Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

[Art Barr]

I've had money all my life, and been on my own since 17. Dont know where you're gettin this money obsessed shyt from.

And if it worked for you, wherever you're from, thats great for you. But thats not what happens in general, no matter how much you want to believe the opposite. I didnt go to my man's house until the end of the 2nd month of dating. he took me out all the time. Still does. hell, I take him out too. And we still together years later. So all that shyt u just typed is null and void.

just your first statement says you are money obsessed and you are from ny.

talembout, i had money all my life.
also, you can easily be on your own at seventeen as a black woman in ny.
your post, easily displays a money obsessed person.

you are money obsessed and the first thing you mention about your relationship is going out.
if your guy had no way to pay the bills over a period of time.
is he still your guy,...FOR REAL.

QUESTION : yo, i think you have a kid out of wedlock, too.
is your boyfriend, the child's father.
if not,...
how much of that eic, do you share with your child's father.
so, he could profit and bring the windfall back to your child.



so spare me all that you are not money obsessed.
you are completely money obsessed.
even down to the general idea of your locale saying so.

you are not fooling anyone, at all.

real talk,...
how much was having a kid about eic?
don't give me that religious righteous shyt either.
you wasn't righteous when you was fukk'n unprotected on purpose.


art barr

 

[T-K-G]

^^ bird brain vulture alert

smacked the shyt outta my screen cuz i thought those were bugs on my shyt

 

[mamba]

You know what I find amazing....ninjas on this site bytch and complain about a non-existent black matriarchy but every time I turn around ninjas are spouting ideology that directly supports a black matriarchy (ex. she can pay for my dinner). Broke ninjas should just opt out of dating wholesale. I wish black women collectively would bypass broke ninjas. The black community would be a better place if they did.

No. Black women want the benefits of patriarchy while shunning the things that don't benefit them.

If you want equality, be willing to come out that purse and pay like a man.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Take women out to expensive restaurants when u are struggling with overdraft fees brehs.

 

[Art Barr]

You know what I find amazing....ninjas on this site bytch and complain about a non-existent black matriarchy but every time I turn around ninjas are spouting ideology that directly supports a black matriarchy (ex. she can pay for my dinner). Broke ninjas should just opt out of dating wholesale. I wish black women collectively would bypass broke ninjas. The black community would be a better place if they did.

the black american population is 14 percent.
with 13.6 percent pretty much living in poverty and not well off.
plus, no actual affirmative action to provide a way.
then, here you are talembout broke people.

bytch, stfu......


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

No. Black women want the benefits of patriarchy while shunning the things that don't benefit them.

If you want equality, be willing to come out that purse and pay like a man.

motherfukkers in the economic driver's seat in the whole nation, and have the most profitable upside of any one in the whole world.
yet, want to complain.
then, do not want to act upon equality that actually exist.
they just cling to patriacrch based ideals/traditionalism.
when, laws, and the real say completely different.
they are their enemy, not the guys they deflect upon.


art barr

 

[Rockstar Mom]

just your first statement says you are money obsessed and you are from ny.

talembout, i had money all my life.
also, you can easily be on your own at seventeen as a black woman in ny.
your post, easily displays a money obsessed person.

you are money obsessed and the first thing you mention about your relationship is going out.
if your guy had no way to pay the bills over a period of time.
is he still your guy,...FOR REAL.

QUESTION : yo, i think you have a kid out of wedlock, too.
is your boyfriend, the child's father.
if not,...
how much of that eic, do you share with your child's father.
so, he could profit and bring the windfall back to your child.



so spare me all that you are not money obsessed.
you are completely money obsessed.
even down to the general idea of your locale saying so.

you are not fooling anyone, at all.

real talk,...
how much was having a kid about eic?
don't give me that religious righteous shyt either.
you wasn't righteous when you was fukk'n unprotected on purpose.


art barr

You can easily have your own in NYC? Motherfukkas way older than me still live at home, or with roommates.

I mentioned going out,cuz thats what this thread is about. The fukk?

And i have no idea what the fukk you're talking about with the rest of your post. Or what my kid has to do with a nikka taking a bytch out to eat. I'm convinced you coli dudes just like to type.

 

[MurderSheWrote]

No. Black women want the benefits of patriarchy while shunning the things that don't benefit them.

If you want equality, be willing to come out that purse and pay like a man.

Or better yet they can do like me....and simply bypass the men who don't (read: CAN'T) pay.

