Study shows dating options for men are decreasing as more healthy relationship standards arise

[Exlurkernegro]

I said in another thread if men could pull woman that ranged from 4s - 7s (for relationships) at a reliable clip the manosphere, redpill etc would not exist.

nikkas shooting worse than Iverson on the 76ers outchea.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Was she getting approached by decent men she was attracted to?

Maybe...maybe not. But pickyness goes ways. If men should approach her eventhough shes less than ideal, then she should be open to less than ideal men too

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Maybe...maybe not. But pickyness goes ways. If men should approach her eventhough shes less than ideal, then she should be open to less than ideal men too

And that was point purpose in posting her. Women are expected to settle for men they’re not attracted to, AND aren’t on the same level financially.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I said in another thread if men could pull woman that ranged from 4s - 7s (for relationships) at a reliable clip the manosphere, redpill etc would not exist.

That's a good statement, but I will slightly disagree, only reasoning being that those 4s - 7s most want what the 8, 9, 10s want and neither group knows what the man wants or couldn't care less. The women all want the same 'lifestyle'

I'm not even going to say man, I will say 'lifestyle' nobody wants to live like their parents. I'm speaking on black folks, many of us came up poor, lower middle class, single mothers, single fathers, but many of the women nowadays want to live like they've been living high on the hog all their lives and that's not reality for a lot of them.

Their frustration shows in the way they treat the men that they date or have dated, or their reasoning of how bad of men that they've picked in their dating world. They can't pick the kind of man that they want and keep him.

The complaints from the men, are more on the side of "the women, the 4s - 7s, are DUDES (Delusional, Ungrateful, In Denial, Entitled, Selfish) most are 'masculine' which attaches those women to the "DUDES" phrase.

If women had the same outlook and mindset like the women of yester years (before 1965) when it wasn't an issue dating, things wouldn't be so upside down in our community.

Sometimes you gotta step back and just look at the whole attitudes of women and men, and just start peeling back the layers. A woman that's a 4 wants a man making 100k but won't treat the average man that makes 43k with the same respect that she would treat the man that makes 100k with. Women of yester years know their outcomes and knew what they qualified for in a man.

A woman that is a 4 (to the men on the dating market) thinks all she has to do is show up and be a woman, those things along with others keeps the manosphere alive and running, which is growing by the hour.

 

[Piff Perkins]

The world is not setup for women to be alone. The majority of the homeless folks now are men (single men) these men are not married, no girlfriend or anything, who wants to be involved with someone who is struggling or homeless? FF down the line and ask yourself, what is going to prevent, these 'single' women from being the same position as these 'single' men? These are the men from the 60s 70s, 80s, 90s, that are on the street Gen X men, During those times, women were married, and their husbands made sure that these women would be ok, family structure was in place for these married women, for most, martial rates were up in the Black community during these times still, better than the 26% that they are now for BW.

2000s, 2010, 2020, that millennial and Zen generation, 75% of black women are single and will not married in their lifetime, you will see/witness in the upcoming years, these women on the street as they approach their grandmother years. 50s.

Facts are most women don't save, they spend everything that they get, most are bad with money, many are living paycheck to paycheck or have high school/car debt. It's really going to be a crazy world 10-20 years down the line.

Those that refuse to accept reality will lean on their children, asking for money, shelter, etc, some may take care of their mother others won't (that's gonna be another element, Parents vs Children. Those children will look at it like that's another mouth to feed, or mouths, depending on if the son's mother is struggling along with his wife's mother. If this is a married couple. A married couple, having 2 mother in laws in the same house will be hard on the family/income

More men are adjusting, trying to save. Most men can adapt and go without for periods of time. Most men think survival, I'm not trying to make it a men vs women thing in which I did, but the fact of the matter is, that women cannot survive this world alone.

More things are coming down the pipe the longer we live, 2020 showed us just that, when the world shut down and food was somewhat hard to get, long lines, etc, jobs closing down, now let's say that happens again added with something more extreme, what will these single 50plus year old women are going to do??

