Studies Say Men Are Their ‘Loneliest,’ Representing 62% Of Dating App Users

[MikelArteta]

Honestly it is what it is. Some dudes are checking out because they feel that no matter what they do it will never be enough to please women so they'd rather just do their own thing on their own terms.

I've been single for a year now and I think I've settled into a peaceful routine. I work hard, invest my money, buy myself things that make me happy, travel, enjoy my hobbies and hang out with my friends. I'm chilled out. The thought of sharing my space with someone who demands my attention and time low key feels annoying.

The men who are really lonely sound like they just don't have friends or hobbies that make them happy and somehow think a woman will fill the hole in their hearts. Anyone who's been in a long term relationship will tell you that sometimes, it just makes things worse. Some people feel more lonely in a relationship than out of it.


I've developed an anything goes type of attitude towards dating. If I encounter a woman organically that i vibe with? Cool. If I don't? I'm still cool. I know a lot of power simps will flood this thread talkingbout "look at this man who DoNt WaNnA bE a LeAdEr ' lead deez nuts ngga. Worry about your kids and wife, not @Another Man

the sad thing is for these men is they base their happiness on having a woman. When many men who have women are stressed the hell out and secondly you should never base your happiness on a person because more than likely it won't even last.

Man is sad, he gets a girlfiend he's happy. Relationship ends man is extremely sad again rinse and repeat.


As you mention build your life up and find happiness and enjoyment in things you can control ala your life and your hobbies not a person

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

the sad thing is for these men is they base their happiness on having a woman. When many men who have women are stressed the hell out and secondly you should never base your happiness on a person because more than likely it won't even last.

Man is sad, he gets a girlfiend he's happy. Relationship ends man is extremely sad again rinse and repeat.


As you mention build your life up and find happiness and enjoyment in things you can control ala your life and your hobbies not a person

You right. And you got that toxic 'happy wife happy life' shyt that destroys men. I'm not with it lmao

 

[ExodusNirvana]

Stop chasing women and focus on your goals, I BEG OF YOU

 

[PoPimp84]

no reason these dating apps can't get on this wave.
they're collecting data on the type of women you like to swipe on and your preferences.
they should link up and create the perfect women for the average users dreams and make them pay a monthly sub to use it

I think we just came up with Doll Date. Where the 6 cert brehs at to make the app? Gonna be a whole new level of rejection if the doll swipes left.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

I'm in a relationship, but being lonely is better than just wifing up anything. People are upset that men are starting to have standards.

 

[Micky Mikey]

A bunch of single lonely men isn't good for society.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Geez I saw the writing on the wall years ago. But they hard-headed.

 

[Unknown Poster]

If you're not a white man and/or 6' and over...these dating apps are useless as fukk and you won't get any responses.

I've never used tinder and deleted my Okcupid account almost 10 years ago.

 

[Spectre]

Oh so y'all gon act like all these young women aren't out here with all these little dogs and pets walking and feeding them and cleaning up their crap for "companionship"?

Ok

 

[Spectre]

If you're not a white man or 6' and over...these dating apps are useless as fukk and you won't get any responses.

Nah it's not that bad

There are many guys that eat buffet-style and do not fit that stereotype at all

But you gotta present yourself well and seem to have a positive nice life that anyone wouldn't mind being a part of

Also different dating apps have different crowds

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Direct effect of this social media generation and the fact that society is trying to make it seem that approaching women in real life is weird behaviour.

Lonely older men now congregate on places like here....or waste time fantasising over onlyfans girls/giving money & attention to girls online.

Yeah approaching has got to be harder for these dudes now compared to 10, 15, 20 years ago.

When I was coming up, you could shoot your shot, get rejected and that was it. On to the next girl.

Nowadays, it feels like every fukk up will end up on IG or TikTok. Handsome gang probably has it easier now because they can hop online and pull more volume. Below average gang is a creep for being aggressive while handsome gang grab titties and get the broad to giggle.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Women also have stronger social networks. Even if they are single, they usually have a decent circle of friends and a couple of fukk buddy brehs when they need the D (top notch sex toys when they want a quick O).

Men gotta grow their social networks. Hang out with female coworkers that are married....they'll usually know single broads. Join a kickball league. Gotta work at socializing.

 

[USMaroon]

Hmm IDK man, I dont know about these studies. You know and most people for a fact know that a large population of men on dating sites arent really single. Lots of dudes on there looking for side actions. Men have always outnumbered women when it comes to things like that. That aint no surprise. Hence why the oldest profession in the world still makes sense and a lot of money. All that excluded, a lot of women on dating sites arent really looking for relationships. Many are there for attention and validation. They just love getting a tons of messages and have their pick of the litter. A large number of these women would not do well meeting ppl in person. Its the same thing all the time. A lot of women think they can just "build a man" bec you can swipe next, zero effort and will keep swiping until they find their choice. That choice dude will represent less than 5% of the dating pool. He will have his options wide open and will accept prob less than 5% of the women who messaged him. Wash, rinse & repeat.

I've been officially single for a year now and never been happier. Straight up passport gang living the dream my nikka.

 

[USMaroon]

Women also have stronger social networks. Even if they are single, they usually have a decent circle of friends and a couple of fukk buddy brehs when they need the D (top notch sex toys when they want a quick O).

Men gotta grow their social networks. Hang out with female coworkers that are married....they'll usually know single broads. Join a kickball league. Gotta work at socializing.

Maybe but I doubt it. I've met a lot of women and many of them are just lonely. Usually got no plans for the weekend and are boring AF. Dont let them pics fool you. As my 8y old niece is constantly saying, "in real life" lots of these chics are bored to death.

For ex: I met this one chic who had lots of pics with a lot of caucasian (men and women), when I asked about it, she told me she joined a meet up group online in order to become active.

 

[Spectre]

Yeah approaching has got to be harder for these dudes now compared to 10, 15, 20 years ago.

When I was coming up, you could shoot your shot, get rejected and that was it. On to the next girl.

Nowadays, it feels like every fukk up will end up on IG or TikTok. Handsome gang probably has it easier now because they can hop online and pull more volume. Below average gang is a creep for being aggressive while handsome gang grab titties and get the broad to giggle.

It's like widening more and more now

There's women who swipe left on all their counterparts saying "nah, nah, ew no, mmm nope, nah"

What's crazier is what they think is "decent" is almost a wish list. Lol but eventually they settle down.

I don't blame anyone for wanting better. It's only when they assume that's their standard.
You can't go to work and then stay home all evening and wonder why Mr. Good looking funny extrovert isn't knocking down your door or trying to start a family with you.

It just sucks that a lot of guys have to wait for them to realize that part.


But if you're a good looking dude with great personality and career and place, it's never been easier. It's like easy mode.

And if you have attractive female friends that love to hang out and invite you to hang with their friends..................bruuuuhhh lol