Successful Women Are Unhappy That They Have To Date Down

[SheWantTheD]

Women are not happy dating down whether they are successful or not.. unless they are insecure and controlling and even then.

 

[JT-Money]

I will say this though. The white females I know are mostly cuffed/married before or during law school.

This cac I know is making 80k a year at Deloitte as a consultant(jd preferred position) his fiancé is at Kirkland and Ellis making 210k a year. The wage gap doesn’t even phase her.

I worked at this non-profit once that always hired women straight out of college with no real work experience.

Damn near every white or Asian chick would get married before their 1 year anniversary.

It was like clockwork with these chicks because their parents mostly pushed them to start building a family early. And they talked shyt about their husbands if they didn't move up the Corporate ladder fast enough. They wanted a certain lifestyle and knew the fastest way to get there was getting married. And I think the parents pushed them so much because they we're tired of supporting them financially.

 

[SheWantTheD]

If you're attractive and have to date down its because you have a terrible personality

that's bullshyt.

There ain't too many men women want past a certain level of success (he gotta have the looks and swag too). These type of men are running through women or choosing the dime.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Their standards are also too high.

 

[NinoBrown]

But what if he's a hard worker with good character? He can probably turn his situation around but you won't give him a chance. And when dude levels up becomes successful and starts pawging y'all get mad. But what was he supposed to do when all the black women only want the finished product?

This question will be deflected as the answer requires logic and reasoning, not gonna happen here....

 

[Roid Jones]

Being educated, having a good job doesn’t equal that you are a quality woman

That’s why many of these women don’t have rings on their finger, because men look beyond being educated and having a good job

just another bullshyt media push

 

[O.Red]

and here is the issue with our community. Taking a woman that has nothing to offer but looks is just as much of a negative to the community as buying a bunch of cars, jewelry, and Jordan’s. Putting things that feed your ego over what actually betters yours household and community..... but you come here to talk shyt. You value the wrong shyt

That's not an "our community" issue

That's biology

 

[O.Red]

Women have the right mindset. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being proud of your accomplishments and wanting someone who makes comparable to you in a relationship.

Chicks that simp dudes that make less than them end up allowing grown ass men become children, borrowing their cars and fukking ransoms while she at work. If you have female family members and you care about them, u don’t want them to be prey for sorry dudes.

As women we have a lotta pitfalls to avoid. The insecure idiots who need you to be a broke dunce to feel good about themselves. The fukkbois who wanna waste years of ur life with no commitment. The commiters who are insufferable when u do get in a relationship with them. The DL dudes. The conservatives who wanna control what u wear while simultaneously fukking half the neighborhood behind ur back. The hypocrites. Seething womanhaters. Weirdos and then the dudes who just make ur clit shrivel. And the legit sociopaths and psychos.

The path to good companionship isn’t easy. But I will say more and more women are waking up to the nonsense, holding off on jumping to get with a man just to say they got one...AND making moves for themselves, while being critical of what they see in front of them.

That’s a good thing. Some are still learning but people learn at their own pace and I wish em luck b/c navigating relationships ain’t easy..
Edit: They’ll be okay.

This sentiment disregards simple math

All of these career women making money didn't fill a void, they replaced someone else and now they're wondering where all the men are when they're the ones that replaced the men in the first place.

Ain't enough jobs and money for everybody

So yes there's nothing wrong with wanting somebody that makes comparable to what you make, as long as you accept head on how unrealistic that expectation is This very expectation is why this subject is becoming more relevant

Career minded ambitious boss woman? Go for it, but understand that you are throwing away the chances of having a man that you deem "comparable"

There ain't hardly enough for all of y'all

 

[Skooby]

Does anyone have the unedited version of this?

Edit: Found it -

 

[mbewane]

Problem is people thinking something is "owed" to them. Look, you being succesful doesn't mean shyt. If you're not able to get succesful men, that's on you, it means whatever those men want from a relationship you aint bringing it to the table. That's it. Those men don't owe you anything. We can write essays about why and why not, but the very fact of making an issue come from the assumption that since you're succesful, succesful men should want to date you. Nope.

I mean if we were talking about men assuming that women "should" be interested in them just because they're succesful and being mad when they aren't it would be a shytstorm. It would be "you cant buy my love" and whatnot. Well, it works both ways.

 

[seabreeze80]

Your post also makes no sense. I'm also not sure why you're quoting me if you've decided we're talking about two different things.

You quoted me first. We are not on the same page. Its whatever.

 

[richaveli83]

Unfortunately thots have infiltrated the nurse profession. Many women only do it for the check and that’s straight out of the mouth of a nurse I used to mess with.

I work in a hospital and I have witnessed this first hand.

 

[seabreeze80]

But what if he's a hard worker with good character? He can probably turn his situation around but you won't give him a chance. And when dude levels up becomes successful and starts pawging y'all get mad. But what was he supposed to do when all the black women only want the finished product?

I'm not sure why some of you are acting as if this topic is about the female posters in this thread. I have a boyfriend which I have talked about on here before. Do not confuse me with these women. Just because I take no issue with a woman listing income as a criteria for dating or marriage does not mean that this situation directly applies to me. It doesn't. And who cares if a man decides to pawg? I can't speak for the other posters, but as long as he has some dignity and takes no issue with his race, there is nothing wrong with IR dating. Get in where you fit in.

 

[MajesticLion]

So hug up your "success" and live with the consequences of your choices


You made a play for the money over everything else, and that comes with a cost.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This sentiment disregards simple math

All of these career women making money didn't fill a void, they replaced someone else and now they're wondering where all the men are when they're the ones that replaced the men in the first place.

Ain't enough jobs and money for everybody

So yes there's nothing wrong with wanting somebody that makes comparable to what you make, as long as you accept head on how unrealistic that expectation is This very expectation is why this subject is becoming more relevant

Career minded ambitious boss woman? Go for it, but understand that you are throwing away fhe chances of having a man that you deem "comparable"

There ain't hardly enough for all of y'all

Nah they not making that much themselves. Men still out earn women. There are plenty of dudes that meet the mark or are comparable. If they not successful then that’s on them.