Nothing you said is based on anything but your opinion. You say women can't save, but men adapt and will save. Based on what? The data says young people in general are not saving money. And yet given that women are graduating at higher rates, they will be in a better position financially 30 years from now. There are plenty of successful 50 year old single women, I'm not even sure what you're talking about. If these women handle their business they'll be fine. If they don't, they won't. But given that the rate of homelessness amongst people with a college degree is LOW as fukk I'd say they'll be fine on average.

The rise of lonely, childless men is troubling because it's a historical indicator for state unrest. Best way to combat that is education. That degree will keep you off the streets.

 

[Dave24]

@Piff Perkins what are the best college degrees to aim for in terms of helping you net very good paying jobs once you get out of college?

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Nothing you said is based on anything but your opinion. You say women can't save, but men adapt and will save. Based on what? The data says young people in general are not saving money. And yet given that women are graduating at higher rates, they will be in a better position financially 30 years from now. There are plenty of successful 50 year old single women, I'm not even sure what you're talking about. If these women handle their business they'll be fine. If they don't, they won't. But given that the rate of homelessness amongst people with a college degree is LOW as fukk I'd say they'll be fine on average.

The rise of lonely, childless men is troubling because it's a historical indicator for state unrest. Best way to combat that is education. That degree will keep you off the streets.

Women are graduating at a higher rate than men, well there are more women on this earth than men, women outnumber men on this earth, but let's take what you said about women graduating at a higher rate, women are also receiving more college debt than men.

Women are accumulating more debt coming out of college too, let's add that in, those numbers can be found, not my opinion. Also, women are graduating in what programs?? Are these women graduating in STEM programs compared to men? No. They have the opportunity to enroll into these programs, but yet they are not enrolling into these programs that pays. Women are graduating in Humanities and other programs which puts the average woman coming out of college at the average 34k salary mark for black women. It may be 36k for black women

Most women are teachers, and we know teachers don't get paid at all and from the looks of things won't be getting paid.
The other big workforce group of women are "traveling" nurses or in the medical field.

17 percent of black women earn 50k
9 percent black women earn 75k
26 percent of black women earn over 50k or more

74% of black women earn 50k or less

In 30 years are you telling us that women (black women) the 74% of black women that earn less than 50k will increase in 30 years? How when 74% are making less than 50k? Who is giving this group raises and who will be paying these so call 'new graduates' that you speak of that are coming out of college when they are not majoring in field that pays the big bucks? Don't let the media pump your head

I agree that there are successful 50-year-old black women, I don't know about plenty as you are putting it, if we are going by those numbers I just posted, 74% of black women are not making over 50k, so I don't know if you are thinking these 50-year-old women are out here making 100k or more. The % of black women making over 6 figures is small. Very small. 9% of black women make over 75k.

If you are speaking about a "younger" demographic then I can agree, 18-25, I don't know too many young folks, men or women that save money, but as we get older, I find that more men tend to start saving and putting things up while women are spending,

It's a known fact that women are consumers, most companies target towards women and single women are the biggest spenders in this country.

Homeless doesn't care if you're a college graduate, HS graduate, drop-out or PHD, if you go around this country, there are men who are homeless due to whatever circumstances that placed them into that position, loss of job, anything that placed those men into that position.

Having a degree doesn't exempt you from getting your house taken away from you or anything else. I'm not sure why you are projecting that a college degree is something that may keep you from becoming homeless. Many of those homeless people, I'm sure some of them are, HS graduates, college graduates.

Funny that you are saying that the rise of lonely men is up-ticking but yet you are not focusing on the rise of lonely women, again as I stated in my earlier post, men can live alone, women can't, this world is not set for women to live alone.

3 out of 4 women won't be married.

There are 2 million less black men than women, but black men are married, have 847,000 more marriages than black women

Black men are more married than black women.

There will be more lonely women than men, even if every man was to marry every woman, there will still be leftover women in all races.

Musical Chairs. Someone will not have a chair. The men who have resources and connects will always have someone racing to sit down in their chair.

