There is truth here. However, people...most people don't do what they should. It's unrealistic to think you are gonna go through life with everyone doing what they are supposed to do. Therefore, as an adult that is responsible for your own well-being and the well-being of any child you my have, it is your job to make the best decisions possible or deal with the shorter end of the stick. The reality is, you are gonna be equally pushing this kid out or equally raising or finanically supporting this child...and that's if you are together. Damn sure ain't happening if you aren't together. And no matter how shytty the mother or the father is towards the other, the person that always suffers the most is the kid. That's what people don't think about. You fukk some stranger, end up beefing with said stranger, and the kid that you both created is stuck with a bitter, burned out mother and/or a an absentee father that they barely have a relationship with if they have any relationship at all. That's the shorter end of the stick and they didn't even have a say in the matter.
Stephen Jackson- The quickest way for the demise of a successful black man is a bitter black woman
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There is truth here. However, people...most people don't do what they should. It's unrealistic to think you are gonna go through life with everyone doing what they are supposed to do. Therefore, as an adult that is responsible for your own well-being and the well-being of any child you my have, it is your job to make the best decisions possible or deal with the shorter end of the stick. The reality is, you are gonna be equally pushing this kid out or equally raising or finanically supporting this child...and that's if you are together. Damn sure ain't happening if you aren't together. And no matter how shytty the mother or the father is towards the other, the person that always suffers the most is the kid. That's what people don't think about. You fukk some stranger, end up beefing with said stranger, and the kid that you both created is stuck with a bitter, burned out mother and/or a an absentee father that they barely have a relationship with if they have any relationship at all. That's the shorter end of the stick and they didn't even have a say in the matter.
filial_piety
Banned
i'm late to this one... but He's right 
...and yes we know that all women can be that way...but let's be fair here...if BW said something like this about BM...they'd ALL claim that it wasn't talking about "all BM"...and would still agree with it. Not one BW would step up and deny it....so I aint deny it.
...and yes we know that all women can be that way...but let's be fair here...if BW said something like this about BM...they'd ALL claim that it wasn't talking about "all BM"...and would still agree with it. Not one BW would step up and deny it....so I aint deny it.
MysticMonroe
All Star
5 baby mamas but its the 100% the moms fault. Its 50/50 blame after the 2nd baby mama he should have been more careful. And if he is paying millions in child support and not seeing his kids. He should tell that to courts and not Instagram. I hear so many dudes talk about the baby mom is keeping the kids from me and not doing anything about it. If you go to pick up the kids and she doesnt hand the kid over call the cops. Matt Barnes, Stevie J, Chris Brown & Ludacris have all fought and beat their baby moms in court over the moms abusing the system and won.
Stevie J had to do that with his 5th baby mama. He even got temporary full custody of her.
Stevie J Gets Arrest Warrant for Joseline Hernandez in Custody Case
Stevie J had to do that with his 5th baby mama. He even got temporary full custody of her.
Stevie J Gets Arrest Warrant for Joseline Hernandez in Custody Case