Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

[Docaveli]

exactly. i see it the exact same way. even the part where you talk about playing the game a little. no one is 100% perfect and never compromises.

i read this analogy about the matrix. it's like that scene when Neo asks Morpheus if one day he'll be able to dodge bullets. and Morpheus tells him one day he won't even need to dodge them. he'll just stop them. when you really get to know yourself and you just genuinely love yourself more than you love p*ssy it's almost like everything clicks.

shyt just clicks like

Absolutely, 2pac talked about this in one of his last interviews, he said he has his self esteem now, and he didn't need to fukk 30 bytches or be in the room when other nikkas is fukking a bytch, not because of jail but because he has his confidence and self esteem. He said in the hood we are taught by older nikkas that only thing we are good for is our sexuality. This is a 25 year old man saying this 18 years ago and i'm 31 now and if that ain't the truth I don't know what is.

If this was a game u have to be willing to let 9 bytches go to get 1 solid one cus that's what I gun take if u want to win. You gun have to be willing to be rejected by 100 girls but all u need is that one to say yes and you might have just struck gold. That analogy about nothing good in life comes easy is true but some nikkas and bytches have been playing that game wrong.

See nikkas equate that analogy to bytches making u wait to fukk and think they the right one, noo, it means that u gun have to go thru fire to find peace, and some people do and some people don't, its just the way it is.

 

[newworldafro]

we offer

humor
charisma
protection
security
leadership..
etc


do yall do other than cooch

I might make this a "business" card for dating.....

 

[mamba]

breh we do everything

they too coward to get what they want..too shook to approach

so a nikka finally pulls up on them

makes all the initial moves
sets the planning
gives her a ride
entertains her
feeds her
takes her home safely


but get clowned when u attempt to smash

That was all understandable when women were shut out of the workforce.

Now, women are making money. They wanted to throw out the pieces of patriarchy that weren't beneficial to them, while keeping the other pieces that do benefit them.

 

[Thegospel]

Ok than don't date and don't expect sex.

Taking a bytch out isn't the only way to get p*ssy.

 

[newworldafro]

I'm going out on a date tonight,,,,it's going to cost me $4 9 times out of 10 I will be fukking her by next weekend. Simps can spend that big money if they want to.

what are you paying for the parking lot?? what kind of date is that??

 

[Thegospel]

does it qualify as taking someone out if they pay? i'd never say "i took him out to dinner" if he paid. i'd say he took me out. you guys are just meeting up.

Nah. If the other person pays for their own stuff you guys are just kickin it.

 

[MushroomX]

Yes. It goes both ways. Courting is a two-way process, brehette.

It's 2014. The game has changed. Women have to start breaking open those purses.

The only time they open their purse, is to buy another purse.

 

[mamba]

The only time they open their purse, is to buy another purse.

This shyt needs to be put on a t-shirt.

 

[Turbulent]

So if she isn't worth taking out, why even talk to her ?




Oh cause y'all want sex


Seriously y'all use the excuse that she probably has someone dikking her down which is lame because if u feel like that then u shouldn't be speaking to her but yet u speak to her because you want to be the other guy dikking her down.

Bottom line is plenty of women let men get away with being a bum ass nikka by not taking them out on dates. That's why y'all do it because while one girl won't be cool chilling at the crib the next girl will be.

I found that men who are serious with trying to get to know u and be with u will take u out because nothing is impressive about chilling at your damn crib.

how the fukk would i know if you're "worth" a date if i don't know you?

i'd rather not take a chick i don't know on a date. what's wrong with that? you mentioned "back in the days, guys used to..." and i just pointed out that there's a lot of shyt that was different back in the days. but you're talking as if you're entitled to a date just off GP. women could be users is just one of the excuses. economy is bad, dudes are lazy, dudes are cheap, bytches are wack, all sorts of reasons why dudes don't want to go on dates. but whatever the reason is, you're not entitled to a date just cause you got a p*ssy.

I found that men who are serious with trying to get to know u and be with u will take u out because nothing is impressive about chilling at your damn crib

your whole mentality is like i should be trying to impress you, trying to convince you, trying to get you and now you,re frustrated cause dudes got wise and do what they feel instead of what you want. nothing wrong with taking a chick to your crib and fukking on the first night if that's what the guy is into. if you're not with it, nothing wrong with that either. no one is forcing you to do anything. but why are you trying to shame dudes into wanting to take girls out on a date? why not find a way to make them desire to take you on a date instead? or why not just fukk with the dude who actually wants to take you out on date instead of trying to convert all men into your philosophy?

