Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

[Malik]

the solution is to date chicks that are really into you. they won't care where you take them as long as they are with you. heck they'll even want to pay.

the problem is that too many of us take out chicks we don't know. spending money on chicks you've never hung out with is not a good idea in my opinion. cause you don't know if she genuinely wants to hang out with you or if she's just a user. dudes are meeting chicks, getting the digits, call later on and right away want to set up a movie date

Now I think about it. I don't recall ever taking a girl out on a first date. Like ever I've never like gotten a girl's number and then immediately set up a date next. I've always gotten to know them (call, text, hanging out), and by the time we go out on official dates, we're together already. I guess I've always known instinctively that it was lame to waste $50-$100 on some random hoochie you barely know.

 

[Nino Brown]

I always get something cheap anyways. That's always under 12.99 before tax.

 

[Killer Instinct]

the solution is to date chicks that are really into you. they won't care where you take them as long as they are with you. heck they'll even want to pay.

Selfiah females are understandbly over it, but I feel for the guys who've never experienced this.
I pay the majority of times but there's been times my chick has been adamant about footing a bill or buying the movie tickets.
We're both broke students in itself so that selflessness is appreciated.
She's Vietnamese and from a different culture so that may play a factor, too.

 

[Malik]

And by "hanging out" I dont mean having sex. Because I know the females on here will think I'm saying that. My last chick I met at work (yea I know). At first we just started kicking it, doing whatever, getting to know one another. I don't even remember what exactly. Just became attached at the hip. We didn't have a real first date until a month or so in. So I aint feel funny spending my money on her.

 

[Turbulent]

Dawg some people will never learn. The safest bet is to go dutch during the dating faze of things. Now win she becomes your woman, and it is a exclusive relationship that's when I think men should start to spend money one their woman.

we all gotta do whatever we feel is right for us. i don't have a rigid rule on this, i go with the feeling but usually i haven't spent on chicks before i fukked.

Yea. I don't recall ever taking a girl out on a first date. Like ever I've never like gotten a girl's number and then immediately set up a date next. I've always gotten to know them (call, text, hanging out), and by the time we go out on official dates, we're together already. I guess I've always known it was instinctively lame to waste $50-$100 on some random hoochie you barely know.

this is usually how it works out for me as well. there's no better feeling than fukking a chick you know is into you and the next day you take her to the movies and there's no posturing, awkwardness or pressure on either sides cause you already fukked

funny thing is, you actually feel even more generous with her afterwards a lot of times. girl just laying her head on your shoulder feeding you popcorn and shyt just feels right.

 

[Malik]

this is usually how it works out for me as well. there's no better feeling than fukking a chick you know is into you and the next day you take her to the movies and there's no posturing, awkwardness or pressure on either sides cause you already fukked

funny thing is, you actually feel even more generous with her afterwards a lot of times. girl just laying her head on your shoulder feeding you popcorn and shyt just feels right.

Shyt....thats how i thought it was supposed to work. Then I get online and read some nikkas is spending $200 trying to impress some random broad If I meet a new girl, my first thought is never let me waste half my paycheck on her. I mean. I dont know. Nikkas do things different I guess. I rather spend that first week, calling and texting, meeting up. That doesn't cost a fortune. If she really likes you, going to the park or going to get coffee or just hanging out should be enough.

 

[dap-man]

shyt I agree with you dawg. We all have do what works for us, I'm a young man and I haven't offically dated any woman yet becuase I'm focusing on my life right now. I've talked to a few women here, and there because I feel that's the best way to go for myself. I love p*ssy, I just don't let it cloud my thoughts when it comes to money, and other important things in my life. I noticed earily on in life that if a chick likes me she'll do small things to make me happy. I believe this should be a mutual thing.

