Successful Women Are Unhappy That They Have To Date Down

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This. Sistas will brag about their masters/PHD, high paying job, rags to riches story, and having all their shyt together as if a guy cares about any of that shyt. Regardless, most men wanna have their own shyt together too and have too much pride to live off of a woman. So even if y'all both got ya shyt together a dude would take a girl who work at Dunkin Donuts that's a 10 over a chick at some white collar job that's a 6-7.


True story. When women say this I'm like " ok cool, that's what's up" but that is not important to me


Same as when I see a woman say they are " well traveled" as if that is a good relationship characteristic. I'm like " ok, cool, that's what's up"
 

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This video implies that just because someone makes more money than you that they'll be a better spouse to you than someone making less money.

The primary things to look at when choosing a mate are ambition, whether their moral views match yours, are they a hard worker, how they handle adversity, what type of environnent they come from, how they treat you, and their level of discernment. If the aforementioned fall in line then more than likely the other important things will as well.

A lot of ladies want the man to be a finished product ignoring his incentive to even deal with them if he's already reached the point he wants to be at in life. This is not to mention that it also has to be some chemistry and physical attraction there as well which have nothing to do with a man's financial status.

Ladies would be better off to get a man that is building and grow with him. It might not be sexy to date that struggling college grad pushing his economy car, living in a studio apartment, drowning in student loan debt, but that man is likely to be a lot more appreciative of you when he does figure things out in the long haul than the man whose already figured things out and has his living taken care of.

A lot of ladies just want the end product of the hard work, but don't want to put in the time to build a foundation with a man.
 

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In one thread you guys said you want a woman who offers more than just her looks and brings something to the table but in this thread you guys are saying you don't are about what she brings to the table and only care about her looks. :jbhmm:

Men and women are more alike than some of you think.

Bringing something to the table other than looks means her being nurturing, supportive, peaceful and knows when to stfu.
 

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I know you didn't quote me but this reminds me of an interview I watched with Michael Jackson. He said he preferred a woman on his level that would not use him because of his status. I see nothing wrong with that. He went on to mention Madonna and Whitney Houston and how things didn't work out.
If you bring fame into it that's a whole different story. Because only someone else used to living in a fish bowl can possibly understand what it's like.

But this is about women excluding men solely based on his income. And what if men did the same thing to women? I'm sure most men that are Billionaires didn't start off filthy rich. So they would be stupid to disqualify every woman that wasn't a Billionaire. I make 6 figures but wouldn't disqualify a women that doesn't make my same salary.
 
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Point is many women succeeding in white collar positions sacrifice their femininity to move ahead....

No man wants to compete with another alpha/dominant personality in a relationship, let alone date or even marry a girl like that....

That is why nurses get wifed quick, they have empathy and retain their femininity/nurturing quality....

I'd wife a 6 nurse over a 10 lawyer 100% of the time....

Nursing students getting ran through out here... like no other. Not gonna wife with all them bodies in her
 

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If you bring fame into it that's a whole different story. Because only someone else used to living in a fish bowl can possibly understand what it's like.

But this is about women excluding men solely based on his income. And what if men did the same thing to women? I'm sure most men that are Billionaires didn't start off filthy rich. So they would be stupid to disqualify every woman that wasn't a Billionaire. I make 6 figures but wouldn't disqualify a women that doesn't make my same salary.
I have no problem with a man disqualifying a woman because of her income.
 

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fukk them :lolbron:

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But men aren’t willing to do the same....
That's a fukking lie. I knew a girl who was out of shape and fat and her boyfriend stayed with her and helped her get it together. shyt I'm helping my gf right now get her self together. Stop lying to the people based on your limited experience.
 
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