Surgeon who makes $280K asks if she should marry her struggling actor boyfriend who made $23K last year.

[broller]

Shorty been posting on here for over three talking about marriage, hypergamy and still single Like stfu. Give the coli a break so you can practice what you preach.

People seriously have no self awareness. It’s time to get off the internet and find a man that’s willing to marry you so you can be the embodiment of what you been eulogizing for the last three years, sweetness.

Which poster?

 

[WIA20XX]

 

[ORDER_66]

How you as a man only making 3K a year and surviving off that?!?

 

[Gizmo_Duck]

How you as a man only making 3K a year and surviving off that?!?

You tell us

 

[ORDER_66]

You tell us

I make more than 3k and im single you clown...

 

[Afro]

A woman is gonna make the bulk of the money, get pregnant and then go back to work and leave the baby with the husband? What is the point of that lol

Got a woman like that at my job now. She the only breadwinner and they just bought a house with a small child in the mix.

 

[Gloxina]

Not trying to sound sexist, but the major difference between the sexes in this scenario is a trophy wife will know and embrace her role. She's cool with the comforts being provided to the point she will play her position. Whereas dudes don't have any act right, he'll be resentful about his status in life and his status in the relationship and start giving her attitude and breaking her heart in no time.

She should bounce expeditiously

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Cats acting like we don’t know what we’re talking about.

This dynamic will not work with a normal, healthy male who demands/expects respect from the woman in his life. I ain’t saying he needs to be a surgeon as well but he needs to be doing something more than bringing in $23k per year

 

[IIVI]

She’s making big money at 40 and still clueless.

There’s a reason why she still makes poor decisions into her 40’s while her colleagues already got kids finishing up college.

 

[Gloxina]

My niece could be doing it rn but she's a Cap- you understand.

I think it's still feasible. We're simply not raising the women to inspire such devotion, nor the bm who take proper offense to another man 'paying his woman for her time,' whole different conversation.

True.
And chile that topic has been broached on this site and they bit our heads off so I ain’t even going to touch that. The ones who get it put themselves in a position to make it happen lol

 

[WIA20XX]

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Cats acting like we don’t know what we’re talking about.

This dynamic will not work with a normal, healthy male who demands/expects respect from the woman in his life. I ain’t saying he needs to be a surgeon as well but he needs to be doing something more than bringing in $23k per year

She can make all the bread, but I LEAD THE RELATIONSHIP.

When these heifers start making some coin, suddenly I gotta be on my best behavior?

No. The only thing that's changed is her change.

If y'all need some more IZM, feel free to send Umar me some money (aka CASH APP)

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

She sounds Indian or some kind of asian
That white boy playing with the sliders up
A mediocre white boy be running through every color hoe with no expectations other than just being white

 

[lib123]

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Cats acting like we don’t know what we’re talking about.

This dynamic will not work with a normal, healthy male who demands/expects respect from the woman in his life. I ain’t saying he needs to be a surgeon as well but he needs to be doing something more than bringing in $23k per year

Yeah it don’t make sense. The odds of both the man and woman being cool with an income gap that wide over an extended period is extremely unlikely. At least one of them is gonna eventually become resentful. It’s not even just if the man is broke. That includes if the man is relatively well off himself since ultimately the woman is in charge. People point out ASAP as having his own money but the gap with Rihanna is still massive to the point where she’s ultimately funding their lifestyle. Highly unlikely it’s gonna last. The only way I think that dynamic can potentially last is if the woman inherited the wealth and never had to work for it herself. Both her and the dude will look at it differently.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I think the issue is it just being socially acceptable
I have seen plenty of stories like this
where the woman is the breadwinner and a man is chasing a dream business, becoming an athlete, or music
It's really about if you can handle them not making it, 500k is enough for a family
Its really about what you think is acceptable
Its always funny that a man is a bum but men regularly do this with women
its just a social construct

The difference is, the man still wants to wear the pants, and be in control in the household. You can’t wear the pants while a woman is supporting you. And I’m sure we’ve all seen or heard about women holding a man down during the come up, then when he makes it, he leaves her for another woman, since now he has access to women he didn’t have before he made it. To act like every man will be forever loyal to the woman who held him down is ridiculous.

 

[KidJSoul]

seen this play out before. dude was engineering making like 150k shorty was an oncologist making like 900k. dude was like why i gotta work we got more then enough money off her salary. (fact) he quit job. they still married that was like 8 years ago but she don't respect him and bad mouth him every chance she get.

Women don't want to be the only one working they start feeling like the mother. it's all biological...

Which sucks becsuse women can do that and its less of an issue

What women find attractive plays a role on gender inequality

 

[ItWasMeThough]

Which poster?

@Gloxina