Its funny because I bet my options increased 
Study shows dating options for men are decreasing as more healthy relationship standards arise
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africngiant
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i got a unique problem of my own 
like 2015 embiid waiting on the sidelines
anyone know a local photographer in philly lol
like 2015 embiid waiting on the sidelines
anyone know a local photographer in philly lol
You know I kind of get this but like, it’s millions upon millions of women, I doubt the majority have it so good like that, this economy sucks and most of the population is poor as fukk, I think we’re romanticizing women’s options way too much you low key made them sound like some goddesses’ living in an endless garden or something.
All the women I have dated and the woman I am with now I met in school, at university, work, church, and various hobbies I am interested in.
I have never used a dating app in my life so all that is weird to me.
I have never used a dating app in my life so all that is weird to me.
africngiant
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not really idk. i been looking for a cute introverted girl for the longest but they usually looking for the same things now. those are the main types that aren’t trying to settle for a man lacking in any pillar including but not limited to: clout. i can’t tell you the amount of times i get the initial number/match but the tension dies when we move it over to the socials.
as a man you have to socially market yourself to the highest capability, but me, ive been in my grind stage. so i acknowledge that i need/will work on it. it exposes the shallowness in everybody though lol
most lowkey chicks do not want lowkey men. don’t pay attention to what they say on social media lol. especially the ones in our community.
it’s a trip
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He's playing his part for Coli clout, don't mind him.
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Ezekiel 25:17
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And that plan will back fire for those women with high standards.
Work on yourself physically, mentally, and financially. Do things that make you happy. We're men and should act like men. Have some self control. Stop being so desperate for a woman. Stop putting so much stock into women.
Ezekiel 25:17
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I swear if I have a son I'm putting so much time into him being the best he can be without the need for a woman. A woman should be an add on to your life that brings more value.
These dudes out here thirsty and pathetic. At this point I got more respect for dudes who trick overseas.
These dudes out here thirsty and pathetic. At this point I got more respect for dudes who trick overseas.
africngiant
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i ain’t even desperate at all lol. if people seen me irl they wouldn’t even know why im complaining so im not tripping. i am kind of jaded though but that has to do with other things too. a lot of especially lowkey, square dudes got it tougher than people think.
Ezekiel 25:17
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If an incel ain't happy by himself a woman won't fix that. And why would you want to depend on a woman for happiness? Anything could happen in that relationship
Damm sucks for u ugly, outta shape, introvert, lame, beard challenged, non charismatic mafukkas
CreepyMcCreeperson
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A lot of brehs want to do the bare minimum, not aspire to be anything in life, and expect attractive women to want to lock you down. There was a time when going out to dinner was a standard date. Now, that’s considered simping. If you don’t want to spend money, stay single.
I hate going to these stupid brunches, but that’s what she likes to do, so I go.
A lot of y’all expect the worse from a woman, expect to be used, and played, and the women expect the same thing. People aren’t concerned with having a connection, and being genuine. It’s about play or be played. And yes, income and ambition matter. Someone who has no motivation to do well in life isn’t going to be a good life partner. No man should be content with a minimum wage job, and expect a woman to be with him because he’s nice.
I hate going to these stupid brunches, but that’s what she likes to do, so I go.
A lot of y’all expect the worse from a woman, expect to be used, and played, and the women expect the same thing. People aren’t concerned with having a connection, and being genuine. It’s about play or be played. And yes, income and ambition matter. Someone who has no motivation to do well in life isn’t going to be a good life partner. No man should be content with a minimum wage job, and expect a woman to be with him because he’s nice.
Social media destroyed your generation when it comes to the dating scene. Everyone is a mini narcissist with super inflated egos (especially the women). If you're a decent looking women your getting flooded with dm's on a daily basis. Ask yourself why would such a women settle for someone they consider "average" these days? What's being overlooked is that "average" is completely fine. There is nothing wrong with average. In fact most people are average. Your generation needs a movement that centers around the rejection of using social media apps. Unless that happens I really don't see the situation getting any better.
