Sweet Love Would Be Made To Kelis

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Well enjoy the holiday season and your bdays. As long as no one goes overboard, it’s all good. ☺️

Yea, my family will literally call you fat. Half of it it is just so they won’t shame me 🤣

But it prepares you for society’s scrutiny. I’m actually a bit insecure because they damn near gave me a complex.

My military aunt was trying to compare herself to me and I was like “TF?! You had to be in peak physical condition for like 30+yrs straight. You’re going to be fit until you’re in your 70s:wtf:” lmao

I have aunts (and uncles) who are literally in their 80s who are still traveling by themselves. It’s unreal. So to them if you’re in your 20s-40s you’re a baby and there’s no reason you shouldn’t be fit.



I wish that the rest of these women would adopt this attitude. I think people should be shamed. I used to get mad when folks would say something to me but you know what? I'd rather that than getting out of control.

And women especially need that because unfortunately women often don't lose weight as easily as men. And then you add pregnancies on top of that and it becomes a wrap.

I firmly believe that if a woman hasnt had any babies yet, she has no excuse to be fat. A lot of these chics be overweight in their 20s.

And it's like, what the hell are you doing? :dahell:

And of course if you say something to them, most of them get angry so you just gotta leave it alone and that leaves us where we are now with a bunch of young women with terrible titty to tummy ratios walking around here.

:snoop: and of course it affects our community worse because many of us live in food deserts where we don't have easy access to healthy alternatives.
 

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I wish that the rest of these women would adopt this attitude. I think people should be shamed. I used to get mad when folks would say something to me but you know what? I'd rather that than getting out of control.

And women especially need that because unfortunately women often don't lose weight as easily as men. And then you add pregnancies on top of that and it becomes a wrap.

I firmly believe that if a woman hasnt had any babies yet, she has no excuse to be fat. A lot of these chics be overweight in their 20s.

And it's like, what the hell are you doing? :dahell:

And of course if you say something to them, most of them get angry so you just gotta leave it alone and that leaves us where we are now with a bunch of young women with terrible titty to tummy ratios walking around here.

:snoop: and of course it affects our community worse because many of us live in food deserts where we don't have easy access to healthy alternatives.
Yea. It’s also about lifestyle and upbringing. It’s tougher when you aren’t raised to be focused on health
 
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