Study shows dating options for men are decreasing as more healthy relationship standards arise

[Ezekiel 25:17]

yup any single woman regardless of her looks, credit score, etc. right now can get a date tomorrow if she wants, can be married in 6 months if she wants, can be in a relationship by tom night if she wants.

What does a date mean if she isn't attracted to the guy?

 

[GilSho]

Women are fukking more than ever so I don't believe this at all.

 

[Azure123]

Yes. It wasn’t like this before and by that I mean 15 years ago. I don’t see things ending well for this new generation.

Damn

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Your not seeing the forest for the trees here. Pointing to the bigger issues in the black community is a non sequitur; the smaller issues add up as well. People are lonelier than ever today and it doesn’t take being a weirdo incel to have trouble dating or making friends. Online dating is harder for men especially if you are ugly or average gang. I can easily see an average breh feeling jaded, especially if they got through high school and college without making many friends/relationships. Having that many dissatisfied men in a community always leads to disaster.

There's plenty of average, every day people in relationships and getting married. I'm just hearing excuses and low-self esteem.

As a generation Z breh can y'all oldhead Nikkas give it to me straight... Is my generation fukked and if so is it fixable or beyond repair?... Honest answers please

Nothing in this world is permeant. While this can be a problem, it's important to be a solution orientated person and seek ways to make change. Honestly brother, if I were you since you said you were younger, your best bet is to be out in the world where people meeting up and getting to know one another. The internet/social media/youtube is filled with jaded, bitter losers and pity party pussies like the gentleman I quoted above yours, who's voices and input are going to rise to above the norm because as a society we gravitate towards uber cynicism as oppose to nuance and level-headiness. That's not to say things are all rainbows and lollipops, but in the day to day world, it's more gray than it is black and white.

Here's some advice: Talk with your friends who are in relationships and get their input. I guarantee you it'll tell you the other side of the story that the headlines and harlots won't.

 

[Commish]

As a generation Z breh can y'all oldhead Nikkas give it to me straight... Is my generation fukked and if so is it fixable or beyond repair?... Honest answers please

As a so called oldhead nikka, I will tell you this much....

Iono about your generation, but YOU can have success with women if you:

-Focus on your goals/purpose
-Have a healthy self esteem
-Live within your means
-Be patient
-Be resilient
-Stay in shape
-Don't get into heavy debt
-Go outside and mingle with women
-Don't be scary by fearing rejection
-Don't be a simp nor a trick
-Don't tolerate ANY form of disrespect
-Don't be afraid to charge ANY woman to the game no matter how good she look to you.

Do the aforementioned and you will be straight.

Never love anyone more than you love yourself! As a youngsta, I would strongly suggest that you start investing in yourself as early as possible, so get your education or skill trade, start saving $$ and start preparing to own property along with preparing for retirement so when you become middle aged, then you don't have to worry about much and can pretty much control your own destiny.

You wanted the real, so I gave it to you..

As Dead Prez said on Discipline, "Plan your work then work your plan!"

Salute!

 

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

Unrealistic expectations + hypergamy

Women rather be #7 in the roster of a man that has it all rather than settle with a dude that has nothing

 

[Azure123]

There's plenty of average, every day people in relationships and getting married. I'm just hearing excuses and low-self esteem.


Nothing in this world is permeant. While this can be a problem, it's important to be a solution orientated person and seek ways to make change. Honestly brother, if I were you since you said you were younger, your best bet is to be out in the world where people meeting up and getting to know one another. The internet/social media/youtube is filled with jaded, bitter losers and pity party pussies like the gentleman I quoted above yours, who's voices and input are going to rise to above the norm because as a society we gravitate towards uber cynicism as oppose to nuance and level-headiness. That's not to say things are all rainbows and lollipops, but in the day to day world, it's more gray than it is black and white.

Here's some advice: Talk with your friends who are in relationships and get their input. I guarantee you it'll tell you the other side of the story that the headlines and harlots won't.

My generation can be very easily influenced especially since we're so wrapped up in our phones 24/7, and going deep down certain rabbit holes on the internet can warp your sense of reality and cause you to become a jaded person without even having experienced certain things

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I'm sorry, but as black people we have bigger issues facing us as a community than a bunch of loser and weirdo ass male and females with self-important demands in regards to finding a significant other. You have to be an absolute flop of a human being if you can't do something as simple as find a date or someone you mesh with. Andre on his mama couch can get a chick. Tasha with the funky attitude and bad edges working at target can get a man, yet all these so called "good, quality men and women" seem to have trouble finding love? The lack of self-awareness. But go ahead and take the redpill, continue to be at the mercy of white supremacy, do black people a favor and end your bytch ass bloodline. We got real work to do.

Breh did you read any of those comments? Now it's the internet, but if that's how the vast majority of women think, then its ova with. Ain't NO fixing this. I don't know what's going on and why there's so many bitter people. Me personally I'm worried about myself and just keep a positive mindset and hopefully I'll meet a positive woman.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Unrealistic expectations + hypergamy

Women rather be #7 in the roster of a man that has it all rather than settle with a dude that has nothing

If they'd rather be #7, why do they complain about getting dogged so bad?

 

[KidJSoul]

"Rising standards" is vague though

Probably half and half

Some are men who won't do the bare minimum

Some are women who have very high standards that many men can't achieve realistically

It's a mixture of both

 

[Arithmetic]

The comments are what I expected them to be.

 

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

If they'd rather be #7, why do they complain about getting dogged so bad?

They don't like being #7, they just rather be #7 than date an ugly/broke nikka lol

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Breh did you read any of those comments? Now it's the internet, but if that's how the vast majority of women think, then its ova with. Ain't NO fixing this. I don't know what's going on and why there's so many bitter people. Me personally I'm worried about myself and just keep a positive mindset and hopefully I'll meet a positive woman.

Shut the fukk up fakkit, you'll still be here living in solitary decadence. There's no hope for you.

I hear you breh. My generation can be very easily influenced especially since we're so wrapped up in our phones 24/7, and going deep down certain rabbit holes on the internet can warp your sense of reality and cause you to become a very jaded person without even having experienced certain things.

Every generation is influenced by something. Before social media, it was the internet, before that it was radio/tv/movies/magazines, before that it was church. What's important that you don't abandon your principals in the pursuit of the life you want, and not settle for less. You'll have to compromise, sure, that's life. But it's worth at the end of the day.

 

[africngiant]

Unrealistic expectations + hypergamy

Women rather be #7 in the roster of a man that has it all rather than settle with a dude that has nothing

they keep underestimating the social proof. you only eat at like 10% the rate that you could by preferring to stay to yourself.

i swear i have everything these women say they want but i don’t do social media like that. if you don’t post shyt then you ain’t lit. that’s where shyt ends now lol

 

[1thouwow]

I’ve been on the brink of leaving my wife. Decided it ain’t worth it