 

[Turbulent]

i'm trying to avoid awkwardness too. he would never hear the end of my mouth if i paid especially if we haven't dated awhile. men are paid more. him paying is fair. plus i know he's going to want me to do all types of traditional things. why should i pay for food, cook AND clean. i like doing none of those things.

i feel like we're talking two seperate convos/subjects.

 

[Turbulent]

A guy approaches a girl and they go out on a date, he should pay. Its not more complicated than that. If you want sex only approach girls who want the same.
You are not going to get a relationship material girl who is going to accept being treated as disposable.

it's not written on your forehead hence why i said, get to know the chick before going on a date with her. there is no "rule" about who should pay. my post only mentioned that some chicks actually will want to pay cause they are feeling you like that. i never said women should or shouldn't pay.

 

[mamba]

how the fukk would i know if you're "worth" a date if i don't know you?

i'd rather not take a chick i don't know on a date. what's wrong with that? you mentioned "back in the days, guys used to..." and i just pointed out that there's a lot of shyt that was different back in the days. but you're talking as if you're entitled to a date just off GP. women could be users is just one of the excuses. economy is bad, dudes are lazy, dudes are cheap, bytches are wack, all sorts of reasons why dudes don't want to go on dates. but whatever the reason is, you're not entitled to a date just cause you got a p*ssy.




your whole mentality is like i should be trying to impress you, trying to convince you, trying to get you and now you,re frustrated cause dudes got wise and do what they feel instead of what you want. nothing wrong with taking a chick to your crib and fukking on the first night if that's what the guy is into. if you're not with it, nothing wrong with that either. no one is forcing you to do anything. but why are you trying to shame dudes into wanting to take girls out on a date? why not find a way to make them desire to take you on a date instead? or why not just fukk with the dude who actually wants to take you out on date instead of trying to convert all men into your philosophy?

Good post, breh. Men are wising up to the game. Make these chicks prove they're worthy before coming up off your time and money.

p*ssy is abundant. Your time and money aren't. Women don't even value their pussies. Why should you put it on a pedestal?

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

When I dated, I used Panera Bread as a litmus test. Its cheap and I wanted to see if she was as bourgeois as the rest of them in there.

 

[Nino Brown]

Nikkaz writin paragraphs and shyt over this tru story

 

[Turbulent]

Absolutely, 2pac talked about this in one of his last interviews, he said he has his self esteem now, and he didn't need to fukk 30 bytches or be in the room when other nikkas is fukking a bytch, not because of jail but because he has his confidence and self esteem. He said in the hood we are taught by older nikkas that only thing we are good for is our sexuality. This is a 25 year old man saying this 18 years ago and i'm 31 now and if that ain't the truth I don't know what is.

If this was a game u have to be willing to let 9 bytches go to get 1 solid one cus that's what I gun take if u want to win. You gun have to be willing to be rejected by 100 girls but all u need is that one to say yes and you might have just struck gold. That analogy about nothing good in life comes easy is true but some nikkas and bytches have been playing that game wrong.

See nikkas equate that analogy to bytches making u wait to fukk and think they the right one, noo, it means that u gun have to go thru fire to find peace, and some people do and some people don't, its just the way it is.

it's an ego thing. dudes want to be the man to every single female they meet. getting the one that fits their program simply isn't enough. they also want the one who opposes it and spend so much energy on that for no reason. like trying to fit the square into the circle. one of my fav Nas lines ever is "I got no game it's just some bytches understand my story...". what's so great about that line is the nuance. take out the word "some" and automatically it's just a typical bragging line. he's not saying all girls mess with him, just some and that's perfectly fine with him. not trying to convince the others to mess with him. but it all starts with your mindset. it's a philosophy you have to truly believe. you have to commit to it. and like you said, you might lose some but it's worth the "sacrifice". Dudes are trying to use shortcuts to get p*ssy. but sometimes it's the shortcuts that end up leading you to long detours and going back on your tracks (so you lose more time in the end).

by the way, you got a youtube link to that Pac interview?