Study shows once a cheat always cheater and once cheated on always cheated on

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This is true for most people cuz most people are dumb as shyt. They do dumb stuff, fukk up badly, then blame it on someone else and keep doing the same shyt.

Doubt this is true for anyone on this forum though. People who use forums tend to be more self aware and able to learn from their mistakes. We are in the minority, not the majority.

Remember brehs never bad to make a mistake as long as you learned something from it.
 

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Insignificant posting from an insignificant poster
Women stay with men longer than they know they should because change is difficult and sometimes scary.
And some of them talk themselves into dealing with bullshyt because some men DO have a handful of qualities that the women do like, in spite of the major bullshyt.
And yeah, some of them don't want to be alone.

You being extroverted has nothing to do with anything I said.



Haha. It didn't. But thanks for being an e-bully.


I was going off on one of my Art Bar tangents to prove a point. The implication was that ones personality/traits are conducive to infidelity. Being an outgoing person promotes that... there is a correlationship between extroversion and creepin'. You can't be a wall flower and expect the puss to fall on your dyck --- mouth first.


But you're right, a guy may harness certain attributes/qualities that she deems admirable and retain-worthy... but we can't just generalize why women stay with these types because even most times out of ten, the women can't explain it themselves.


We, as men, have to set a good example for our partners by being true to ourselves and not thinking with our shafts (easier said than done, i have always been the committed relationship type but
after being screwed over/having his psyche tested to the extreme... it does those things to you).



And that's what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles. The noodles from the kits of caboodles.



The captains... from the crunch.



And you don't need a shovel... to dig that.




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Smh @ men.
When need to step up and be more loyal to our queens.
If you have to cheat, why be in a relationship.
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Skewing stats again. 3.5 times more likely to cheat does not equal will cheat again, it just means what the stat says, more likely. So people who cheat are more likely to cheat again, but there is a group of people who have cheated who stop.

But what this study really says to me is that human beings struggle mightily with monogamy--which shouldn't surprise anybody here. A UK study once said that as much as 50% of men and 33% of women admit to cheating on a partner before. Basically, people ain't shyt...or rather, the values we've learned in modern civilization have given us unrealistic expectations of human behaviour.
 

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Man, let's keep it 100, in 2014... EVERYBODY'S cheating. The only people who AREN'T cheating are only not cheating because they either don't have the option or don't have the time.
 

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Why this pic though? :russ:
 
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If I say I'm never gettng married.....people will look at me like there's something wrong with ME :mjlol:

If I say I'm not claiming a kid until them DNA results come in, even if it's from wifey.....people will look at me like there's something wrong with ME :mjlol:

Y'all go ahead and keep falling into the same ol' traps that human beings have fallen into for centuries/millennia, just because "I trust him/her"......I'll pass on that.....I'm good :mjlol:......

"These hoes ain't loyal"?

How about "damn near ain't NOBODY loyal"? :heh:
 

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i do
ill never cheat

ive already been in relatonships and had women try and get at me and ive lawys been :kony:
In my last relationship I didn't cheat either. I'm not really big on it. If I have a girlfriend who I'm serious about I simply won't put myself in situations where I'll cheat, but I gotta be honest, if I just happen to end up in one of those situations anyway..........

Let's just say my will really ain't that strong.
 

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In my last relationship I didn't cheat either. I'm not really big on it. If I have a girlfriend who I'm serious about I simply won't put myself in situations where I'll cheat, but I gotta be honest, if I just happen to end up in one of those situations anyway..........

Let's just say my will really ain't that strong.

:ehh:
ive been cheated on twice, still remember that pit in the stomach feelings :to:

if im ever in a situation and my will aint strong, ill just call and say um yeah were over

loyalty :ohlawd:
 

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If I say I'm never gettng married.....people will look at me like there's something wrong with ME :mjlol:

If I say I'm not claiming a kid until them DNA results come in, even if it's from wifey.....people will look at me like there's something wrong with ME :mjlol:

Y'all go ahead and keep falling into the same ol' traps that human beings have fallen into for centuries/millennia, just because "I trust him/her"......I'll pass on that.....I'm good :mjlol:......

"These hoes ain't loyal"?

How about "damn near ain't NOBODY loyal"? :heh:
Breh...honestly if thats ya wife..thats some straight up disrespectful shyt to be like "it aint mine till a DNA test" :mindblown:

You definitely are suited to stay single cause that will just end badly for you...
 

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Yea bro I was thinking bout this earlier. Women are insecure, and when they find a dude who SIMPs for them the tables flip and they manipulate the shyt outta him. I'm not sure why I think they don't even consider him as valuable or worth their undivided attention.

If the guy is alpha he breaks the bytch down like bread. Only rly insecure types go for a dude like that. And thus they get cheated on every time.
 
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