 

[Contrefaire]

Something just doesn't seem quite right about this. But I've met a few women who fit this mold recently.









I chalked it up to brainwashing or the occult.

I mean if that makes you feel better I guess?

It's funny though, women have been SCREAMING (and demonstrating) for years that they don't NEED men, but theoretically would like one around. Aka a WANT. Their only request in general has been that men work on themselves and become more likable as people instead of relying on being a paycheck, walking wallet or in-house mechanic in an attempt to prove how much they're needed, all while refusing to make any attempt to simply be wanted.

It's this refusal to adapt or change that has made many women say fukk it and live their lives without men entirely.

 

[Contrefaire]

They worked with their hands and at the time it was enough. Today many of those jobs are gone, but a loooot of similar jobs aren't being taken by many men. People complain about Amazon yet USPS has good paying jobs right now that are easier/better...can't find people.

Men aren't going into trades as much, despite HVAC being lucrative right now for instance

Hate to take the thread in a slightly different direction but this isn't exactly true. Neither Amazon nor USPS (who I myself used to work for) are struggling to find workers. They're struggling with employee retention.

Matter of fact, across the board there IS NO "worker shortage", it's simply companies who either got fat PPP loans and don't want to pay them back so they keep staff to a bare minimum, or businesses who discovered they could increase profit margins by capping employment and cutting hours where they could.

And don't even get me started on shyt like HVAC (or welding, plumbing, etc). In my area the Armenians and Latinos have got the game sewed up and the scraps get thrown to the middle aged cacs if they're lucky.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

Another thread full of panderers bringing the same "they just want 8 or 9s" even tho the incels who get posted here prove that theory wrong(kent, jamal). I remember when i saw this same trend beginning in japan and people were saying the samething even tho the stats showed the women were the main ones refusing to date their men.

They know better its just they want to pander to women or feel better than other men like I've said before.


They would be repulsed at the thought of being with Kent's or Jamal's girl, but have the nerve to utter "but but but them incels just want dimes doe".

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Men are earning more money than women despite them not going to college at the lower rates. A lot of these positions with qualifications aren't paying anything better than positions require nothing. The positions that do pay and require an education, require ladder climbing which also favors men. The problem with people isn't terrible standards, or laziness. People are tired & want work to support their living, not live to work like some of y'alls grandaddies. You talk about State Work like people aren't applying. USPS like they treating their workers the best they could.

He calling men lazy...what's his sample size?

Outrageous

I look at the average women around me, they're working some bullshyt low paying job

Gender wars with income is so stupid
Avg American is down bad

I can't take dude serious

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

They know better its just they want to pander to women or feel better than other men like I've said before.


They would be repulsed at the thought of being with Kent's or Jamal's girl, but have the nerve to utter "but but but them incels just want dimes doe".

You lived in Japan?

 

[Exlurkernegro]

You lived in Japan?

Nah. I'm more referring to the US than any other place.

 

[Buck Seventy]

Nothing you said is based on anything but your opinion. You say women can't save, but men adapt and will save. Based on what? The data says young people in general are not saving money. And yet given that women are graduating at higher rates, they will be in a better position financially 30 years from now. There are plenty of successful 50 year old single women, I'm not even sure what you're talking about. If these women handle their business they'll be fine. If they don't, they won't. But given that the rate of homelessness amongst people with a college degree is LOW as fukk I'd say they'll be fine on average.

The rise of lonely, childless men is troubling because it's a historical indicator for state unrest. Best way to combat that is education. That degree will keep you off the streets.

A lot of things that the Redpill crowd want black women to fall back in line involves scenarios and situations that they don't have control of or they are telling them things that work on at least on the surface against their best interest.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Another thread full of panderers bringing the same "they just want 8 or 9s" even tho the incels who get posted here prove that theory wrong(kent, jamal). I remember when i saw this same trend beginning in japan and people were saying the samething even tho the stats showed the women were the main ones refusing to date their men.

U lived in japan?