Study shows dating options for men are decreasing as more healthy relationship standards arise

[Bushmaster69]

You jaded because you got nothing going on in your life. No success, no hobbies. Nothing that makes you excited.




Yeah until nikkas fukk that up too. It's parts of DR and Brazil that are ruined because lame nikkas be tricking throwing money in the air and making music videos.

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People have been tricking in these countries for years and nothing has changed in the past 20 years.

It's just broadcasted now.

 

[Shadow King]

it's not due to "healthier standards", this is media pandering to an agenda. The reality? Men AND women are thirsting heavily out here. If you have a solid full time job you're like a king practically. But everyone thinks only men are bumming it. NOPE! Women are struggling, I have many female friends that are perpetually single. One app I use has all the same users when I was using it 7 years ago. Most are still single or single again. No kids. Women with kids are with bums mostly and know it, and throw it at a guy like me. More people are living at home. Many women and to a lesser extent men are obese. Men can be total weirdos, I've heard the stories, but so can women.

I'm a half fukk up so I've seen both sides, but the guys women mess with when they're younger turn out to be losers. In the big leagues, desirable women get passed around, and can't stick with a dude to save their lives. If you're at all social and put together you'll do fine. The pendulum of simpery and social media BS is swinging in dire economic times like these. Women have inflated egos but reality will continue smashing them in the face. OF e-thottery market is heavily inflated and you won't get paid unless you're top tier or marketing a niche like fetishes. I know one girl with a OF who doesn't even get paid from it anymore and she's been making content for years now.

The lie being sold to us by "online suitors" and "online dating" as well as "body positivity", and "social media" are all becoming more apparent every single day. You can't fight delusion, so don't expect delusional people to wake up unless they want to.

Where the fukk is this?

 

[Shadow King]

Probably not. And I agree average guys aren't really fukking with average women like that unless its for sex.

The bullest of bullshyt

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Tbh it ain’t too bad. Hit the fragrance thread, get some quality nice fitting jeans. Keep ya facial hair crisp and if your hair line slipping just bush that shyt.

Also brush, floss and drink some dam water so you ain’t got dry mouth yuck breath.


If you can hold a conversation and got a steady job this dating shyt is easy.

Basic hygiene

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[LadyJ2]

Just curious, which women are you speaking for? the women you speak for, do they select men on biggest accomplishments?

What are important accomplishments?

So what if a man is satisfied with a modest house and family and being able to pay bills and die with no debt.

Should he always be chasing money?

It’s not about biggest accomplishments it’s about drive and ambition. I think it’s a biological imperative - your offspring have the best chance of survival for multiple generations if they come from the type of people who are always trying to improve. It isn’t just money - money can be lost in a generation of bad habits and laziness.

A woman can have a modest house and no debt on her own in 2022. Now if she wants a family, she wants and needs a man to go along with that. But what you’re saying some men are ok with is what most women can do on their own. And are doing in increasing numbers.

Dying with no debt isn’t really a selling point plus it depends on how one does the dying. Many a life savings has been wiped out due to cancer or heart disease or diabetes.

No debt is not the same as leaving behind money, a business, a house, a car, etc.

 

[Scaaar]

Honestly, I think they really be this delusional because they constantly get reinforced by their friends, family, thirsty men. Like the 42 year old has like 3 different guys she’s messing with right now and they all just gas her up so her requirements seem reasonable to her.

I’m guilty of just blindly telling my friends they deserve better when they actually deserve the exact guys they keep attracting. I’m trying to do better.

I'm guilty of that as well. Especially for my sister's...some of the brehs might just be the best they're qualified for. But if they want a certain type of man they have to put themselves in position to attract and keep that man. It's not just beauty since that fades over time

 

[Exlurkernegro]

Women are fukking more than ever so I don't believe this at all.

They're fukking the same men.

 

[The ADD]

Did you ask this question to anybody talmbat they was

OPP
YOLO
FNF

Probably not but also those are deviations from a pretty normal life so no need to ask…….

 

[Phitz]

It’s not about biggest accomplishments it’s about drive and ambition. I think it’s a biological imperative - your offspring have the best chance of survival for multiple generations if they come from the type of people who are always trying to improve. It isn’t just money - money can be lost in a generation of bad habits and laziness.

A woman can have a modest house and no debt on her own in 2022. Now if she wants a family, she wants and needs a man to go along with that. But what you’re saying some men are ok with is what most women can do on their own. And are doing in increasing numbers.

Dying with no debt isn’t really a selling point plus it depends on how one does the dying. Many a life savings has been wiped out due to cancer or heart disease or diabetes.

