Honestly it is what it is. Some dudes are checking out because they feel that no matter what they do it will never be enough to please women so they'd rather just do their own thing on their own terms.
I've been single for a year now and I think I've settled into a peaceful routine. I work hard, invest my money, buy myself things that make me happy, travel, enjoy my hobbies and hang out with my friends. I'm chilled out. The thought of sharing my space with someone who demands my attention and time low key feels annoying.
The men who are really lonely sound like they just don't have friends or hobbies that make them happy and somehow think a woman will fill the hole in their hearts. Anyone who's been in a long term relationship will tell you that sometimes, it just makes things worse. Some people feel more lonely in a relationship than out of it.
I've developed an anything goes type of attitude towards dating. If I encounter a woman organically that i vibe with? Cool. If I don't? I'm still cool. I know a lot of power simps will flood this thread talkingbout "look at this man who DoNt WaNnA bE a LeAdEr

' lead deez nuts ngga. Worry about your kids and wife, not
@Another Man