Successful Women Are Unhappy That They Have To Date Down

[truth2you]

All it is, is women have this need to spend your money, but don't want to give you their money. It's like its so hard for them to give a piece of their money if they aren't getting something in return

Like the weatherman said in the video, when men was making the money it was our duty to take care of women since she is more "nurturing", but now that is them, they are "dating down"? shyt is pure selfishness, and narcissism, its all about them so the rules change based on how they feel. Men lost because we believed them, but now we can see its was all game, put that energy into yourself.

 

[The M.I.C.]

You first since you're in here beating at your titties and made the first assertion at calling people broke.

Bum

If that's my dude Call Me James..you might not want to go through with the ban bet bro.

 

[daemonova]

This. Sistas will brag about their masters/PHD, high paying job, rags to riches story, and having all their shyt together as if a guy cares about any of that shyt. Regardless, most men wanna have their own shyt together too and have too much pride to live off of a woman. So even if y'all both got ya shyt together a dude would take a girl who work at Dunkin Donuts that's a 10 over a chick at some white collar job that's a 6-7.

fr fr

if a chick has a good house and a nice car and is working on her saving, what she need a man for. If a dude can take care of himself, why not get with him. You are not going to die with all the toys, some ppl do need to be content once they get to a certain level

 

[daemonova]

If you're attractive and have to date down its because you have a terrible personality

especially considering the corporate world is a killbox

 

[jmspro]

"I can do bad by myself."

Yall heard her at the end?

 

[daemonova]

In my experience it just often because they are good eye candy and exaggerated resume.....

QFT

 

[Giselle]

In one thread you guys said you want a woman who offers more than just her looks and brings something to the table but in this thread you guys are saying you don't care about what she brings to the table and only care about her looks.

Men and women are more alike than some of you think.

I think they are talking about character/personality traits when theyre talking about what a woman brings to the table.

Why did men think just because a woman is accomplished it means overall she sacrificed her femininity and morals in persuit of her goals? Why do men assume that woman wouldn't be wifey material and become a great mother to her future children? Michelle Obama with her Ivy league education ended up with Barack and they in turn raised two beautiful daughters while Barack held they highest position one can hold. Beyonce is doing quite well with Jay z. If a woman is highly accomplished and is grounded, she can very well land a man in her playing field.

Technically, Michelle Obama dated down when she dated Barack. She was more accomplished than him and made more money in the beginning. She also went on an ice cream date as the first date and not some fancy restaurant, which I see a lot of other women these days (at least the ones online) talk down on. According to them, Michelle would have been considered a low standard , low self esteem having pick me who builds up men.

Im dating one of these right now. She is beautiful and has money but she don’t know when to turn off the “I’m a boss” shyt. I’m like “you can get away with that shyt with bum ass nikkas but not me.” She’s used to being catered to because of her looks and her money makes her financially independent so she feels like she can dictate and I should obey but on the flip side she doesn’t have to listen cuz she a boss.

I told her about herself the other day and she erupted into tears, definitely the first time she had a strong Black man put her bullshyt into perspective.

Why are you still dating her then?

Actually those things replace the masculine perspective. When men stopped being reliable providers, women had to step up.

When were Black Women ever not working? I thought both Black women and men have been working since slavery.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Women can seek out a partner based on whatever criteria they want. That’s perfectly fine. Just don’t complain if you aren’t blown away by the number of candidates you’re able to pick from. That’s really all there is to it.

 

[daemonova]

lol. chesley mcneil is a legend. i feel like that black lady newscaster has lost a lot of weight if she is the same one im thinking of...

yeah, recently yeah, she lost weight

 

[badboys11]

Whats funny is how many of these "smart" women are getting played on a daily basis.

Knew a guy who was a former nfl quaterback, met him as a cab driver years back. Millions in the bank with no ego. He would tell chicks at a bar/club/strip joint that he worked in sanitation. If they really fukked with him, and were willing to go out with a dump truck driver, thats when the girl would find out where he lived and how he lived.

Its basically playing on the modern womens belief that they better than the next person cause they got 2 nickles more than the next person.

Yall keep chasing after educated well paid men when they know what yall after. These girls nowadays would pull they cell phone up and pretend to talk to a person rather than say hello as they walk past jesus reincarnated cause he look "broke"

 

[Carlton Banks]

I wouldn't say settle it just that mens criteria looking for a woman is not the same as women's criteria looking for a man...men are much more simple than women ....

Pretty much this. We don't require much to be happy.

 

[JLova]

A lot of these women are stupid and have no clue what makes them desirable to the opposite sex and what makes them a good woman. I like successful women but I’m not going to congratulate you for doing what you’re supposed to do. A lot of these broads want a medal or something.

Being successful is just one part of the puzzle and that shyt doesn’t even matter to a lot of men. Problem is a lot of women think that is all thry need to do to Be desirable. Not even close.

I know plenty of successful single women. Ask them why they’re single and thry will blame it on men. They’re too lost to look in the mirror.

 

[Voice of Reason]

I follow this chick on social media. One of her friends just married an older dude she met in medical school. I’m sure seeing that has her feeling some type of way.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Until women are honest with themselves on what they want in comparison to what their behavior SAY they want ... they'll always be sabotaging their own plans of finding a compatible mate ...

 

[Booker T Garvey]

They're full of shyt...this is them justifying their desire for "street" muthafukkas in the social media era