Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

[KinksandCoils]

how the fukk would i know if you're "worth" a date if i don't know you?

i'd rather not take a chick i don't know on a date. what's wrong with that? you mentioned "back in the days, guys used to..." and i just pointed out that there's a lot of shyt that was different back in the days. but you're talking as if you're entitled to a date just off GP. women could be users is just one of the excuses. economy is bad, dudes are lazy, dudes are cheap, bytches are wack, all sorts of reasons why dudes don't want to go on dates. but whatever the reason is, you're not entitled to a date just cause you got a p*ssy.




your whole mentality is like i should be trying to impress you, trying to convince you, trying to get you and now you,re frustrated cause dudes got wise and do what they feel instead of what you want. nothing wrong with taking a chick to your crib and fukking on the first night if that's what the guy is into. if you're not with it, nothing wrong with that either. no one is forcing you to do anything. but why are you trying to shame dudes into wanting to take girls out on a date? why not find a way to make them desire to take you on a date instead? or why not just fukk with the dude who actually wants to take you out on date instead of trying to convert all men into your philosophy?

This aint rocket science. You know if they are worth your time by talking to them. Why would u even want to or expect a stranger to be at your spot or to be at her spot?

Theres no excuse. the bottom line is men dont want to pay for dates. Going on dates is part of the get to know u process.

 

[Turbulent]

Nikkaz writin paragraphs and shyt over this tru story

lol, i'm doing it for the youth breh

 

[Turbulent]

This aint rocket science. You know if they are worth your time by talking to them. Why would u even want to expect a stranger to be at your spot or to be at her spot?

Theres no excuse. the bottom line is men dont want to pay for dates. Going on dates is part of the get to know u process.

i don't expect anything. i just say what i want. either she's down or she's not. if she's not, i'm not mad at her. like they say, "good luck in your future endeavors" and i'll genuinely mean it without a hint of bitterness.

 

[Ohene]

Smh men actually used to take women on dates so she would become his girl. Now it's chill at the crib cause I'm too cheap or to broke to spend a dime on u.

shall we go over the list of things girls used to do?

 

[KinksandCoils]

shall we go over the list of things girls used to do?

You mean like cook and clean?

ugh women still do that while raising babies and working full time.

 

[Luck]

That was all understandable when women were shut out of the workforce.

Now, women are making money. They wanted to throw out the pieces of patriarchy that weren't beneficial to them, while keeping the other pieces that do benefit them.

This all day. I ain't knockin chicks hustle for a free good time and a meal but it won't be on my dime. Some other sucker ass nikka can butter her up for me to smash.

You want equal rights as men, you got it. I'm not taking dudes out for free and the same goes for women. I got a right hand that gets the job done every time with out the costs or hassle.

Only pea brain ass broads put together woman logic and yell "cheap". My savings and checking accounts didnt stack ones from donating to charity

 

[patscorpio]

Legit. I do two of one things.

• Coffee Shop
• Take her to my house or go to hers, and make a meal that is about 1/3 of the price less than Olive Garden. All they serve is Pasta and Breadsticks, you can make restaurant quality breadsticks that taste better and have less cac-imbedded poisons.

youre a gotdamn fool for that

 

[Pdiddy]

what are you paying for the parking lot?? what kind of date is that??

Discount movie theater

 

[KinksandCoils]

Dudes always pull the equal rights bull until he wants her to do all the cooking and cleaning

It's easy to throw that out there when it benefits u.

 

[Turbulent]

This all day. I ain't knockin chicks hustle for a free good time and a meal but it won't be on my dime.

and that's the bottom line. eventually everyone will get in where they fit in. all this "back in the days" shyt is revisionist history a lot of times too. players, hoes, simps, tricks existed in the bible and they'll exist in the year 3051. they are all needed to achieve balance in the world. eventually shyt balances itself out. it's nature.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

clowns taking women to 5 star expensive restaurants on 1st date.

 

[Luck]

Dudes always pull the equal rights bull until he wants her to do all the cooking and cleaning

It's easy to throw that out there when it benefits u.

You assume too much.

This is 2014, you have to get ya ass out there and make money + contribute and I can cook my own meals and clean up after myself.

If you keep your house clean and eat clean then cooking and cleaning is a simple of a task as it can get.

 

[mamba]

clowns taking women to 5 star expensive restaurants on 1st date.

I've yet to take any woman out to a 5-star restaurant. I'm not spending that type of money on any chick unless we're already married.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I've yet to take any woman out to a 5-star restaurant. I'm not spending that type of money on any chick unless we're already married.

I feel ya same here,but cats trying to heavily impress these women.

 

[mamba]

Dudes always pull the equal rights bull until he wants her to do all the cooking and cleaning

It's easy to throw that out there when it benefits u.

We're talking about dating, not marriage.

We're not even talking about cohabitation, brehette.

If two people are just dating, a woman needs to open up that purse.

Courting is a two-way process. The man should plan and pay. The woman should also plan things and pay.

Those are the best types of exchanges. They lead to less resentment and both parties feel like the other is being an active participant in the process. No man wants to be doing all this planning and paying when some other nikka is gettin' the p*ssy without having to do any of that shyt.

Can you imagine how you'd feel if you were giving all your time and energy to a man, cooking for him, giving him p*ssy, etc and he only barely shows up to spend time with you? Imagine if there was another chick who didn't do any of that for him, yet he spends 90% of his time with her?

Would you think that's a good deal, brehette?