

In his case he didn’t. Thankfully he’s spreading his cautionary tale to other brehs.
 

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It a conversation that the so called "community" will never have. It will always come back to black men ALWAYS. Matter of a fact I would say most young men are breed to protect the image of black women ...even in the wrong. Who is BREED to protect our image as black men? Listen I'm all for holding black men accountable but you can always tell who run your "community" by the same people you can't criticize. I'm old enough now that I don't want to be around nikkas with that single mother ideology.
The "black matriarchy" issue is only a reality for Black men who are failures - point, blank, period.
 

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no wasn’t bullshyt he’s talking specifically about brothas, not cacs or anyone else.. He told no lies period... white women get their child support and keep it moving, that’s the shyt y’all cats don’t understand.. what stack is saying is after black women get the bag they still want to see you suffer in your new relationships and other things in life you are happy with. White bytches get their money and disappear
this is incredibly wrong and ignorant lol
 

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100% facts :yeshrug:

my uncle baby moms makes 100k, kids live with her.. she still tryna milk this nikka for everything
bruh worked half his salary in overtime last year to get a nice car
judge counted the overtime as base salary and said she didnt care that it was overtime shes going based on what it said on his income report
so basically he's forced to do overtime or he cant live



:why: nikkas still out here having kids KNOWING the system ain’t playing games.


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this is incredibly wrong and ignorant lol
Its really not when you have plenty of examples of white bytches just taking your money and leaving.... I'll let ya'll cats cook...

but like I said Stack is speaking from a perspective of him dealing with black women and no one else.
 

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100% facts :yeshrug:

my uncle baby moms makes 100k, kids live with her.. she still tryna milk this nikka for everything
bruh worked half his salary in overtime last year to get a nice car
judge counted the overtime as base salary and said she didnt care that it was overtime shes going based on what it said on his income report
so basically he's forced to do overtime or he cant live
NY family court judges are the fukkin worst too when it comes to the allocation of child support and black men
 
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Stephen Jackson is a prime example of why black men aren't respected in this world, nikkaz can never take accountability for their own demise

its always somebody else or something outside of them

naw, its your fault if you make dumb decisions with women, its your fault if you got baby mamas, is your fault if a bytch get for your money, its your fault if get caught cheating on your wife with a thot

this nikka too old to be saying shyt like this its pitiful
 

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dude is lying his ass off about not being able to see his kids.

if he's been in court enough to be ordered to pay millions of dollars, then he could have asked those same judges for either custody or some form of minimum visitation to see his kids.

he sounds bitter and also appears to be a POS parent. bad look for Stak
This.
 

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Its really not when you have plenty of examples of white bytches just taking your money and leaving.... I'll let ya'll cats cook...

but like I said Stack is speaking from a perspective of him dealing with black women and no one else.
any race of women can fukk you over and when you making more than 6 figures and are famous you have to realize they are all gold diggers
 

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Stephen Jackson is a prime example of why black men aren't respected in this world, nikkaz can never take accountability for their own demise

its always somebody else or something outside of them

naw, its your fault if you make dumb decisions with women, its your fault if you got baby mamas, is your fault if a bytch get for your money, its your fault if get caught cheating on your wife with a thot

this nikka too old to be saying shyt like this its pitiful

You watch the video? dude said he takes full responsibility for his actions like 5 to 6 times in the vid...
 

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I thought you was bullshytting and throwing in extras but ya he kicked that bullshyt toward the very end smh...I would’ve agreed w/ him if he had just kept it @ bitter baby mothers regardless of race...white bytches be hemming up these athletes too once they secure the “baby” bag from some of these dummies who never see it coming
he only date bw tho. i bet he clears it up to let ya'll know he meant all bitter baby mothers and not specifically bw. it should be noted that 80% of all married black men are married to bw. i think he's also talking about bm who date bw exclusively.

Stack's no dummy, not the most eloquent but he's no dummy.
 

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Brooklyn keeps on taking it.
Bitter bm come in all colors. So to target bw makes no sense.

He should be talking to rappers more than nba players. In entertainment rappers date bw by far the most alot more than nba or nfl players.

Its very likely a non bw is screwing over nba and nfl players in child support

Its intresting he said get married and commit to one woman. Gmb wont like that

He made good points tho outside of targeting bw specifically


Most black men deal with black women so I think it makes perfect sense. What where people do is none of our business
 
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