No debt is not the same as leaving behind money, a business, a house, a car, etc.

Based on statisics, the average woman makes 42-52k per year and her earnings drop after 45 years old. The average woman is not going to do more/better on her own than a woman who is partnered with even a minimum wage earning man. Even getting with a man who makes 35K is better than her doing anything on her own at those earnings.

Not saying they should get with any old joe, but if they're attracted to him and feel comfortable with him and he's stable and honest, I don't see why they would/should refuse

The way capitalism is set up, most people are not going to be wealthy

Do you have a spiritual belief? Just curious...

 

[goatmane]

The bullest of bullshyt

coli really full of male feminists and misandrists

They really think men worldwide in every developed 1st world country with a incel crisis are going sexless and giving up on life bc they don't want to talk to a basic 6 and holding out for a 10

 

[Shadow King]

It’s not about biggest accomplishments it’s about drive and ambition. I think it’s a biological imperative - your offspring have the best chance of survival for multiple generations if they come from the type of people who are always trying to improve. It isn’t just money - money can be lost in a generation of bad habits and laziness.

A woman can have a modest house and no debt on her own in 2022. Now if she wants a family, she wants and needs a man to go along with that. But what you’re saying some men are ok with is what most women can do on their own. And are doing in increasing numbers.

Dying with no debt isn’t really a selling point plus it depends on how one does the dying. Many a life savings has been wiped out due to cancer or heart disease or diabetes.

No debt is not the same as leaving behind money, a business, a house, a car, etc.

So because both genders can now do something, which is what y'all fought for, it's a knock on men? All men aren't interested in owning a business. This is what brehs mean. If you don't fit the template it's dry out here.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

coli really full of male feminists and misandrists

They really think men worldwide in every developed 1st world country with a incel crisis are going sexless and giving up on life bc they don't want to talk to a basic 6 and holding out for a 10

I'd take an adjustable 4 with an okay booty, but even that's hard to pull.

 

[LadyJ2]

Based on statisics, the average woman makes 42-52k per year and her earnings drop after 45 years old. The average woman is not going to do more on her own than a woman who is partnered with even a minimum wage earning man. Even getting with a man who makes 35K is better than her doing anything on her own at those earnings. Not saying they should get with any old joe, but if they're attracted to him and feel comfortable with him and he's stable and honest, I don't see why they would/should refuse

The way capitalism is set up, most people are not going to be wealthy

Do you have a spiritual belief? Just curious...

The bolded is key. If they are attracted to him. Women chase and pursue men they are attracted to and a big part of attraction for women is accomplishment and success and drive. Not just looks.

All men are stable compared to women unless he is a criminal or homeless or some outlier. Stability isn’t really a selling point for men, it’s an expectation. Like a healthy weight and grace is an expectation for women.

Honesty is definitely a plus but men lie and lead women on all the time to get sex so honesty would have to be proven by things like keeping your word and doing what you say you are going to do. A lot of men fail that test they talk a good game and rarely produce. That’s dishonest.

I’m a Christian if that helps.

 

[Phitz]

The bolded is key. If they are attracted to him. Women chase and pursue men they are attracted to and a big part of attraction for women is accomplishment and success and drive. Not just looks.

All men are stable compared to women unless he is a criminal or homeless or some outlier. Stability isn’t really a selling point for men, it’s an expectation. Like a healthy weight and grace is an expectation for women.

Honesty is definitely a plus but men lie and lead women on all the time to get sex so honesty would have to be proven by things like keeping your word and doing what you say you are going to do. A lot of men fail that test they talk a good game and rarely produce. That’s dishonest.

I’m a Christian if that helps.

Can you define what you think accomplishment means, in relation to what women are attracted to? What accomplishments.. 2 or 3 specific examples...

If stability is an expectation, why not be satisfied with basic expectations? And Not "selling points" as you say?
Most men are satisified with basic expectations(healthy weight and grace) for long term.

Being a Christian, do you consider what does the Bible say you should expect from a man?

 

[LadyJ2]

So because both genders can now do something, which is what y'all fought for, it's a knock on men? All men aren't interested in owning a business. This is what brehs mean. If you don't fit the template it's dry out here.

It isn’t a knock it just ups the ante.

I understand not all men want to be Puffy or Johnnie Cochran. But if you complain about the 80/20 rule and then say you don’t want to be part of the rat race I don’t know what you’d expect to be the outcome?

There are plenty of women who just want A MAN. ANY MAN WILL DO. But they are damaged, usually beyond repair. So just wanting a man should not be something you’d want in a woman.