Study shows dating options for men are decreasing as more healthy relationship standards arise

[The ADD]

Hate to say it but I feel like dating apps really messed up the dating scene. I met/smashed plenty of women it gotten to a point that it’s so easy to get a girl online that I don’t even approach shorties any more smh

Funny tho the same girl if I meet her on the street I would think about dating her and seeing where it goes.. if I see her on an app I’m just tryna fukk and call it a day.

I’m hoping one day I could meet a dope shorty in person like our parents did but the apps make it that you could find a cool girl online but her text personality will turn you off before you even meet

ETA- free porn is dangerous too I noticed the dating game changed when that mf became more available

So it’s the apps fault that you do this? You can’t correct your own actions

 

[MikelArteta]

Hate to say it but I feel like dating apps really messed up the dating scene. I met/smashed plenty of women it gotten to a point that it’s so easy to get a girl online that I don’t even approach shorties any more smh

Funny tho the same girl if I meet her on the street I would think about dating her and seeing where it goes.. if I see her on an app I’m just tryna fukk and call it a day.

I’m hoping one day I could meet a dope shorty in person like our parents did but the apps make it that you could find a cool girl online but her text personality will turn you off before you even meet

ETA- free porn is dangerous too I noticed the dating game changed when that mf became more available

Its messed up the dating scene because if you are a guy whose eating off the apps its hard to get off. You can find a chick thats abcdef but the next chick is abcdefg and the next chick abcdefghi. I remember a spell earlier this year in one week I went out with a lawyer, a doctor, a nurse and a 25 year old. And the same for women next guy is taller, next guy has a better career, next guy willing to pay her rent for the month etc.

 

[JT-Money]

The bolded is where a lot of you nikkas go wrong tbh. There's a huge population of single women who are neither frustrated nor lonely. Horny maybe, but between porn & the variety of sex toys available, even lust simply isn't an issue. Also the vast majority of women can pleasure themselves much better and faster than any man.

Most women don't even NEED a man anymore and it has nothing to do with not wanting to appear weak in the public eye.

Something just doesn't seem quite right about this. But I've met a few women who fit this mold recently.









I chalked it up to brainwashing or the occult.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Do women like this just be talking or they really that delusional and out of touch?

A combination of everything. A lot of women have delusional expectations and use it as a way to hide their own deficiencies. Many of them don't even qualify for men or marriage because of the chaotic decisions they've made, so they ask for outrageous things, and when they can't find those things in men it's, "I'm not settling/there's no good men out here/I'm not asking for much." And when they do find a man and get into a relationship, they know sooner or later their deficiencies will surface, so many of them self-sabotage/wreck their own homes/push the eject button before their shortcomings become visible.

 

[Micky Mikey]

I'd take an adjustable 4 with an okay booty, but even that's hard to pull.

 

[Piff Perkins]

There are more single, childless men than ever. More men are dying alone. A lot of dudes are out here failing at life and mad about it (see: Coli posters). And without even rudimentary social skills or money, it's hard for many men to find a woman. All this "men are the prize" shyt is deluding a lot of dudes into thinking they don't have to offer anything or be a fully developed person - women will just flock to you if you're an "alpha" or whatever other bullshyt. In reality that's not the case.

None of this is to say women are blameless or there aren't sorry women out there with too high standards. But seeking a man who can communicate effectively and has his own shyt (money, place, car, etc) isn't a high standard. It's the floor.

 

[Dave24]

There are more single, childless men than ever. More men are dying alone. A lot of dudes are out here failing at life and mad about it (see: Coli posters). And without even rudimentary social skills or money, it's hard for many men to find a woman. All this "men are the prize" shyt is deluding a lot of dudes into thinking they don't have to offer anything or be a fully developed person - women will just flock to you if you're an "alpha" or whatever other bullshyt. In reality that's not the case.

None of this is to say women are blameless or there aren't sorry women out there with too high standards. But seeking a man who can communicate effectively and has his own shyt (money, place, car, etc) isn't a high standard. It's the floor.

Real shyt

 

[The ADD]

There are more single, childless men than ever. More men are dying alone. A lot of dudes are out here failing at life and mad about it (see: Coli posters). And without even rudimentary social skills or money, it's hard for many men to find a woman. All this "men are the prize" shyt is deluding a lot of dudes into thinking they don't have to offer anything or be a fully developed person - women will just flock to you if you're an "alpha" or whatever other bullshyt. In reality that's not the case.

