Surgeon who makes $280K asks if she should marry her struggling actor boyfriend who made $23K last year.

Ozymandeas

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Riiiiight.


Like being with a teacher, a principal, an accountant, etc
. Not her making $280k and marrying a man making $23k :dead:




Men get with a woman who makes less because there is an understood dynamic. HE is the breadwinner so HE runs the show. SHE is getting pregnant and staying home and taking care of the house/kids.

A woman is gonna make the bulk of the money, get pregnant and then go back to work and leave the baby with the husband? :dahell: What is the point of that lol

That's the plan. Now go make our money, I want to go to Sardinia this year. And I want a couple pairs of new Jordans.

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:mjlol: Liar. His goal was increased black marriage rates ungirded by class consciousness. He explicitly loved Spelman woman and felt that like should be matched with like in matrimony. His SOLE exception was for young ("coachable") BEAUTIFUL women.

You're lying on a dead man and it's gross.
Lmao just like with Charlie Kirk, I’m not going to re-litigate shyt we all saw and heard with our eyes and ears. That man made up a story about working in corporate offices yet somehow convinced you that highly successful men don’t pursue highly successful women. Go find me somebody working in a corporate or professional setting who would agree with that nonsense.

He denigrated black women in very weird, offensive ways. Including peddling race science shyt. So no I’m not gonna take my foot off his neck.
 

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Women are fairly new to these high paying roles that put them in the position of being the provider. They need to realize that when you make enough to hold down the finances you can decide what you want out of your partner and it doesn’t need to be money like it does for most other women. fukk what everyone else has to say, decide what you want and stay convicted with that.

She’s on the fence cuz she went after the boy toy with no ambition and now she’s feeling embarrassed talking about and bringing him around her peers. High earning men don’t care about the opinions of others so they wife up the model who can’t earn as long as she checks other boxes. She needs to decide what boxes she wants her man to check, not what others think he should check.
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She probably doesn't have much of a social life and he is tapping that cervix into oblivion.

If you dikkmatize a woman you can damn near get her to do anything.

Also having money doesn't make you a genius. Nor does it make you any less human. Chick was probably lonely and horny. He came through with the orgasms. Rest is history. :yeshrug:
 

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Shorty been posting on here for over three talking about marriage, hypergamy and still single :mjlol: Like stfu. Give the coli a break so you can practice what you preach.

People seriously have no self awareness. It’s time to get off the internet and find a man that’s willing to marry you so you can be the embodiment of what you been eulogizing for the last three years, sweetness.
 

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Eh. I know a nikka at Best Buy right now knocking down a children’s doctor on the other side of town. it is what it is. A lot of these successful heauxs boring and lonely. It takes a special type of welfare recipient to agree to be around a woman like that let alone dive in her guts. Even if she’s pretty, these girls come from homes that build their whole lives around statistical success and nothing else.
 

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Lmao just like with Charlie Kirk, I’m not going to re-litigate shyt we all saw and heard with our eyes and ears. That man made up a story about working in corporate offices yet somehow convinced you that highly successful men don’t pursue highly successful women. Go find me somebody working in a corporate or professional setting who would agree with that nonsense.

He denigrated black women in very weird, offensive ways. Including peddling race science shyt. So no I’m not gonna take my foot off his neck.
:dahell: "Somehow convinced me"? I live this. I'm better educated than most, only worked one adult, post-college job, and only for a few months. You asked for an example and I got one.

"Denigrated"? He represented a good chunk of bm and I, as a bw, was in no way offended.

:mjlol: You throwing on the cape for women who lined up every show for his astute advice, women all up in the super chat. There were engagements made and he was moving in further in that matchmaking direction before his death.
 

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:dahell: "Somehow convinced me"? I live this. I'm better educated than most, only worked one adult, post-college job, and only for a few months. You asked for an example and I got one.

"Denigrated"? He represented a good chunk of bm and I, as a bw, was in no way offended.

:mjlol: You throwing on the cape for women who lined up every show for his astute advice, women all up in the super chat. There were engagements made and he was moving in further in that matchmaking direction before his death.
So you did not see successful men largely dating/marrying similar women at said job, including in management lol? Ok sure. Point remains on what most successful men pursue.

You weren’t offended by him using western beauty standards to knock black women?


Ok…
 

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Not trying to sound sexist, but the major difference between the sexes in this scenario is a trophy wife will know and embrace her role. She's cool with the comforts being provided to the point she will play her position. Whereas dudes don't have any act right, he'll be resentful about his status in life and his status in the relationship and start giving her attitude and breaking her heart in no time.

She should bounce expeditiously :coffee:
 

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She's 40 years old? He's probably not trying to marry her, or at least have a serious marriage.

I didn't watch the video so I don't know the details though.
 
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