Stephen Jackson- The quickest way for the demise of a successful black man is a bitter black woman

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The fact that he had to make a video telling people to use common sense is sad. So many people be out here moving reckless as hell. I never understood it when everything has consequences. A few minutes of pleasure ain't worth a lifetime of struggle and strife.

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So, you acknowledge you do understand...but, your against him sharing?

This is why I laugh at "Men need to express themselves" Twitter/Coli/IG because in fact, there is a narrow bit of things men are able to say.

THE VERY FIRST THING HE GOES THROUGH is; Accountability for his current situation. Then goes into how it makes him feel.
 

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Michael Strahan would like to have a word with you

let’s talk about it... she got his football bag and bounced... couple years go by after retirement and he blew up with kelly and Micheal show and after then good morning America.. his kids mom decided to resurface to get his GMA bag YEARSSSSSSSSSS after him being retired and his twin daughters being 16 yrs old.. it was her last attempt after Mike already satisfied his financial obligation..

but the point of reference is she thought he wouldn’t do shyt after retirement and the football bag was sufficient and she kept it moving
 

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Most of us don’t get it because we don’t see/witness it nor do we listen to understand when something we are unfamiliar with is being told to us. It took me a while to understand why the old heads were giving me advice and it was particularly because they saw a pattern in me which I was unaware of at the time.

Most people thought Coronavirus was a hoax or unreal until they see people they know affected by it. I didn’t know the difference in wealth until I was around those types of people.
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He ain’t lie :manny:

I got a cousin who making bank in IT. Was running around wild in his teens/early 20s got 3 kids with 3 different women. he married happily and has a kid with his wife but the other two tearing him alive with child support.

I remember him telling me imagine making way over 6 figures but only seeing 60% of it :francis:
Sucks but that is kinda his fault tho:patrice:
 
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I was told by an old guy you should only marry a woman if you dont mind if your daughter turns out exactly like her.
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Y’all really be acting like you know so much about other races of women to compartmentalize each into what they will and won’t do.

You have no stats or anything. You just have some men like this clown who are more vocal that’s it.

If I were to say that black men hate taking care of their children based on how many get angry about child support and that men of other races just pay and move on, would you say that was accurate?

Do you even know that of all races, black women have the least in regards to child support? Most of them are not even receiving it.
You don’t know me from a can of paint to say I don’t know what the fukk I’m talking about

and to step on your point I have plenty of friends and even family who dealt with all races of women of baby mommas.. I saw the shyt for myself
 
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Jesus Christ, if you read the comments he admitted multiple times that all his BM’s are black and he takes full responsibility for it. Thus he is speaking from experience....and knowing damn well most black men end up with black women. nikkas up in here deflecting taking about all women. He didn’t deal with ALL women, just blackwomen. Most successful black men don’t deal with “all women”.

I know a relative who is dealing with hell with ONE (and only) BM who is dragging him through hell with his one (and only) daughter. Just a nasty, spiteful bytch trying to destroy this one successful brother by lying on him saying some depraved shyt proven to be false in the court of law. That what ONE has to deal with. So he isn’t lying. But no one wants to have an honest discussion about this, it’s always flipped back to black men. :francis:

Didn’t even read the thread, but I can tell it’s a bunch of chirp-chirps and simps deflecting instead of the real issue at hand.

What is that issue?
"Choose Better" Coli comes out early :mjlol:

He starts out taking responsibility and if he only has black women as the mother of his children, how is he supposed to talk about latina/white women?

I don't expect a dude recording, sweaty in a durag after a workout to have something profound to say.

The issue here is; all young men have are dudes like Stak because "The Culture" says men should shut up and listen to women with no nuance in how to operate in a relationship.

I agree about the black woman part. That's nothing more than clickbait. However, saying "a bitter black woman will ruin your life" is not taking accountability. Bitter black women are not what put him in this situation. Being reckless is. That's the moral of the story. No matter how shytty a woman is, she can't do shyt to you if you don't let her in. I know plenty of dudes in durags that are quite profound and plenty of dudes in suits with massive vocabluaries that don't have anything real to say. If all you got is a 4 minute video on IG from a stranger, they you are fukked. Young men need older men that are actually in their lives to step up and give them the game and more importantly check their bullshyt before life does it the hard way.
 
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:francis:

So, you acknowledge you do understand...but, your against him sharing?

This is why I laugh at "Men need to express themselves" Twitter/Coli/IG because in fact, there is a narrow bit of things men are able to say.

THE VERY FIRST THING HE GOES THROUGH is; Accountability for his current situation. Then goes into how it makes him feel.


Which is why most men don't open up to tooany people especially women . You can sit back and knowledge the role you played and take accountability for your action. Then in a debate or heated argument it will get tossed back in your face as pretty much to shame you or gaslight your experience . This why I don't like to talk about myself around people I don't want people to know a whole lot about me ....
 

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You said people weren't addressing the real issue at hand. I didn't want to assume anything.
How women are trying to destroy and rob a successful black man, taking him through financial hell, keeping him from seeing his children, talking shyt about the father to the children, lying on the father saying he did some deprave shyt to hurt this man, just doing anything she can to put him out of a job and put jail but still want money from him even if hes broke. Like how is he suppose to pony-up if you are trying to get him fired and put him in jail???
 
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