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you are lumping a bunch of shyte together

if you think females don't curve dudes who have mad ducks & uggamuggas on their resume you a fool

you ain't getting no points for lacking discernment

quality matters more

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Women are about status and money first and foremost. Looks and promiscuity are far lower on the totem pole for women compared to men.

Just look at Beyonce. She's rich, famous, and good looking. And yet she stays with Jay-Z who is ugly and cheats on her. Why is that? Its cause he's Jay-Z. He's a high status male. The likelihood Beyonce can find a man who is richer, more famous, and a higher status than Hov is low. She lives with his cheating cause he's THE MAN. And women wanna be with THE MAN above all else. Compare that to Hov who can find a younger, prettier version of Beyonce at the drop of a hat.

Women leave men who are players when those guys can't provide them what they want. Not because those guys are sleeping around. This is simply how female nature works.
 

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Yeah, just like they always were. Nothing'ss changed in that regard.


I'm post this here for reference through the rest of my post because you're off on A LOT of the stats your quoting.

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Again, not true if you look at the chart it was above %15 for most of the time from the 1930s to 1950s.

It is very relevant to the discussion when you have people claiming that being sexual liberal is some "cac" shyt when really it's the other way around. Obsessions with chastity, sexual purity, and sexual conservatism is and always has been the real "cac" shyt.



False again. It was at least %24 percent by the 1965 and at least %35 by 1970 if you look at the chart.



The bolded is the only thing I was incorrect about, nothing on that chart or on any of the other stats I've seen prove that the rates topped 15% pre-1950. It's looks to be hovering right around it, because the percentage of Black children born to married families was 86% in 1940 and consistently stayed around that percentage throughout the decade.

Indeed, it was 35% by 1970, which means the degeneracy started a little earlier than I thought, but who cares? 65%(around two out of every three) Black children were born to married couples in 1970. The Black community was largely socially conservative pre-1970s. Simple as that.

What do you consider a "small percentage"? Because to me a "small percentage" is anything in the single digits, which the oow birth rate in the black community never was by 1930. Anything higher is clearly a very noticeable amount. Unless you of course consider blacks to be a "small percentage" or the US population.

A small percentage is a group of people who represent something rare to the norm. If, for example, 14% of people in a group have children out of wedlock, that would mean out of every seven couples, a total of one of them meets that percentage. A rarity, an abnormality, a small percentage.

It's not irrelevant, because AAs were not consider to be socially conservative at that time just like we aren't now. No one including black people at that time would've said that the black community was sexually conservative.

We were ridiculed as "bucks", "jezebels", "wenches", and deviants by racist back then as well.

Racist stereotypes does not accurately describe a group of people -- obviously. Regardless of what racists thought, Black people were indeed socially conservative pre-1970s.

It doesn't make sense to take something from history and not put it in it's proper historical context. Social conservatism had a very different meaning and served a different purpose back then than it does now. Especially when you consider the lack mass availability of contraceptives, protection, abortion clinics, and much higher rates of maternal deaths etc etc. It was a completely different world back then. The tangible risk associated with being sexually active aren't anywhere near as great now as they were then.

Which is ironic, considering out of wedlock births, STD's, and record high rates of abortion are far bigger problems for Black people today than they were then. You would think we would be doing a lot better than that generation, with all of the Planned Parenthood(abortion) clinics, available contraceptives, and easy-to-google information about reproductive health. Unfortunately, the opposite is true. Far different world indeed.

I have no idea what the rate of maternal death was back then, but considering women had far more children than they do today, I'm going to assume that the vast majority of births were safe and successful.

These numbers are just off. Again, see the chart. And again the effects of the sexual revolution, which was a WORLD wide phenomenon btw, certainly wasn't just limited to the black community in the America. You can see from the chart that all racial/ethnic groups saw in big increase in oow births. Our oow birthrate was as higher than average before it and it's the higher than average now. Nothing has changed for us relative to the wider society we live in. In fact whites saw the most pronounced increase as they went from ~%2-3(very rare) to %28.6.

Just about everything has changed with Black family structure. There was no other community more negatively impacted by the sexual revolution and the reckless sexual culture it created than Black Americans.

1865-1930's.
Average Non-Black Child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time

1940-1960
Average Non-Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time

1965(Sexual Revolution starting in the early '60s)
Average Non-Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time

1970
Average Non-Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the majority of the time

1976
Average Non-Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents half of the time

1985
Average Non-Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents a minority percentage(40%) of the time

1990-95
Average Non-Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents a small percentage(30-35%) of the time

2000-2005
Average Non-Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents very rarely.

