Studies Say Men Are Their ‘Loneliest,’ Representing 62% Of Dating App Users

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That kind of ties back into the study's results and what a lot of women tend to say: men's social skills are trash and it's hurting their ability to find a spouse. Women development a lot faster socially, their vocabulary is often better, and you see clear differences between the genders at very young ages. What are the male equivalent experience for the things you mentioned (friends, family, pets, etc)? Men don't tend to have many (real life) friends, are not as engaged in family experiences, don't participate in "guys nights out" as much etc. We're conditioned to be brutes and then when given incentives (women, fun, sex, etc) to get better we often don't take them anymore.

A lot of men are being left behind, and they're angry about it. No matter how much dudes yell about 30 year old women/"I don't care how much money you make"/etc it's just going into an echo chamber. These dudes are broke, angry, struggling, single, and lonely. They sure as fukk aren't the prize. And women are ignoring the fukk out of them in favor of advancing through life...and putting themselves in position to meet "high value" men.
Strongly disagree with this. There is a TON of pressure on men to be funny, intelligent, charming, charismatic etc. Behavior that is creepy or inappropriate is typically not given the same level of scrutiny when it comes from a woman vs when a man does it.
 

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Facts.

I’m honestly past this whole conversation because it is what it is, at the end of the day this just means people will not be getting together as much and reproducing. I’m just curious to see what the effects on society will be. I’ve been said we’re gonna be going down the same road as Japan with the increasing costs to maintain the standard of living. Lessened work/life balance, Plummeting birth/marriage rates and aging population crisis. I’m curious to see what happens and I don’t think it will be good.
Also forgot to add production into the list of things that will decrease. Having a bunch of single men is bad for the economy because they don’t produce as much as married men with children. If the majority of men don’t have anyone to provide or provision for as an incentive to produce more it will hurt the economy long term
 

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Most men can't "warm" approach because women don't find them worthy of sending signals, are too subtle in giving any, or in some cases refuse. As much as cats want to go on about modern men apparently being socially retarded, many women simply aren't warm to men.
They just gonna say men need to improve themselves so that women find them worthy enough.:russ:
 

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That kind of ties back into the study's results and what a lot of women tend to say: men's social skills are trash and it's hurting their ability to find a spouse. Women development a lot faster socially, their vocabulary is often better, and you see clear differences between the genders at very young ages. What are the male equivalent experience for the things you mentioned (friends, family, pets, etc)? Men don't tend to have many (real life) friends, are not as engaged in family experiences, don't participate in "guys nights out" as much etc. We're conditioned to be brutes and then when given incentives (women, fun, sex, etc) to get better we often don't take them anymore.

A lot of men are being left behind, and they're angry about it. No matter how much dudes yell about 30 year old women/"I don't care how much money you make"/etc it's just going into an echo chamber. These dudes are broke, angry, struggling, single, and lonely. They sure as fukk aren't the prize. And women are ignoring the fukk out of them in favor of advancing through life...and putting themselves in position to meet "high value" men.
This. 100%.
 

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Same ol it’s mens fault talk:unimpressed:

There are a thousand different ways to meet women and it's easy as hell to standout as a man these days because every dude has the same game they learned from someone on social media.

Of course none of it matters if you don't have self-confidence.

Dudes be like "I can't meet women because of women", "women aint like they used to be back in my grandaddy day" Meanwhile they homeboy/cousin/coworker swimming in females.

Women ain't attracted to that defeatist attitude.
 

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Went through this whole thread and not a single person bothered to read the pew research study or the Times article quoted by this gender war bate headline

THE 62% NUMBER COMES FROM ADDING UP ALL THE MEN FROM 32 DIFFERENT COUNTRIES



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“The growth in the single population is driven mainly by the decline in marriage among adults who are at prime working age. At the same time, there has been a rise in the share who are cohabiting, but it hasn’t been enough to offset the drop in marriage – hence the overall decline in partnership.”


“The growth in unpartnered adults has been sharper among men than women. In 1990, men and women ages 25 to 54 were equally likely to be unpartnered (29% of each group). By 2019, 39% of men were unpartnered, compared with 36% of women”


“Some may assume that, as the median age of first marriage continues to rise, unpartnered adults are merely lagging behind rather than foregoing partnership altogether. That might not be the case. Among adults ages 40 to 54, there has been a significant increase in the share who are unpartnered from 1990 (24%) to now (31% in 2019).

There are differences by race and ethnicity in the share of prime-working-age adults who are partnered and unpartnered. Among those ages 25 to 54, 59% of Black adults were unpartnered in 2019. This is higher than the shares among Hispanic (38%), White (33%) and Asian (29%) adults. For most racial and ethnic groups, men are more likely than women to be unpartnered. The exception is among Black adults, where women (62%) are more likely to be unpartnered than men (55%).

Partnership status also differs by nativity. Foreign-born adults at prime working age were less likely (28%) to be unpartnered in 2019 than their native-born peers (40%). This pattern is apparent among adults of each major racial or ethnic origin. For example, 29% of foreign-born Hispanic adults were single, compared with 46% of native-born Hispanic adults. Some of this difference in partnership status may reflect that foreign-born prime-working-age adults are older than their native-born counterparts.”

Since 1990, worse outcomes for unpartnered men and better outcomes for partnered women​

The economic gap between single and partnered adults has generally grown wider since 1990, though exceptions exist. The change has been greater on some measures among women than men, and the dynamics underlying the shifts reflect different realities for each group. For women the gaps have widened not because unpartnered women are faring worse now than 1990, but rather because partnered women have experienced significant improvements in their outcomes. In contrast, the economic gap between unpartnered and partnered men has widened mainly because the former are faring worse on most indicators.

In 1990, similar shares of unpartnered (23%) and partnered (22%) women had completed at least a bachelor’s degree. Both groups have improved their educational attainment, but partnered women have made greater strides. By 2019, 43% of partnered women were college graduates, resulting in a significant gap in educational attainment between the two groups.

Partnered women have closed some of the gap in employment with single women. In 1990, single women were significantly more likely to be working than partnered women. Employment has increased among both groups, but especially among partnered women – a 7 percentage point gap has narrowed to 3 points. This is due in large part to the growing share of mothers who have entered the labor force since 1990.

In 1990, unpartnered women at the median out-earned their partnered counterparts ($32,300 vs. $26,900). Unpartnered women’s median earnings have since remained stagnant, while partnered women’s median earnings have increased by $13,100. A $5,400 gap in favor of single women has reversed and as of 2019 had become an $8,000 earnings gap in favor of partnered women.

Relatedly, the income received by partnered women has increased substantially since 1990, and far fewer of them lack the resources to live independently. The share of single women who are financially vulnerable has not changed much (from 38% in 1990 to 37% in 2019).







The study:

Rising Share of U.S. Adults Are Living Without a Spouse or Partner
 

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I feel you. Driving nice whips, wearing nice clothes, accessories, home, etc. It has its place.

Hypergamy.
I'm not sure if this is sarcasm or not, but every man who makes money isn't doing this. In fact for some men "nice clothes" in particular isn't even sensible for their lifestyle.

"Chase money and the women will follow" is a half-truth.
 
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