Do me a favor breh? I'm at work and can't listen to the clip. Can you provide a brief synopsis?
He gave examples of several words that people in certain groups use and it is understood that if you are not a member of that group you are not allowed to use it, and more importantly you usually have no desire to use It. He said he would not join into a conversation with his wife and her friends if they saying "yas bytch" etc, or call his white friend "white trash" just because his friend refers to his cabin as the white trash cabin.
He thinks white people's desire to say "******" is the result of their privilege and entitled mentality. Whites can't refrain from using the word cos they want everything and they can't handle the idea of letting black people have a privilege word just within our community even though there are countless examples if privilege words specific to different community and groups.
TLDR: Whiteys just can't stand the idea of blacks having something all to themselves.