Suicidal people are so selfish it’s disgusting

[Rozay Oro]

So here we have someone admitting he’s considered suicide. Do you remember your thread the other week asking people how to find a passion? I can’t find it but remember I said to drink in those moments where you find even a little bit of happiness and you might find a passion there, right?

How many of those people replying basically told you to shut the fukk up? And yet some how I’m the a$$hole for saying there’s still more to live for.

I didn’t say you were an a$$hole. To assume suicide is due to not facing demons is very ignorant. I thought about it but here I am. No attempts. I feel better lately. So you want me to drink to find a passion?

 

[Buddy]

Don’t understand how mental health works brehs

I understand mental health is at play. I never invalidated being depressed to the pain that might be felt— I’m just saying suicide is not the answer. You’re hurting WAY more people than you realize. Look up a few posts, someone just mentioned their grandparent dying as a result of finding a loved one.

Rates have been climbing over the past few years for Black people. I’m not getting the sense from you, but posters saying it’s their choice can’t be thinking straight themselves. Somebody has to be the rational person here. Or do we just let our people die? Seriously wtf is that? :why:

 

[Buddy]

I didn’t say you were an a$$hole. To assume suicide is due to not facing demons is very ignorant. I thought about it but here I am. No attempts. I feel better lately. So you want me to drink to find a passion?

Noooo no no, you misread what I said completely. I meant the others in the thread are acting like I’m the a$$hole. They are the a$$holes for talking wreckless the way they do to you when that was a clear cry for help. They’re even more of an a$$hole if they do that and have this carefree, “Do what you do” attitude to people committing suicide. I never said you’re not facing any demons head on. I think you are and I commend you for it.

Also, I said to drink in the moment— not alcohol. Bad choice of words on my part but basically, really take those moments in. Even if it’s a brief moment, reflect on it.

 

[Swirv]

You wouldn’t understand unless you attempted and failed.

 

[Loose]

As I've gotten older I've gotten out of the immaturity of blanket statements like this, with suicide or any chemical imbalance, something that seems so small for me and you can mean the world for the person's whom have taken their lives.

 

[Ziggiy]

We have absolutely no idea the mental/psychological trauma that people go through in order to take the step to END their own lives.


Unless they were some serial killer or pedophile that took the cowards way out to avoid justice then I believe personally that blaming and shytting on people who commit suicide is in poor taste and says more to the selfishness of the people mocking and criticizing them than it does the deceased.

 

[Buddy]

You wouldn’t understand unless you attempted and failed.

I think that’s what the reaction in this thread boils down to. More people on this site have considered (or possibly attempted) suicide than we realize. I know we like to laugh and joke but I’m serious here and trying to give a wake up call. No, I don’t understand but I do believe there are more people that care than one could realize in that moment and if you fight through you could do more than you ever imagined.

 

[Swirv]

I think that’s what the reaction in this thread boils down to. More people on this site have considered (or possibly attempted) suicide than we realize. I know we like to laugh and joke but I’m serious here and trying to give a wake up call. No, I don’t understand but I do believe there are more people that care than one could realize in that moment and if you fight through you could do more than you ever imagined.

I believe the opening post is quite ignorant of the factors that a suicidal person considers to end their life.

The people I’ve spoke to, that were unsuccessful, truly believed their loved ones were better off without them. They were at rock bottom and they thought living was a burden on their peoples. That’s not a selfish person, that’s someone who is hurting and needs a lifeline.

 

[UpAndComing]

I tend to agree with OP. I’ve seen Suicide effect my family negatively. In one case, my cousin did that and when his dad found him he fainted from the shock and busted his head and died in a coma. So, in thinking that you’re doing your family a favor by removing yourself because you think you’re a burden or you’ll somehow find relief in death you potentially harm your loved ones even more. It’s just a selfish and bytchmade way to handle adversity imo.