Some men, and women are pretending they are interested in dating when they have other interests which isn't really connected to dating. Some men are only looking for sex, and some women are only looking for men to spoil them in return for sex which are the people who are messing up the dating scence. People need to keep it real, about the things they want.

we all gotta do whatever we feel is right for us. i don't have a rigid rule on this, i go with the feeling but usually i haven't spent on chicks before i fukked.
this is usually how it works out for me as well. there's no better feeling than fukking a chick you know is into you and the next day you take her to the movies and there's no posturing, awkwardness or pressure on either sides cause you already fukked

funny thing is, you actually feel even more generous with her afterwards a lot of times. girl just laying her head on your shoulder feeding you popcorn and shyt just feels right.

we all gotta do whatever we feel is right for us. i don't have a rigid rule on this, i go with the feeling but usually i haven't spent on chicks before i fukked.
this is usually how it works out for me as well. there's no better feeling than fukking a chick you know is into you and the next day you take her to the movies and there's no posturing, awkwardness or pressure on either sides cause you already fukked

funny thing is, you actually feel even more generous with her afterwards a lot of times. girl just laying her head on your shoulder feeding you popcorn and shyt just feels right.

we all gotta do whatever we feel is right for us. i don't have a rigid rule on this, i go with the feeling but usually i haven't spent on chicks before i fukked.
this is usually how it works out for me as well. there's no better feeling than fukking a chick you know is into you and the next day you take her to the movies and there's no posturing, awkwardness or pressure on either sides cause you already fukked

funny thing is, you actually feel even more generous with her afterwards a lot of times. girl just laying her head on your shoulder feeding you popcorn and shyt just feels right.

It's always better when a man, and woman are on the same page because they have good understanding of each other. I don't know why some people choose to seek don't share their same belief when it comes to dating, and life in genral.

 

[dap-man]

My bad about the triple quote, this site keeps acting funny on da celly.

 

[Mowgli]

 

[ster35]

why not just fukk with the ones that are choosing you at your natural state and leave the rest alone?

This is the "secret" I used to crush a ton of chicks back in my player days! I rarely had to go on dates because, they was feeling me already and would just come through and chill

 

[ster35]

My thing is just don't be the first "call" of the night, that's the dinner and movie only dude, be the 2nd bootycall/late night nikka! I took a chick to a movie once and after I dropped her off she was right behind me at a stoplight. If you must go on a date I would use groupon and/or living social to find a fun activity that I wanted to do and invite her. And I would listen very carefully after I told her that we were going to do something coupon based. If she starts clowningand if she's like "that sounds like fun"then you know all she's worried about is hanging out with you.

 

[lamont614]

thats cause men knew that once you drop them off at home..some other nikka wasnt waiting in the parking lot waiting for that 11pm text

"okay im home now...come in"

see back then females were loyal


today


you know how many times i seen a simp drop off a girl, get lame kiss....and some other dude who never spend a dime on her went to her crip and smashed

thats that ether


i know i have been on both sides when it comes to this

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I never spent more than $20 on a date with a girl that wasnt my girlfriend. Plenty of fun free shyt to do in NYC

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

thats cause men knew that once you drop them off at home..some other nikka wasnt waiting in the parking lot waiting for that 11pm text

"okay im home now...come in"

see back then females were loyal


today


you know how many times i seen a simp drop off a girl, get lame kiss....and some other dude who never spend a dime on her went to her crip and smashed

 

[Art Barr]

Smh men actually used to take women on dates so she would become his girl. Now it's chill at the crib cause I'm too cheap or to broke to spend a dime on u.

actually the smart females who are typically committal based and have are great socially.
all they want is someone to fall through.
roster builders want dates and judge their time with a prospective person.
or, their actual mate on what money was spent.

couples who are the happiest or married forever, don't really go anywhere and enjoy each other, first.
when, they go somewhere they have even more fun.
all because they have social tranquility and know what's to it.
i would tell all guys, running across women who want to be wined and dined to not even pursue those types.
as they have a roster of guys they use for free meals.
that they don't even eat, they give to the guy who just falls through.
after their dinner date drops them off.
hoping he can get some, again.
or, heaven forbid hoping he can smash for the first time.
females are easy.
if they not sleeping with you on the first day, discard them.
if they into you, your social interaction will be oversaturated and if it is not.
discard her, and move on to the next one.
if the social interaction is purposefully oversaturated and healthy, you are cool.
if the social interaction is oversaturated purposefully, and you experience decline in intimacy, discard her.



art barr