Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

[Docaveli]

it's an ego thing. dudes want to be the man to every single female they meet. getting the one that fits their program simply isn't enough. they also want the one who opposes it and spend so much energy on that for no reason. like trying to fit the square into the circle. one of my fav Nas lines ever is "I got no game it's just some bytches understand my story...". what's so great about that line is the nuance. take out the word "some" and automatically it's just a typical bragging line. he's not saying all girls mess with him, just some and that's perfectly fine with him. not trying to convince the others to mess with him. but it all starts with your mindset. it's a philosophy you have to truly believe. you have to commit to it. and like you said, you might lose some but it's worth the "sacrifice". Dudes are trying to use shortcuts to get p*ssy. but sometimes it's the shortcuts that end up leading you to long detours and going back on your tracks (so you lose more time in the end).

by the way, you got a youtube link to that Pac interview?

I agree with everything u said completely. And the interview is on youtube, just type in 2pac last interview its a 4 part interview he did about 8 mins long each, very interesting and informative.

 

[Art Barr]

Dates dont have to be expensive.

But I dont know any females thats going to a random guys house, on a first "date"

you are in ny, though.
so, that is like the golddigger central, that is not cali.

so, i can't honor what you are saying.
as it is so extreme and advanced monetarily to just have a place to stay.
that it is a gross extreme from what the real is.
[that the situation is extremely real past comprehension, monetarily]

females in chicago who are in relationships, or at least committal types.
whether good or bad,........
even, the one's faking a committal type.
they all start of with going to see said guy someone.
or, having that guy fall through.
nikkaz with some sense on their shoulders with experience in chicago.
are not wining and dining any females to get on here.
if they are, they will get taken.
plus, black people don't date.
so, if you trying to apply white people constructs to our shyt.
you, already lost and eventually it will play out as such.


as in general, there is no bread to do any of that, in the first place.
plus, a female who thinks that is delussional and has hordes of relationships that don't work.
the females with relationships that work.
all started going to just hang or go see said guy with no so-called date.

you can't build a solid relationship on the courting rituals of the older gen.
their existed to many parameters to keep fukkery in check.
so, a female clinging to old school courting rituals is offbrand and won't have a healthy relationship.
it may not occur now, but it will come into play later.

case in point,...
the female who even made it to the alter by old school courting rituals.
that is the female who leaves you in marriage because of financial hardship.
which as a american blackman is a pre-requisite to our daily lives.
as all blackmen, and black women should think of black men being close to and being plagued by financial hardship.
the reason why we have so many professional women who are unhappy, single and unmarried is.
they don't realize any history.
or reality associated with being black.
while, calling themselves educated. which is a laugh off top.

as, most black females who are successful in corporate america are chosen to be in those roles.
as they have a warped sense of reality from living in bubble.
that white america constructed and allowed for them inhabit to breed divisiveness.
no real black women with knowledge of self would judge her male, by his financial ability.
as we are black and not in control of that at all.
if you think you are, you have not lived and don't have knowledge of self with living in america.
plus, you completely missed we are in a recession/depression.
that is labeled, as the evolution of the great depression and is called the great recession.


art barr

 

[mamba]

at this thread.

Date broke ninjas brehettes.

Most of these women aren't bringing anything of value to their table other than their pussies. We know p*ssy's value is at an all-time low.

So, most of these women deserve broke nikkas.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Theres A LOT of broke hate in this thread

 

[mamba]

black men make more than black women. fact.

No so much so that the average Black man should be footing the bill 100% of the time.

That's what @Art Barr bar is gettin' at. A lot of women use the 1% of Black men as the standard for all Black men. Most Black men aren't out here ballin' like that.