2019
Average Non-Black child - Born to and raised by married parents the vast majority of the time
Average Black child - Born to and raised by married parents very rarely.

While other groups may have been affected by the increased degeneracy of the last half-century of America, none of them were impacted anywhere near as severely as Black people were. That's the best I can break it down for you.

~%39 is not rare.

Agreed. Good thing the Black OOW birthrate never reached 39% pre-1970. Though a minority percentage, that figure is not rare.

Yeah, lets try

Native Americans- %67.8

Jamaica- %86

(Afro)Trinidadians- %66+
Study shows Trinidadian men now more family oriented

St. Kitts and Nevis- %76
SKNVibes | On The Spot (Part IV) Our high unwed birth rate speaks volumes, but what does it actually say? (Part I)

St. Lucia- %85
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Antigua and Barbuda - %80+
Alternative Readings: The Status of the Status of Children Act in Antigua and Barbuda on JSTOR

Lets try every country from Demmark and above.

Let's not. This discussion is about Black Americans and comparing our values, with regard to family structure, to the values of the past. What's happening in other countries is irrelevant when it comes to this --- different laws, traditions, views, customs, economic systems, and all that other good stuff.

Native Americans(Mongol) Indians are a very tiny percentage of the population, and they have all kinds of problems with regard to violence and alcoholism. They're not a community anyone should be looking to follow.



And what do you mean "paid the price"? We in a comparatively better position now than we were then. If anything we lost our communal structure which led to the shutdown of all of the mutual aid societies and benevolent societies(basically community funded welfare since black people were shut out of most gov assistance programs in the past) that allowed our community to be somewhat self reliant.

We're doing worse comparatively to other groups in the country just like we were back then. Again, nothing's changed. So, how you can attempt to attribute the oow birth rate or our level of sexual conservatism or liberalism to our poor condition is beyond me.

We're paying the price due to the lack of progress that has been made over the past forty years. We've been stagnant in all areas of consequence and in many cases we're going backwards; from stagnant economic and education growth relative to other groups, to higher debt, to having a worst racial wealth gap than we had 35-40 years ago, to the school-to-prison pipeline leading to record high prison incarceration rates. Guess who are the biggest victims of that pipeline? Black boys raised by single mothers in a broke family structure. Guess who is more likely to go into the streets and get into trouble? Same answer.

How is a group supposed to build wealth if most of its children grow up neglected in a broken family structure? You can't! It's a recipe for disaster. It's going to cause all kinds of problems in other areas of life.

We no longer enjoy the status of being the number-one minority group in America, and as other groups are growing their populations, they will soon surpass Blacks in total population,(which will give them more political power as you're seeing with Latinos right now), wealth & income and land/property owned. They've already surpassed us in education. We're on our way to a collective net worth of $0 in a few decades, and we're on the way to being replaced(See Southern California as the blueprint).

If you're constantly last in every major category, as other groups surpass you in a Capitalist system of limited resources, you're not just stagnant, you're going backwards; things are getting worse for you. Blacks are nowhere near prepared to fight this economic war that's coming up.


While life wasn't a bowl of cherries for Blacks in the past, the overall collective backbone of the community was much stronger, especially with how families were organized. And had Black Americans kept those same values they had up until 1965, we'd be much better off as a group.

Many(most actually) of those countries in the above chart with a high oow birth rate have a very high standard of living. Vs the British-Pakistani community which has a oow birth rate in the single digits and is plagued with all kinds of social issues similar to the African-American community.

I don't care about the British-Pakistani community, I care to discuss Black Americans.

Feel free to post the stats for those groups. And fyi. most white americans even by the late 19th century weren't of actual anglo saxon(english) stock.

Yes, I know -- and most of those melting pot European immigrants lived in extended families, the original traditional family.
 

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Women are about status and money first and foremost. Looks and promiscuity are far lower on the totem pole for women compared to men.

Just look at Beyonce. She's rich, famous, and good looking. And yet she stays with Jay-Z who is ugly and cheats on her. Why is that? Its cause he's Jay-Z. He's a high status male. The likelihood Beyonce can find a man who is richer, more famous, and a higher status than Hov is low. She lives with his cheating cause he's THE MAN. And women wanna be with THE MAN above all else. Compare that to Hov who can find a younger, prettier version of Beyonce at the drop of a hat.

