Take your girl to a swingers party Breh, you gonna find out who she really is

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You act like he said something deep. Look here, if you take a chick you are serious about to a swinger party, you deserve what you get
So you didn't get what he said then. Cause if you did you wouldn't be operating from a frame of reference thinking "you deserve what you get". If you're going to a swingers' party you go with the understanding anything can happen and you as well as your partner have to be at peace with it. For you if you went with your girl you would feel threatened, which means it isn't something for you. It isn't meant for the majority of people, you have to be wired differently.... no harm no foul.
 
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I won’t lie years ago, this would have bothered me but I’ve matured to indifference. I am not responding to you but in general.
It takes time of reflection and reconciling with the concept of ego, jealousy, etc. As you see by the majority of respondents that is not something they have addressed or are comfortable with. Probably too deep for a message board, but then again a good placd because it would take time read the ideas amd then have to revisit them. Whereas if it were conveyed through spoken word nothing would get through because the defensive shields are already up just from the whole concept.
 
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So you didn't get what he said then. Cause if you did you wouldn't be operating from a frame of reference thinking "you deserve what you get". If you're going to a swingers' party you go with the understanding anything can happen and you as well as your partner have to be at peace with it. For you if you went with your girl you would feel threatened, which means it isn't something for you. It isn't meant for the majority of people, you have to be wired differently.... no harm no foul.

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It takes time of reflection and reconciling with the concept of ego, jealousy, etc. As you see by the majority of respondents that is not something they have addressed or are comfortable with. Probably too deep for a message board, but then again a good placd because it would take time read the ideas amd then have to revisit them. Whereas if it were conveyed through spoken word nothing would get through because the defensive shields are already up just from the whole concept.

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Bruh. Y’all trying to hard…
 
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if this is something you're into from the jump, sure whatever, but just like polyamory I don't see this as something you can 'move' a relationship into without getting extremely messy in the process.
 
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