 

[360dagod]

you are in ny, though.
so, that is like the golddigger central, that is not cali.

so, i can't honor what you are saying.
as it is so extreme and advanced monetarily to just have a place to stay.
that it is a gross extreme from what the real is.

females in chicago who are in relationships or at least committal types.
even, the one's faking a committal type.
they all start of with going to see said guy someone.
or, having that guy fall through.
nikkaz with some sense on their shoulders with experience in chicago.
are not wining and dining any females to get on here.
if they are, they will get taken.
plus, black people don't date.
so, if you trying to apply white people constructs to our shyt.
you, already lost and eventually it will play out as such.


as in general, there is no bread to do any of that, in the first place.
plus, a female who thinks that is delussional and has hordes of relationships that don't work.
the females with relationships that work.
all started going to just hang or go see said guy with no so-called date.

you can't build a solid relationship on the courting rituals of the older gen.
their existed to many parameters to keep fukkery in check.
so, a female clinging to old school courting rituals is offbrand and won't have a healthy relationship.
it may not occur now, but it will come into play later.

case in point,...
the female who even made it to the alter by old school courting rituals.
that is the female who leaves you in marriage because of financial hardship.
which as a american blackman is a pre-requisite to our daily lives.
as all blackmen, and black women should think of black men being close to and being plagued by financial hardship.
the reason why we have so many professional women who are unhappy, single and unmarried is.
they don't realize any history.
or reality associated with being black.
while, calling themselves educated. which is a laugh off top.

as, most black females who are successful in corporate america are chosen to be in those roles.
as they have a warped sense of reality from living in bubble.
that white america constructed and allowed for them inhabit to breed divisiveness.
no real black women with knowledge of self would judge her male, by his financial ability.
as we are black and not in control of that at all.
if you think you are, you have not lived and don't have knowledge of self with living in america.
plus, you completely missed we are in a recession/depression.
that is labeled, as the evolution of the great depression and is called the great recession.


art barr

 

[Rockstar Mom]

you are in ny, though.
so, that is like the golddigger central, that is not cali.

so, i can't honor what you are saying.
as it is so extreme and advanced monetarily to just have a place to stay.
that it is a gross extreme from what the real is.

females in chicago who are in relationships or at least committal types.
even, the one's faking a committal type.
they all start of with going to see said guy someone.
or, having that guy fall through.
nikkaz with some sense on their shoulders with experience in chicago.
are not wining and dining any females to get on here.
if they are, they will get taken.
plus, black people don't date.
so, if you trying to apply white people constructs to our shyt.
you, already lost and eventually it will play out as such.


as in general, there is no bread to do any of that, in the first place.
plus, a female who thinks that is delussional and has hordes of relationships that don't work.
the females with relationships that work.
all started going to just hang or go see said guy with no so-called date.

you can't build a solid relationship on the courting rituals of the older gen.
their existed to many parameters to keep fukkery in check.
so, a female clinging to old school courting rituals is offbrand and won't have a healthy relationship.
it may not occur now, but it will come into play later.

case in point,...
the female who even made it to the alter by old school courting rituals.
that is the female who leaves you in marriage because of financial hardship.
which as a american blackman is a pre-requisite to our daily lives.
as all blackmen, and black women should think of black men being close to and being plagued by financial hardship.
the reason why we have so many professional women who are unhappy, single and unmarried is.
they don't realize any history.
or reality associated with being black.
while, calling themselves educated. which is a laugh off top.

as, most black females who are successful in corporate america are chosen to be in those roles.
as they have a warped sense of reality from living in bubble.
that white america constructed and allowed for them inhabit to breed divisiveness.
no real black women with knowledge of self would judge her male, by his financial ability.
as we are black and not in control of that at all.
if you think you are, you have not lived and don't have knowledge of self with living in america.
plus, you completely missed we are in a recession/depression.
that is labeled, as the evolution of the great depression and is called the great recession.


art barr

What?

Its a general consensus that a female is not going to some random dudes house on a first "date". fukk everything else, thats a SAFETY precaution. For the both of you. You want some random crazy having your address, so she can have her nikkas rob you later? Just to save a few dollars?

