SheWantTheD
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This is in relation to the thread "50% of wives say husband isn't their best sex partner"
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/50-o...ead-than-have-sex.465667/page-7#post-20990609
A lot of western women don't know what they want and many of those that do, the man they want simply does not exist. Men in general are not winning because of this. Whether it be the exciting, adventurous, spontaneous bad boy or the nice guy simp who women see as husband material. They may give their youth years to the former type of man, but when it comes time to settle down and have a family, they try to change this man to become the father/husband type or they leave him knowing the relationship was temporary. And if he in fact gives in to her ultimatums and threats, and takes on the husband and father role, she eventually becomes bored and wants him to go back to how he used to be.
When it comes to raising children properly and living an exciting, spontaneous lifestyle.. you can't have your cake and eat it too. Parents who do things on a whim are terrible parents and their children suffer for it. Women understand this yet they are still unhappy in their marriages. If you need drama and excitement so much, take up a new hobby or go watch a movie. If your husband takes care of business and does everything to keep the family unit in-tact then what's the problem?
Don't change yourself for women because in the end it will backfire on you. They want someone that they can follow, that can lead them, a man with his own path that he travels, etc. Women are not attracted to men that follow them.
Western women are spoiled, ungrateful, take many things for granted, overly entitled etc. If this doesn't match you, then keep it stepping. To all the women out there that notice the blessings in their lives, marriages, husbands, family etc.. I salute you.
#GMB
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/50-o...ead-than-have-sex.465667/page-7#post-20990609
A lot of western women don't know what they want and many of those that do, the man they want simply does not exist. Men in general are not winning because of this. Whether it be the exciting, adventurous, spontaneous bad boy or the nice guy simp who women see as husband material. They may give their youth years to the former type of man, but when it comes time to settle down and have a family, they try to change this man to become the father/husband type or they leave him knowing the relationship was temporary. And if he in fact gives in to her ultimatums and threats, and takes on the husband and father role, she eventually becomes bored and wants him to go back to how he used to be.
When it comes to raising children properly and living an exciting, spontaneous lifestyle.. you can't have your cake and eat it too. Parents who do things on a whim are terrible parents and their children suffer for it. Women understand this yet they are still unhappy in their marriages. If you need drama and excitement so much, take up a new hobby or go watch a movie. If your husband takes care of business and does everything to keep the family unit in-tact then what's the problem?
Don't change yourself for women because in the end it will backfire on you. They want someone that they can follow, that can lead them, a man with his own path that he travels, etc. Women are not attracted to men that follow them.
Western women are spoiled, ungrateful, take many things for granted, overly entitled etc. If this doesn't match you, then keep it stepping. To all the women out there that notice the blessings in their lives, marriages, husbands, family etc.. I salute you.
#GMB
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