Successful Women Are Unhappy That They Have To Date Down

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This. Sistas will brag about their masters/PHD, high paying job, rags to riches story, and having all their shyt together as if a guy cares about any of that shyt. Regardless, most men wanna have their own shyt together too and have too much pride to live off of a woman. So even if y'all both got ya shyt together a dude would take a girl who work at Dunkin Donuts that's a 10 over a chick at some white collar job that's a 6-7.

BINGO!!!!!

people don’t realize the number of women who work blue collar jobs that got rings on their fingers and happy than some chick who think she’s top notch cause she works for some big law firm, big hospital, etc...

I just said this same shyt.

The problem is, black women, from the 1970’s on, in their quest for independence, think that money and security gives them status in the mating game, irrespective of their physical appearance. And so they mistakenly think that their peer group is the top echelon of black men and that’s to what they feel entitled. However, it’s not, and although money and security are an added bonus, they don’t precede physical beauty in the eyes of black men. Most successful black men, when it comes down to it, would prefer a PYT on his arms over a physically mediocre career woman. Physically mediocre career women, may can bag an attractive black male, but he’s most likely not going to be as educated and economically very blue collar. The Doctor/Lawyer/CPA/Athletes are going to want pretty sisters first, and if they are professionally accomplished, that’s an added bonus.

 

[AAKing23]

women realizing successful man no matter what age will be able to find a women, but women once they hit 30s its over

And notice that women are the ones complaining, not men.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Women have the right mindset. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being proud of your accomplishments and wanting someone who makes comparable to you in a relationship.

Chicks that simp dudes that make less than them end up allowing grown ass men become children, borrowing their cars and fukking ransoms while she at work. If you have female family members and you care about them, u don’t want them to be prey for sorry dudes.

As women we have a lotta pitfalls to avoid. The insecure idiots who need you to be a broke dunce to feel good about themselves. The fukkbois who wanna waste years of ur life with no commitment. The commiters who are insufferable when u do get in a relationship with them. The DL dudes. The conservatives who wanna control what u wear while simultaneously fukking half the neighborhood behind ur back. The hypocrites. Seething womanhaters. Weirdos and then the dudes who just make ur clit shrivel. And the legit sociopaths and psychos.

The path to good companionship isn’t easy. But I will say more and more women are waking up to the nonsense, holding off on jumping to get with a man just to say they got one...AND making moves for themselves, while being critical of what they see in front of them.

That’s a good thing. Some are still learning but people learn at their own pace and I wish em luck b/c navigating relationships ain’t easy..
Edit: They’ll be okay.

 

[Rhyse]

Are you willing to make him a sandwich

I’m from the South. Sandwiches are what we make you while we cooking real meals. F you mean? Lol

 

[jay83]

Women have the right mindset. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being proud of your accomplishments and wanting someone who makes comparable to you in a relationship.

Chicks that simp dudes that make less than them end up allowing grown ass men become children, borrowing their cars and fukking ransoms while she at work. If you have female family members and you care about them, u don’t want them to be prey for sorry dudes.

As women we have a lotta pitfalls to avoid. The insecure idiots who need you to be a broke dunce to feel good about themselves. The fukkbois who wanna waste years of ur life with no commitment. The commiters who are insufferable when u do get in a relationship with them. The DL dudes. The conservatives who wanna control what u wear while simultaneously fukking half the neighborhood behind ur back. The hypocrites. Seething womanhaters. Weirdos and then the dudes who just make ur clit shrivel. And the legit sociopaths and psychos.

The path to good companionship isn’t easy. But I will say more and more women are waking up to the nonsense, holding off on jumping to get with a man just to say they got one...AND making moves for themselves, while being critical of what they see in front of them.

That’s a good thing. Some are still learning but people learn at their own pace and I wish em luck b/c navigating relationships ain’t easy..
Edit: They’ll be okay.

there’s a difference between being proud of your accomplishments and using them as why you’d make a good wife and deserve a husband.

A woman who is a great person, looks good plus she has a degree and a doctor is great.

A woman who thinks she’s wifey because she’s has a degree and a doctor is no bueno and will be asking Steve Harvey why men are intimidated by her.

 

[87 others]

Lol at women thinking men give two fukks about their job or education. If you don’t look good none of that shyt means shyt. And if you do it’s just a bonus.

 

[Rhyse]

Outside of sex and having children, a man with means doesn't actually need a woman. So if he's gonna get one he might as well get a bad one.

As a woman in her 40’s and last kid about to leave home and I’m at the six figure mark..... what actually do those of us in the same category need men for? This goes both ways. The difference comes for both genesis when you distinguish the priority of the needs and wants. We’ll take a less attractive, husky man and treat him like a King in spite of his faults and still try to build him up. But men aren’t willing to do the same.... but then complain about the woman being a gold digger and tramp.

 

[AAKing23]

As a woman in her 40’s and last kid about to leave home and I’m at the six figure mark..... what actually do those of us in the same category need men for? This goes both ways. The difference comes for both genesis when you distinguish the priority of the needs and wants. We’ll take a less attractive, husky man and treat him like a King in spite of his faults and still try to build him up. But men aren’t willing to do the same.... but then complain about the woman being a gold digger and tramp.

Plenty of nikkas have wife'd up some chubby less attractive chick and have still gotten fukked over

 

[seabreeze80]

In one thread you guys said you want a woman who offers more than just her looks and brings something to the table but in this thread you guys are saying you don't care about what she brings to the table and only care about her looks.

Men and women are more alike than some of you think.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I’m trying to figure out why it’s wrong for a successful woman to want a successful man?

 

[Genos]

Wait, I thought there was a gender pay gap that was oppressing women

In one breath these hoes are saying we make more money than them, and now they say we are too broke to marry

There is a gender pay gap because when a man and woman do the same job. Women go to college at a higher rate. Women go to college at higher rates now so more likely to have a higher paying job

 

[BlackBall]

The cool thing about being a dude is when you don’t have status or money nobody panders to you. Well maybe a few mega churches but for the most part you have to constantly review yourself and improve to get to that place.

Many women never had to be introspective because either men on tv are pandering to them, church, books, their own fathers, and their so called friends lie to them. When you truly believe the problem is never you there is no growth, no accountability, and you’ll always be in the same place for years.

Many women are just tall children mentally

 

[bewitched]

Why did men think just because a woman is accomplished it means overall she sacrificed her femininity and morals in persuit of her goals? Why do men assume that woman wouldn't be wifey material and become a great mother to her future children? Michelle Obama with her Ivy league education ended up with Barack and they in turn raised two beautiful daughters while Barack held they highest position one can hold. Beyonce is doing quite well with Jay z. If a woman is highly accomplished and is grounded, she can very well land a man in her playing field.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

In one thread you guys said you want a woman who offers more than just her looks and brings something to the table but in this thread you guys are saying you don't are about what she brings to the table and only care about her looks.

Men and women are more alike than some of you think.

Whatever opinion allows them to shyt on women the most , per thread topic, is the one they go with, lol.

 

[the bossman]

I’m from the South. Sandwiches are what we make you while we cooking real meals. F you mean? Lol

Shawty bad