None of this is to say women are blameless or there aren't sorry women out there with too high standards. But seeking a man who can communicate effectively and has his own shyt (money, place, car, etc) isn't a high standard. It's the floor.

Well said

 

[Nokids]

If you're that concerned you could just delete the apps and holla in person.

You right fam. I’m a New Yorker just moved down south so it’s a different culture. Apps run this city but I gotta hit up the downtown area, hit up happy hours; walkable areas that will get me back in my zone

So it’s the apps fault that you do this? You can’t correct your own actions

Nah you’re also right. Having success on it made me lazy. Not going to lie I have a minimum of 10-20 new girls writing me starting the convo them compared to if I went up to girls it might be 1-2 in a day. Guess I’m a clit riding fakkit that loves the attention Going to get out the matrix

Its messed up the dating scene because if you are a guy whose eating off the apps its hard to get off. You can find a chick thats abcdef but the next chick is abcdefg and the next chick abcdefghi. I remember a spell earlier this year in one week I went out with a lawyer, a doctor, a nurse and a 25 year old. And the same for women next guy is taller, next guy has a better career, next guy willing to pay her rent for the month etc.

Yoo! Yes exactly and same here met lawyers, drs, and recently a chick that ran in the olympics 2016. All wifey material but lost them due to what I call the one more game syndrome where you know it’s time to shut the game off but you either want a higher score or to beat another level. I remember you saying you found a girl on the app how’s that going?

I appreciate all y’all a nikka new to the city so unless I’m talking to my homies back home this the only spot I get to talk to other guys so thank y’all

 

[Wiseborn]

You right fam. I’m a New Yorker just moved down south so it’s a different culture. Apps run this city but I gotta hit up the downtown area, hit up happy hours; walkable areas that will get me back in my zone

Nah you’re also right. Having success on it made me lazy. Not going to lie I have a minimum of 10-20 new girls writing me starting the convo them compared to if I went up to girls it might be 1-2 in a day. Guess I’m a clit riding fakkit that loves the attention Going to get out the matrix

Yoo! Yes exactly and same here met lawyers, drs, and recently a chick that ran in the olympics 2016. All wifey material but lost them due to what I call the one more game syndrome where you know it’s time to shut the game off but you either want a higher score or to beat another level. I remember you saying you found a girl on the app how’s that going?

I appreciate all y’all a nikka new to the city so unless I’m talking to my homies back home this the only spot I get to talk to other guys so thank y’all

Being from New York is catnip to Down south hoes, that's a convo starter in itself Execute young man.

Besides when you hit the male wall you'll need to rely on hollering skills to get at women.

 

[Micky Mikey]

There are more single, childless men than ever. More men are dying alone. A lot of dudes are out here failing at life and mad about it (see: Coli posters). And without even rudimentary social skills or money, it's hard for many men to find a woman. All this "men are the prize" shyt is deluding a lot of dudes into thinking they don't have to offer anything or be a fully developed person - women will just flock to you if you're an "alpha" or whatever other bullshyt. In reality that's not the case.

None of this is to say women are blameless or there aren't sorry women out there with too high standards. But seeking a man who can communicate effectively and has his own shyt (money, place, car, etc) isn't a high standard. It's the floor.

How much of this is just do to higher prices of living and growing wealth inequality though? Is this really a result of men being lazy these days?

On the social and communication front - is it really a surprise that most men don't know how to communicate these days? Much of the world is digitized and we don't really that many social avenues that our parents had.

 

[Swirv]

So is the free p*ssy era over?

 

[feelosofer]

I said in another thread if men could pull woman that ranged from 4s - 7s (for relationships) at a reliable clip the manosphere, redpill etc would not exist.

 

[Will Ross]

How much of this is just do to higher prices of living and growing wealth inequality though? Is this really a result of men being lazy these days?

On the social and communication front - is it really a surprise that most men don't know how to communicate these days? Much of the world is digitized and we don't really that many social avenues that our parents had.

The thing is young women also lack
Social skills that women of the past had.

 

[DamienWayne]

So is the free p*ssy era over?

No it's easier than ever