 

[Art Barr]

That's true. I don't suggest anyone seek relationships being broke.

actually being equally broke and being together is the best thing.
if you want to get married.
as marriage is a corporation that is a fifty/fifty split.

so, if both of you are married and can develop the workflows.
plus have an incredible tranquil social environment you constructed by toughening it out.

you would be more prone to success.
as you will realize, who is capable of creating this type of situation again.
if you both were thinking of stepping out.
plus, if you have an issue.
you will weight and analyze it.
plus, know what value your esso should place on that situation as well.
you will remember having to put your brains together to eat, to have shelter, to provide for each other.
not a false fake traditionalism based method of taking.
women cling to from outdated courtship rituals.
that are not supported by law/equality or common sense.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

What?

Its a general consensus that a female is not going to some random dudes house on a first "date". fukk everything else, thats a SAFETY precaution. For the both of you. You want some random crazy having your address, so she can have her nikkas rob you later? Just to save a few dollars?

okay, so how do i get laid, get houses from women with all the resources paid for.
how was i fukking a beauty queen, video models, nurses, sckrippers, career women and the like.

when, i was taking females out to gibson's, whitestar/magnum's, marche's, bluepoint,...
none of that shyt was occurring.
females do not like simps, they like a man who is not wining and dining them as their mate.

you are in brooklyn, so i know you are money obsessed off top.
so, you are not the female to even talk to about the rule.
as nothign in ny is about the rule.
it is an extreme gross exaggeration of the exception to the rule.
blown out of proportion into an actual locale.
that is is predicated on being a port town.
arguably the biggest cash depot port town in the world, at that.

so, i don't expect you to exist in reality.
shyt, the actual mecca is where you are and is not built on money.
yet, if i ask the first typical women from ny about rap.
i bet she says jayz, or puff and no one else in the convo.

so, i already know you not knowing.
as a matter of fact,..were you ever a poster in the real reason we are here on this site and you are from the mecca?

it is not to shyt on you, it is just the real.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

It's not that, you meet someone for the first time, its not safe for a girl to go to some strangers house. I would save that for later in the relationship.

this is why you ain't had a relationship, and are a virgin, goofie.
you don't know this life.
so, why are you commentating on this life.


art barr

 

[MurderSheWrote]

Most of these women aren't bringing anything of value to their table other than their pussies. We know p*ssy's value is at an all-time low.

So, most of these women deserve broke nikkas.

You know what I find amazing....ninjas on this site bytch and complain about a non-existent black matriarchy but every time I turn around ninjas are spouting ideology that directly supports a black matriarchy (ex. she can pay for my dinner). Broke ninjas should just opt out of dating wholesale. I wish black women collectively would bypass broke ninjas. The black community would be a better place if they did.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

okay, so how do i get laid, get houses from women with all the resources paid for.
how was i fukking a beauty queen, video models, nurses, sckrippers, career women and the like.

when, i was taking females out to gibson's, whitestar/magnum's, marche's, bluepoint,...
none of that shyt was occurring.
females do not like simps, they like a man who is not wining and dining them as their mate.

you are in brooklyn, so i know you are money obsessed off top.
so, you are not the female to even talk to about the rule.
as nothign in ny is about the rule.
it is an extreme gross exaggeration of the exception to the rule.
blown out of proportion into an actual locale.
that is is predicated on being a port town.
arguably the biggest cash depot port town in the world, at that.

so, i don't expect you to exist in reality.
shyt, the actual mecca is where you are and is not built on money.
yet, if i as the first typical women from ny about rap.
i bet she says jayz, or puff and no one else in the convo.

so, i already know you not knowing.
as a matter of fact,..were you ever a poster in the real reason we are here on this site and you are from the mecca?

it is not to shyt on you, it is just the real.


art barr

I've had money all my life, and been on my own since 17. Dont know where you're gettin this money obsessed shyt from.

And if it worked for you, wherever you're from, thats great for you. But thats not what happens in general, no matter how much you want to believe the opposite. I didnt go to my man's house until the end of the 2nd month of dating. he took me out all the time. Still does. hell, I take him out too. And we still together years later. So all that shyt u just typed is null and void.

