As someone who partook, both parties have to be okay with whatever happens plus you don’t have to do anything with anyone when you attend. Sometimes, the erotic vibes is enough. People conflate orgy with swinger party. They’re not the same. A swinger party is mostly like going to a strip club (music, naked or partly naked people [men and mostly women], and alcohol) with a higher possibility of sex. I was never bothered with any of it nor my past partners.
Plus, it was never the reason why I disconnected with them. I find humor in you Moral Orels every time this subject comes up because this stuff is sought not tripped over. I didn’t watch the video but I have no sympathy for the dude or any dudes who are butthurt (pause) from the ramifications of what should be a mutual and shared experience, pun-intended. They should have been 100% okay with all the possibilities.
Let me leave with this, the drama is rarely with a guy watching his woman get fukked and she’s enjoying herself. The scary drama is a woman watching her man fukk another woman and God forbid if both parties are into it. That’s what a man has to be most concerned with.