I can only understand if it’s very extreme trauma that was never properly addressed due to lack of resources/support. That of course can drive you to suicide or other self destructive behavior. But when you have the resources at your disposal you owe it not just to yourself but to your loved ones to try everything. I’ve actually been in that dark place, and when I thought of my parents and other loved ones I felt selfish to want to end my own life. I can’t stand to see them hurt at all so why would I provide them the greatest hurt of all? Not to mention, despite us being more sensitive to the burdens on our own shoulders we should always have the sense to be able to contextualize our struggle vs the struggle of others going through far worse things.

I mean wtf, some people kill themselves because someone they loved felt differently while people on this planet deal with literal enslavement. It’s kids in Yemen being born in hell on earth, people living as third class citizens on they own land facing death and imprisonment, many Black people right here being mocked by America’s opulence while living in a racial imposed mass internal exile from true citizenship beyond the surface level shyt, maaaan go find some strength and work through the troubles. You’ll be better off for it.

 

[HoldThisL]

It is a complex issue and everyone is different. Sure some people could face their demons and turn their life around, but there is some that are just in pain and suffering no matter what.

Truth of the matter OP is some suicidal people keep on living because they do not want to hurt their loved ones. There comes a time though when the pain is too much that they become numb inside.

 

[Artificial Intelligence]

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[FunkDoc1112]

This clown @IncarcerationDay is so deficient in empathy he can't even comprehend the idea of people understanding what suicidal people are going through without experiencing it themselves

Y'all got listening problems among other things

 

[FunkDoc1112]

I tend to agree with OP. I’ve seen Suicide effect my family negatively. In one case, my cousin did that and when his dad found him he fainted from the shock and busted his head and died in a coma. So, in thinking that you’re doing your family a favor by removing yourself because you think you’re a burden or you’ll somehow find relief in death you potentially harm your loved ones even more. It’s just a selfish and bytchmade way to handle adversity imo.

I can only understand if it’s very extreme trauma that was never properly addressed due to lack of resources/support. That of course can drive you to suicide or other self destructive behavior. But when you have the resources at your disposal you owe it not just to yourself but to your loved ones to try everything. I’ve actually been in that dark place, and when I thought of my parents and other loved ones I felt selfish to want to end my own life. I can’t stand to see them hurt at all so why would I provide them the greatest hurt of all? Not to mention, despite us being more sensitive to the burdens on our own shoulders we should always have the sense to be able to contextualize our struggle vs the struggle of others going through far worse things.

I mean wtf, some people kill themselves because someone they loved felt differently while people on this planet deal with literal enslavement. It’s kids in Yemen being born in hell on earth, people living as third class citizens on they own land facing death and imprisonment, many Black people right here being mocked by America’s opulence while living in a racial imposed mass internal exile from true citizenship beyond the surface level shyt, maaaan go find some strength and work through the troubles. You’ll be better off for it.

Not wanting somebody to end their life because of how it affects you is, in itself, selfish. That's why it's so pointless and unproductive to label suicide selfish; it's operating under the assumption that this person is actually thinking rationally. Their entire understanding of shyt is warped by that point

And I resent the idea that because other people have it worse, you should suck it up. All pain is relative and you don't know what will trigger any individual person's mind.

 

[Buddy]

This clown @IncarcerationDay is so deficient in empathy he can't even comprehend the idea of people understanding what suicidal people are going through without experiencing it themselves

Y'all got listening problems among other things

Fam if you actually read through my comments you’ll find I’m more empathetic than the majority of posters here. I was never suicidal but I know deep depression, the desire to die, and I conquered it. I understand a lot more than you think. Meanwhile, you got people on here that either don’t give a fukk or are depressed/suicidal themselves. Anybody justifying or rationalizing suicide is NOT the person to listen to.

 

[R=G]

some people cant take life anymore mang.

Even then there are cases of suicide that I believe are fukked up. Like that young woman recently who drove into oncoming traffic and almost killed someone esle because she couldn't take being a single mother.

All these other single mothers were in the comment section cosigning and im over here like

Those porn stars went out violent in that youtube RIP vid..using a shotgun to the head and jumping off hotel balconies..wtf...lol