Women leave men who are players when those guys can't provide them what they want. Not because those guys are sleeping around. This is simply how female nature works.
you are generalizing

in a situation where a woman is coming from money & will never in her life need a man for money or whatever all that buying puzzy shyte is out the window

there's cats with more bread than jigga given your reasoning bey been creeping


jeff.bezos & bill.gates got all the hoes huh¿ ha

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in a situation where a woman is coming from money & will never in her life need a man for money or whatever all that buying puzzy shyte is out the window

there's cats with more bread than jigga given your reasoning bey been creeping

Beyonce got money out the ass but she hasn't left Jay-Z even though she has acknowledged he has been cheating on her constantly. Its not money that attracts women to men. Its STATUS. For most men, the more money you make the higher your STATUS and thus the more women will come after you. With Jay-Z it ain't just about his money but his fame and importance to the culture that impacts his STATUS.

What man could Beyonce land that is more famous and important to the culture than Jay-Z? Michael Jordan? Kobe? LeBron? All of em are married. And honestly they probably have no interest in her. Kobe had a young Beyonce doing songs with him. If he didn't make a move on her when she was younger and more attractive, there's no way he would make a move on her now. Unlike women, men don't find girls more attractive the more famous they become.

Men and women are different. It don't matter how much money or fame a woman gets, she will always want her man to be of a higher status. Men on the other hand don't care how rich or famous their woman is. We only care about how a woman looks and how she treats us. PERIOD.
 

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Beyonce got money out the ass but she hasn't left Jay-Z even though she has acknowledged he has been cheating on her constantly. Its not money that attracts women to men. Its STATUS. For most men, the more money you make the higher your STATUS and thus the more women will come after you. With Jay-Z it ain't just about his money but his fame and importance to the culture that impacts his STATUS.

What man could Beyonce land that is more famous and important to the culture than Jay-Z? Michael Jordan? Kobe? LeBron? All of em are married. And honestly they probably have no interest in her. Kobe had a young Beyonce doing songs with him. If he didn't make a move on her when she was younger and more attractive, there's no way he would make a move on her now. Unlike women, men don't find girls more attractive the more famous they become.

Men and women are different. It don't matter how much money or fame a woman gets, she will always want her man to be of a higher status. Men on the other hand don't care how rich or famous their woman is. We only care about how a woman looks and how she treats us. PERIOD.
jigga cheating on bey is a storyline embellished for an album ha

& bey got more status than jigga at this point

it doesn't sound like you are dealing with knowledge gained from actual real life

life is not youtube red pill fukkery b

think about this a nikka like donald.trump will never get any p*ssy he didn't pay for in life

no higher status than leader of the fukking free world ha

women don't become obedient just off achieving a certain status in life that's the fairytale they sell to grown up lames sorry

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women don't become obedient just off achieving a certain status in life that's the fairytale they sell to grown up lames sorry

When did I say women become obedient? They just care about different things than we do. They'd rather be with a rich famous guy who is cheating on them than a broke loser who won't. I got no idea what you're arguing about but I never said anything about obedience. All I've said is men and women are different in what we desire in the opposite sex. Women are more likely to care about things like money and fame while men are more likely to care about looks and body counts.

Stop trying to act like women look for the same things in men that we look for in women.
 

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When did I say women become obedient? They just care about different things than we do. They'd rather be with a rich famous guy who is cheating on them than a broke loser who won't. I got no idea what you're arguing about but I never said anything about obedience. All I've said is men and women are different in what we desire in the opposite sex. Women are more likely to care about things like money and fame while men are more likely to care about looks and body counts.

Stop trying to act like women look for the same things in men that we look for in women.
let's substitute attraction for obedience then

point is money & fame alone ain't getting you nothing but whores & golddiggers

you oversimplify what women value

it's really your loss

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point is money & fame alone ain't getting you nothing but whores & golddiggers

True. But you just showed us another huge difference between men and women. Women will pursue men they are not physically attracted to if the man has other things the woman wants like money. You don't see this in men. For example, how many good looking men do you see with fat ugly women? Now compare that to the number of beautiful women we see with fat ugly men?

Remember Mike Jones lyrics "back then hoes didn't want me, now I'm hot hoes all on me." Any man with sense knows that when you get money and fame the vast majority of women coming at you will be chasing you because of what you can provide for them not because they have some real attraction to you. The thing is as men we really don't care. Cause at the end of the day if I'm getting the p*ssy then I don't care what it was that got me it. Whether it was good looks, charm, or this huge pot of gold these hoes see I'm sitting on.
 

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True. But you just showed us another huge difference between men and women. Women will pursue men they are not physically attracted to if the man has other things the woman wants like money. You don't see this in men. For example, how many good looking men do you see with fat ugly women? Now compare that to the number of beautiful women we see with fat ugly men?

