Study shows dating options for men are decreasing as more healthy relationship standards arise

[DatBoiHawk]

Be honest, how often do average brehs try to talk to average women?

If you saw her across the room, would you approach her? Let’s say you met randomly, and she had a nice personality. Would dating her be on your mind?

You can find a way better “average” than her

 

[Uchiha God]

Crazy how bytch nikkas live in them shaderoom comments sections. nikkas be in there posting sassy comments like they’re women or something

 

[AAKing23]

It’s a wild claim to say that the majority of women do that. Do you have data on it?

There’s no specific data on it but it’s estimated by Newsweek that 15 to 20 percent of marriages are completely sexless.

Of the 80 percent that remain you can assume at least half of that are not having consistent sex. Probably every once in a while or on special occasions.

That leaves about 40 percent of marriages that probably have consistent sex on a regular basis. The reality is most men are just tolerated not appreciated.

 

[Contrefaire]

Theres women EVERYWHERE... They frustrated, they horny, they lonely.. All of that "I'm focused on me and my bag, my career" shyt is nothing but a front because they don't want to appear as weak in the public eye . All it takes is the right man to peel those layers and with that comes knowing how to communicate and read body language. Too many dudes approach with the mind of just fukking and those interactions come across as awkward. People be surprised how far a simple hello or hey would take them but they scared to come off the bench

The bolded is where a lot of you nikkas go wrong tbh. There's a huge population of single women who are neither frustrated nor lonely. Horny maybe, but between porn & the variety of sex toys available, even lust simply isn't an issue. Also the vast majority of women can pleasure themselves much better and faster than any man.

Most women don't even NEED a man anymore and it has nothing to do with not wanting to appear weak in the public eye.

 

[Theraflu]

This was bound to happen. I was NEVER EVER sold on the Kevin Samuels lifestyle.

Men are not like women. Women can just become single moms and have their lil girlfriends and that's it for them.

What are men gonna do? have girly drinks and kiki? unrealistic. be single dads and hang out with your boys?

This was never gonna work.

 

[Wiseborn]

The bolded is where a lot of you nikkas go wrong tbh. There's a huge population of single women who are neither frustrated nor lonely. Horny maybe, but between porn & the variety of sex toys available, even lust simply isn't an issue. Also the vast majority of women can pleasure themselves much better and faster than any man.

Most women don't even NEED a man anymore and it has nothing to do with not wanting to appear weak in the public eye.

you're 90% correct women don't NEED Men for basic survival (in G-7 countries) but they CRAVE Male attention, Preferably from th "right Man" but really any Man as long as he's not giving her negaive attention or violent to them.

 

[King Poetic]

Often those reports don’t involve us as black people

36% of black men are married even when u hear sisters yelling black men are afraid of marriage

Only 26% of black women are married and there are 2 million more sisters than brothers…so u can’t blame black men

Go to these black dating sites and the sisters out numbered the brothers by far..

A lot of regular 9-5 black men are looking for wives, but as u can see sisters are not looking for regular 9-5 electricians, landscapers, garbage men, etc, etc, because the title of what a brother does …. Many of them/us type of brothers get laughed off and sisters think we broke even if the brother pulling 50/60k a year…

If u don’t have that title say executive, VP, Boss, athlete/entertainer, doctor, lawyer then u are put into IN CASE OF EMERGENCY ( meaning I’ll go after the regular brothers if my top options isn’t available)

By then many brothers ends up with a down to earth sister or with a Latina/Asian or white woman

 

[perfectblack999]

There’s no specific data on it but it’s estimated by Newsweek that 15 to 20 percent of marriages are completely sexless.

Of the 80 percent that remain you can assume at least half of that are not having consistent sex. Probably every once in a while or on special occasions.

That leaves about 40 percent of marriages that probably have consistent sex on a regular basis. The reality is most men are just tolerated not appreciated.

That doesn’t explain the cause though. Throw multiple kids, house upkeep, work, life, etc. into a marriage and you end up with 2 tired AF people who just want to go to sleep. There are many components that contribute to that behavior. The average married couple with a family has to go out of their way to schedule sex.

