Study shows dating options for men are decreasing as more healthy relationship standards arise

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Be honest, how often do average brehs try to talk to average women?


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If you saw her across the room, would you approach her? Let’s say you met randomly, and she had a nice personality. Would dating her be on your mind?

This woman is 50 years old. :martin::old:
 

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As a single nikka who’s actually out here dating. I’ve noticed a shift in what women desire now. Believe it or not it’s not really about the high status or material things. They really just want men to be more emotionally intelligent that’s the new buzz word. From what I see yeah maybe we can learn that but the masculine side of me says that’s just a code word for being soft. They want us to be more in tune with our emotions and being able to express ourselves in a way they can understand. I’ve yet to meet a broad and this to be true, but this is what they are saying when they say the bare minimum isnt enough.
 

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it's not due to "healthier standards", this is media pandering to an agenda. The reality? Men AND women are thirsting heavily out here. If you have a solid full time job you're like a king practically. But everyone thinks only men are bumming it. NOPE! Women are struggling, I have many female friends that are perpetually single. One app I use has all the same users when I was using it 7 years ago. Most are still single or single again. No kids. Women with kids are with bums mostly and know it, and throw it at a guy like me. More people are living at home. Many women and to a lesser extent men are obese. Men can be total weirdos, I've heard the stories, but so can women.

I'm a half fukk up so I've seen both sides, but the guys women mess with when they're younger turn out to be losers. In the big leagues, desirable women get passed around, and can't stick with a dude to save their lives. If you're at all social and put together you'll do fine. The pendulum of simpery and social media BS is swinging in dire economic times like these. Women have inflated egos but reality will continue smashing them in the face. OF e-thottery market is heavily inflated and you won't get paid unless you're top tier or marketing a niche like fetishes. I know one girl with a OF who doesn't even get paid from it anymore and she's been making content for years now.

The lie being sold to us by "online suitors" and "online dating" as well as "body positivity", and "social media" are all becoming more apparent every single day. You can't fight delusion, so don't expect delusional people to wake up unless they want to.
 

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As a single nikka who’s actually out here dating. I’ve noticed a shift in what women desire now. Believe it or not it’s not really about the high status or material things. They really just want men to be more emotionally intelligent that’s the new buzz word. From what I see yeah maybe we can learn that but the masculine side of me says that’s just a code word for being soft. They want us to be more in tune with our emotions and being able to express ourselves in a way they can understand. I’ve yet to meet a broad and this to be true, but this is what they are saying when they say the bare minimum isnt enough.

I actually think I do well with women for this reason. I do all the masculine things like Bjj, weights,and other shyt like that and also act pretty cold with them initially. but I become really affectionate around them when I get to know them. I think it makes them feel like they have to earn my affection sometimes.

it's not due to "healthier standards", this is media pandering to an agenda. The reality? Men AND women are thirsting heavily out here. If you have a solid full time job you're like a king practically. But everyone thinks only men are bumming it. NOPE! Women are struggling, I have many female friends that are perpetually single. One app I use has all the same users when I was using it 7 years ago. Most are still single or single again. No kids. Women with kids are with bums mostly and know it, and throw it at a guy like me. More people are living at home. Many women and to a lesser extent men are obese. Men can be total weirdos, I've heard the stories, but so can women.

I'm a half fukk up so I've seen both sides, but the guys women mess with when they're younger turn out to be losers. In the big leagues, desirable women get passed around, and can't stick with a dude to save their lives. If you're at all social and put together you'll do fine. The pendulum of simpery and social media BS is swinging in dire economic times like these. Women have inflated egos but reality will continue smashing them in the face. OF e-thottery market is heavily inflated and you won't get paid unless you're top tier or marketing a niche like fetishes. I know one girl with a OF who doesn't even get paid from it anymore and she's been making content for years now.

The lie being sold to us by "online suitors" and "online dating" as well as "body positivity", and "social media" are all becoming more apparent every single day. You can't fight delusion, so don't expect delusional people to wake up unless they want to.

this is on point as well to. I make way better decisions when it comes to choosing women then I did 5-10 years ago.
 

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I actually think I do well with women for this reason. I do all the masculine things like Bjj, weights,and other shyt like that and also act pretty cold with them initially. but I become really affectionate around them when I get to know them. I think it makes them feel like they have to earn my affection sometimes.



this is on point as well to. I make way better decisions when it comes to choosing women then I did 5-10 years ago.
Yeah I agree. The approach is different now, you have to allow yourself to look vulnerable. Well maybe not that but more human and relatable and of course stable. Not gonna say the toxic shyt is played because there’s still a market for that but I’m seeing the shift.
 

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Yeah I agree. The approach is different now, you have to allow yourself to look vulnerable. Well maybe not that but more human and relatable and of course stable. Not gonna say the toxic shyt is played because there’s still a market for that but I’m seeing the shift.
:deadrose: my weird quirks work to my advantage. I fukking hate random people touching me and trying to be affectionate towards me. it prob makes girls feel special when I allow them to do it.
 

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Honestly because most men know most women are promiscuous now, due to the internet, I don’t see it getting better. Men have a natural aversion to share resources with harlots (except cacs) These are the endtimes after all. Once ā€œHeā€ is revealed, that will be that. Everyone repent and turn to The Father and keep his commandments. This world is only temporary. Family isn’t coming back.
 

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As a single nikka who’s actually out here dating. I’ve noticed a shift in what women desire now. Believe it or not it’s not really about the high status or material things. They really just want men to be more emotionally intelligent that’s the new buzz word. From what I see yeah maybe we can learn that but the masculine side of me says that’s just a code word for being soft. They want us to be more in tune with our emotions and being able to express ourselves in a way they can understand. I’ve yet to meet a broad and this to be true, but this is what they are saying when they say the bare minimum isnt enough.
No they did that B.S. in the 90s promoting little boys to get in touch with their ā€œfeminine sideā€. Dumb witchcraft media is just rehashing old garbage. Will be glad when they are destroyed.
 

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Probably not. And I agree average guys aren't really fukking with average women like that unless its for sex.
She has no youth tho. Once women hit a certain age and certain handsomeness in the face, it’s basically a lost cause if they don’t all ready have a husband who fell for them in their youth.
 

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No they did that B.S. in the 90s promoting little boys to get in touch with their ā€œfeminine sideā€. Dumb witchcraft media is just rehashing old garbage. Will be glad when they are destroyed.
Was too young to know. Wasn’t even double digit age but the end of that decade so I wasn’t dating until early 2000s where being a bad boy/a$$hole was in heavy
 

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A lot of brehs want to do the bare minimum, not aspire to be anything in life, and expect attractive women to want to lock you down. There was a time when going out to dinner was a standard date. Now, that’s considered simping. If you don’t want to spend money, stay single.

I hate going to these stupid brunches, but that’s what she likes to do, so I go.

A lot of y’all expect the worse from a woman, expect to be used, and played, and the women expect the same thing. People aren’t concerned with having a connection, and being genuine. It’s about play or be played. And yes, income and ambition matter. Someone who has no motivation to do well in life isn’t going to be a good life partner. No man should be content with a minimum wage job, and expect a woman to be with him because he’s nice.
Most of these women are straight up hoes. I believe a lot of men don’t really care that much anymore. Why work THAT hard for used hole that let @CreepyMcCreeperson hit for free? Men should focus on The Most High. Most women are ran through and messed up mentally. I worked around ALOT of women who tried to get me to have a go at them. Stick a fork in it.
 
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