Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

[Yup]

cause you see it as a fight or a war. the scenario i described if the girl is actually trying to avoid awkwardness but the guy is just aloof. had she not paid, he would have with no hesitation but it's no psychological war. you're scenario is just a war of who's gonna come out on top and 1up the other.

A guy approaches a girl and they go out on a date, he should pay. Its not more complicated than that. If you want sex only approach girls who want the same.
You are not going to get a relationship material girl who is going to accept being treated as disposable.

 

[13473]

 

[KinksandCoils]

sometimes it's because the girl doesn't have the ability to make the guy want to take her out. you want to talk about back in the days. but back in the days people in general were more discrete. women today are sexually liberated. that's cool and all but what the fukk i look like taking you out on dates so you would become my girl" when the next guy is getting his dikk wet from you and everybody knows? not saying it didn't happen back then but shyt was more hush hush cause there was no social media, less exposals and more shame in general.

i don't think shyt was better (or worse) back then. it was just different it's like everyone wants the best of both worlds. Women want to have the option to behave like men (be promiscuous, be unladylike, "don't judge me", not cook, not clean, etc) but at the same time still want to keep the p*ssy power. Men want women to cook, clean, be submissive, they want to be the leaders etc but still want them to work fulltime and pay half the bills. both sides are fukked.

So if she isn't worth taking out, why even talk to her ?




Oh cause y'all want sex


Seriously y'all use the excuse that she probably has someone dikking her down which is lame because if u feel like that then u shouldn't be speaking to her but yet u speak to her because you want to be the other guy dikking her down.

Bottom line is plenty of women let men get away with being a bum ass nikka by not taking them out on dates. That's why y'all do it because while one girl won't be cool chilling at the crib the next girl will be.

I found that men who are serious with trying to get to know u and be with u will take u out because nothing is impressive about chilling at your damn crib.

 

[Yup]

cause you see it as a fight or a war. the scenario i described if the girl is actually trying to avoid awkwardness but the guy is just aloof. had she not paid, he would have with no hesitation but it's no psychological war. you're scenario is just a war of who's gonna come out on top and 1up the other.

You said you don't want to get married right, grt with girls with similar mindsets why complain about girls who do not share you knew did not share your values frim the beginning.

Likewise, don't approach girls who would demand you to court them before getting in their pants. Y'all want to invest the least and want a high return on your investment, thats called bejng a chump.

 

[Peak]

I've done a first date at McDonald's which resulted in a lengthy relationship.

I've also done dates at fancy restaurants which resulted in nothing.

Play it by ear

 

[Thegospel]

OP is 1000 percent correct. I'd never take a female out to dinner unless she's paying for her own food and drinks.

 

[Yup]

I've done a first date at McDonald's which resulted in a lengthy relationship.

I've also done dates at fancy restaurants which resulted in nothing.

Play it by ear

The point is put effort in getting to know the person...its not necessarily the monetary value its the effort.

 

[Yup]

OP is 1000 percent correct. I'd never take a female out to dinner unless she's paying for her own food and drinks.

Ok than don't date and don't expect sex.

 

[Peak]

The point is put effort in getting to know the person...its not necessarily the monetary value its the effort.

So cooking a nice meal in your home for your date is not effort?

 

[mamba]

Y'all 2014 chill at the crib type of dudes are too much

So when she wants to go out and have a good time now y'all say it's all about the money?!

If you're too broke to spend some money then you either need to be creative with what u do or not have a girl period.

You can go to beaches, parks, free events, etc.

It's 2014. She could always spend some money, too. Maybe if she isn't willing to spend some money, she does not need to have a man, period.

 

[Pdiddy]

I'm going out on a date tonight,,,,it's going to cost me $4 9 times out of 10 I will be fukking her by next weekend. Simps can spend that big money if they want to.

 

[KinksandCoils]

It's 2014. She could always spend some money, too. Maybe if she isn't willing to spend some money, she does not need to have a man, period.

That's true. I don't suggest anyone seek relationships being broke.

 

[13473]

 

[Yup]

So cooking a nice meal in your home for your date is not effort?

It's not that, you meet someone for the first time, its not safe for a girl to go to some strangers house. I would save that for later in the relationship.

 

[Yup]

does it qualify as taking someone out if they pay? i'd never say "i took him out to dinner" if he paid. i'd say he took me out. you guys are just meeting up.

Pretty much.