I still think it’s crazy to assert that women weren’t initially attracted to their husbands at all in the majority of marriages when attraction is a foundational component of a relationship.

 

[Wiseborn]

This was bound to happen. I was NEVER EVER sold on the Kevin Samuels lifestyle.

Men are not like women. Women can just become single moms and have their lil girlfriends and that's it for them.

What are men gonna do? have girly drinks and kiki? unrealistic. be single dads and hang out with your boys?

This was never gonna work.

It's literally the other way around. Weren't you a kid before? Didn't you like Skateboarding and shyt? Did you see women riding Skateboards? Did you see them watching you and your homies?

It's the exact same thing now.

 

[Theraflu]

It's literally the other way around. Weren't you a kid before? Didn't you like Skateboarding and shyt? Did you see women riding Skateboards? Did you see them watching you and your homies?

It's the exact same thing now.

Breh,

Very respectfully women have very DIFFERENT life.

Women can and have been single moms and have their lil girlfriends and they're fine. 70% of black women are single moms and lets not pretend they're suicidal. They usually have sisters, cousins who are single moms too. They're got their kids too. They're good.

This model will NEVER work with men, How many men are gonna be raising kids alone and sharing childcare with other males and kiking together? Like many of our mothers did? It's not realistic. How many men are gonna do that? Raising kids alone and leaning on other straight men till old age?

The Kevin Samuels way will never work as evidenced by him dying alone under a hooker.

We can't have a community of straight males only raising kids but sadly matriarchies with women surviving and helping each other have existed and will continue to.

Men need women.

 

[Contrefaire]

you're 90% correct women don't NEED Men for basic survival (in G-7 countries) but they CRAVE Male attention, Preferably from th "right Man" but really any Man as long as he's not giving her negaive attention or violent to them.

Ah so you're one of them incoherent, delusional, cac-worshipping incels. Got it

 

[Wiseborn]

Ah so you're one of them incoherent, delusional, cac-worshipping incels. Got it

Says the incoherent, delousional shea butta cac worshiping femcel.

 

[Wiseborn]

Breh,

Very respectfully women have very DIFFERENT life.

Women can and have been single moms and have their lil girlfriends and they're fine. 70% of black women are single moms and lets not pretend they're suicidal. They usually have sisters, cousins who are single moms too. They're got their kids too. They're good.

This model will NEVER work with men, How many men are gonna be raising kids alone and sharing childcare with other males and kiking together? Like many of our mothers did? It's not realistic. How many men are gonna do that? Raising kids alone and leaning on other straight men till old age?

The Kevin Samuels way will never work as evidenced by him dying alone under a hooker.

We can't have a community of straight males only raising kids but sadly matriarchies with women surviving and helping each other have existed and will continue to.

Men need women.

You could stop at the bolded. I'm even saying that you're wrong about the Fact that Men need women everybody needs everyone but we have 40 years of research how is single momma raised children faring?

 

[Nokids]

Hate to say it but I feel like dating apps really messed up the dating scene. I met/smashed plenty of women it gotten to a point that it’s so easy to get a girl online that I don’t even approach shorties any more smh

Funny tho the same girl if I meet her on the street I would think about dating her and seeing where it goes.. if I see her on an app I’m just tryna fukk and call it a day.

I’m hoping one day I could meet a dope shorty in person like our parents did but the apps make it that you could find a cool girl online but her text personality will turn you off before you even meet

ETA- free porn is dangerous too I noticed the dating game changed when that mf became more available

 

[Wiseborn]

Hate to say it but I feel like dating apps really messed up the dating scene. I met/smashed plenty of women it gotten to a point that it’s so easy to get a girl online that I don’t even approach shorties any more smh

Funny tho the same girl if I meet her on the street I would think about dating her and seeing where it goes.. if I see her on an app I’m just tryna fukk and call it a day.

I’m hoping one day I could meet a dope shorty in person like our parents did but the apps make it that you could find a cool girl online but her text personality will turn you off before you even meet

ETA- free porn is dangerous too I noticed the dating game changed when that mf became more available

If you're that concerned you could just delete the apps and holla in person.