 

[Art Barr]

Dudes always pull the equal rights bull until he wants her to do all the cooking and cleaning

It's easy to throw that out there when it benefits u.

oh i agree,..
that, nikkaz talk all that equal rights shyt and full of shyt.

yet, for me.
i am mister mom, i cook, i clean, do the dishes, keep the house spotless and go hustle, for profit.
yet, i will NOT, go do any of that shyt for a female who does not respect.
what i have to do to have money.
then, disrespect me for being a man for real in my household.

i am the catch.
so, if a dumb broad does not realize that then that is her loss.
no woman who left me was because i was not that guy.
i lived that cheesy rat blues life, ll was talembout.
i really went broke suing ivy league, first gen ibm cracker ass crackas, that are the MAN, for real.
i lost all i had trying to do by any means necessary when i had a kid on the way.
i stayed in orbit and navigated not being pinched.
so, i won't be disrespected because of lack of funds, ever.
as, i am not the reason why i don't have.
i am really the guy that the system really kicked my ass for real.
plus, did everything you can try to do as a black guy to not make it and they say you will.
[if you lived this life for real. you know what do what you can to not make it is]
i lived that real shyt, so...if a female is tripping about bread i don't want that bytch, ever.
the minute a female bring up bread to me and not helping me take a risk.
i know she is non-committal status off top.

plus, i really am blackballed and lost the ability to get into corporate america.
including, there being a recession with no affirmative action.
money is the reason i don't have that physical manifestation of a female.
nikkaz, obsess about as their significant other.

so, i won't ever, EVER be with a money obsessed woman.
sorry, a black woman who is money obsessed is a clown.
the black woman who is money obsessed and does not know what paying it forward is to the person they share a bed with.
yet, want that man to provide on some traditionalism based shyt that does not exist anymore is a clown.

simple as that...
all the shyt women with poor love lives talk about is not even supported by law.
they just want traditionalism that is flawed and breeds why things are the way they are.
females wanted equality and have equality.
it is up to them to adhere to what they asked and the legislature that was passed to make it so.
it is on the woman and as america moves to being more matriarch based.
women are going to become more unhappy with the situation.
till they become malleable to what they asked.
plus, pay it forward the way men have for them in this country.

they can front all they want,..
yet, a man did pass said laws for them to have equality and they don't even respect that shyt.
the civil rights movement was about women.
yet, it would have never had any ferocity or threat to become a reality.
without the movement for civil rights for women, being flanked by the black male, period.

show some fukk'n respect,.......

as the disrespect is on a level that is should never be, to black men.

art barr

 

[Paisley Darts]

Thank God I am in a relationship and don't have to deal with this bullshyt anymore. I used to hate taking women out. 90% of the time the broad was either awkward or wasn't about shyt. And the problem isn't when you are taking out a co-worker or somebody you know. It's when you meet somebody out and about or in the club and you take them to dinner. You don't know them, you don't know their motives or if they are even worth the dollar menu at McDonalds. They could be just looking for an ego boost and a hot meal...but you won't know that until after you subtract from your finances. And the thing is, even if there is no chemistry..the woman loses nothing. It's a win/win for them. All of the risk is on the man.

A lot of women don't appreciate you taking them out. You are suppose to be a "real man" and treat them to dinner

I went out with this one broad. I bought her dinner.

Broad: I'm done

Me: *notices half of the food still on her plate* You gonna box that up right?

Broad: I don't do leftovers

Me: Nah, you gotta take that with you. I'm not about throwing good food away

Broad: No thank you

Me:

We go back and forth for about 3 mins and I'm so drunk that I lose focus and forget all about it. Broad ends up not taking the food and I get no puss.

She could have easily did the respectable thing..Put the food in a box and just throw the shyt away later

I told my boy about what happened and come to find out, he knew her. Said she wasn't about shyt and was a whore back in the day.

Just an example of why men don't want to spend money willy nilly on strangers.

 

[WaveGang]

WENT ON A DATE FRIDAY, PAYED SO PISSED.. KISSED THE bytch THATS IT

WENT ON A DATE SATURDAY, PAYED SO PISSED, fukkED HER IN HER CAR

BOTH FIRST DATES, ALL IN ALL A GOOD WEEKEND. BUT THIS IS NOT SUSTAINABLE