Remember Mike Jones lyrics "back then hoes didn't want me, now I'm hot hoes all on me." Any man with sense knows that when you get money and fame the vast majority of women coming at you will be chasing you because of what you can provide for them not because they have some real attraction to you. The thing is as men we really don't care. Cause at the end of the day if I'm getting the p*ssy then I don't care what it was that got me it. Whether it was good looks, charm, or this huge pot of gold these hoes see I'm sitting on.
there's way more dudes out there that will trick off

ain't many women that can or will financially carry a dude

why historically it's been women selling sex¿

it's not a matter of attraction it's a survival tactic & a fukking cash grab dummy ha

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it's not a matter of attraction it's a survival tactic & a fukking cash grab dummy ha

I'm not disagreeing with you here. Women sell sex to men they aren't attracted to for things they want. And men are more than willing to spend for sex cause thats all we care about.

With that said, even if you make a woman rich she will still desire to be with a man who makes more money than her. Just look at most famous women. You rarely see them with normal dudes. They typically date other celebrities. Britney Spears marrying her backup dancer back in the day made waves cause it was a rarity. Now compare that to rich famous men. Yes many of those guys also marry famous women. But its alot more common for rich famous dudes to marry women who are not on their level of fame or wealth. Look at George Clooney marrying some female lawyer. How about all the top athletes? Guys like Kobe, Jordan, LeBron. They all married women relative no name women. D-Wade is the outlier among athletes when it comes to marrying a woman who is almost as famous as him.

Its more common for high status men to marry women who are not rich or famous than it is for a high status female to marry a man who is not on her level of wealth or fame. That's cause social status is more important to women when it comes to what they look for in a partner than it is for men. Age is the thing that seems to matters most to men because almost every rich and famous guy tends to marry a woman who is younger than him (in most cases much younger). The same phenomenon doesn't happen with women. They tend to marry men who are their age or older because they value more than just looks while men mostly just value looks when it comes to a partner.
 

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I'm not disagreeing with you here. Women sell sex to men they aren't attracted to for things they want. And men are more than willing to spend for sex cause thats all we care about.

With that said, even if you make a woman rich she will still desire to be with a man who makes more money than her. Just look at most famous women. You rarely see them with normal dudes. They typically date other celebrities. Britney Spears marrying her backup dancer back in the day made waves cause it was a rarity. Now compare that to rich famous men. Yes many of those guys also marry famous women. But its alot more common for rich famous dudes to marry women who are not on their level of fame or wealth. Look at George Clooney marrying some female lawyer. How about all the top athletes? Guys like Kobe, Jordan, LeBron. They all married women relative no name women. D-Wade is the outlier among athletes when it comes to marrying a woman who is almost as famous as him.

Its more common for high status men to marry women who are not rich or famous than it is for a high status female to marry a man who is not on her level of wealth or fame. That's cause social status is more important to women when it comes to what they look for in a partner than it is for men. Age is the thing that seems to matters most to men because almost every rich and famous guy tends to marry a woman who is younger than him (in most cases much younger). The same phenomenon doesn't happen with women. They tend to marry men who are their age or older.
speak for yourself sex is not all i care about it's something with a criteria a woman has to meet to get blessed with

look at all the L's men take fukking with duck bytches & you excusing it¿

maybe it's normal if you unfortunately income from a pedigree of suckers

cats that think like you plant their seeds in the gutter ha

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speak for yourself sex is not all i care about it's something with a criteria a woman has to meet to get blessed with

look at all the L's men take fukking with duck bytches & you excusing it¿

maybe it's normal if you unfortunately income from a pedigree of suckers

cats that think like you plant their seeds in the gutter ha

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Its called accepting our true nature. Maybe you're an outlier but what I'm describing is how MOST men and women think.

I choose to accept my base animal insticts and won't deny it just cause society wants us to be politically correct.
 

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(a) Sex exists so we reproduce. Homo sex has no correlation to reproduction and thus is unnatural. Most gays can be identified just by looking at them.
(b) Wanting sex is natural but you also want to set your kids up for the best life. Its not in a woman's best interest to have sex at a young age. A woman sets herself up for the best life possible by withholding sex until a man can prove he is willing to sacrifice for her.

Wanting fatty food is natural but if you are a good parent you will try to give your kids a healthy diet that will set them up for the best life possible. Just because wanting something is natural doesn't mean you gotta indulge your kids with it. The job of a parent is to set their kids up for the best life possible not to just give them whatever they want as a teen.
:mjlol: @ gays can be identified just by looking at them. Gays can be identified by looking at them if they choose to reveal their homosexuality to the outside world. If they don't, you won't.

And the best life possible for a woman is definetely not living with repressed sexuality and the trauma from her parents trying to control her body. If you want your daughter to grow up healthy, you educate her about healthy relationships, good partners and contraception.
 
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