If a man didn't have himself together financially I wouldn't fukk with him period. I'm married now (thank God) to a man with means. As far as I'm concerned more black women should simply cease giving broke ninjas the time of day.

 

[Midrash]

A girl isn't going over your house or coming to yours for a first date due to safety reasons. People be getting raped/robbed off of craigslist now both male and female simply buying stuff.


Date like white people do. Talk and get to know each other.
Go out on a coffee date at a nice shop or something low budget so you're not breaking bank but you're getting a chance to know each other. That way she won't feel obligated/bad if you say no if the date wasn't working out and you only loose like 5-10 bucks you would have spent on a lunch anyways so you don't go home angry. If coffee is too trite, go to the park, walk downtown, visit the museum, go to the gym together, etc. Figure out something creative and cheap so it's low pressure and you can truly get to know each other.


Make sure the woman knows you're not a bum but please don't flash money or use your job/wealth/car to impress a chick on the first date. You'll attract greedy hoes, ladder climbers and gold diggers.


I mostly stick to coffee dates, parks, museums, cheap bar/restaurant, etc for my first date so I don't spend a ridiculous amount and if it doesn't work out we can part ways/stay friends with no hard feelings. There were few bad dates but most were good. Plus more dating options opened up like her coming to my crib to watch netflix, cooking at home, etc. It made the relationship feel more natural and we could be ourselves, crack jokes while we have no regrets about spending money if we decided to go somewhere nice or a time consuming trip like going to the beach because we could talk, flirt, make out and play around.

Trust me, that sex still comes and it's better because you actually have a connection with the chick. Put the money at the back end to make sure she's dating you for you and the right women will come along.(Watch out for gold diggers)

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

at this thread.

Date broke ninjas brehettes.

You know what I find amazing....ninjas on this site bytch and complain about a non-existent black matriarchy but every time I turn around ninjas are spouting ideology that directly supports a black matriarchy (ex. she can pay for my dinner). Broke ninjas should just opt out of dating wholesale. I wish black women collectively would bypass broke ninjas. The black community would be a better place if they did.

In response to your first quote they already do.

In response to the second one, the man in the black community has been feminized past basic recognition. Men are out here not being leaders, treating women as equals, and demonized if they are in charge. Women are out here taking the leadership role, not following the lead of black men (who are not in the constructive mind btw), and celebrated when they take charge. This "non-existent black matriarchy" is very real. If black women on average are being more constructive than their male counterparts who are they really looking up to ?

Also if black women collectively "bypass broke ninjas", how many would y'all really have to choose from then?

 

[Why-Fi]

its a good financial decision if you can take your head out of your pants for a few hours and make sure you are having an awesome time on a date too

its not like the p*ssy is going to disappear into thin air. stop fixating and live your life for a day...

 

[mamba]

Or better yet they can do like me....and simply bypass the men who don't (read: CAN'T) pay.

If a man didn't have himself together financially I wouldn't fukk with him period. I'm married now (thank God) to a man with means. As far as I'm concerned more black women should simply cease giving broke ninjas the time of day.

But, those are the primary men giving Black women the time of day!

Elite men of all races don't necessarily consider Black women their ideal mate! Black women are lucky most Black men of means actually do decide to stay inside the race when they marry.

 

[MurderSheWrote]

In response to your first quote they already do.

In response to the second one, the man in the black community has been feminized past basic recognition. Men are out here not being leaders, treating women as equals, and demonized if they are in charge. Women are out here taking the leadership role, not following the lead of black men (who are not in the constructive mind btw), and celebrated when they take charge. This "non-existent black matriarchy" is very real. If black women on average are being more constructive than their male counterparts who are they really looking up to ?

Also if black women collectively "bypass broke ninjas", how many would y'all really have to choose from then?

I would rather be single than deal with a broke ninja...I'm just being honest. There is no rule of law that says black women have to SETTLE for this bullshyt. Smart chicks fish in pools of men who have themselves together.

 

[mamba]

I would rather be single than deal with a broke ninja...I'm just being honest. There is no rule of law that says black women have to SETTLE for this bullshyt. Smart chicks fish in pools of men who have themselves together.

How many actually catch something?

White women can fish. Asian women can fish. Latinas (if they aren't ) can fish.

Where are Black women scooping up these elite men of other ethnic groups in droves, brehette?

 

[MurderSheWrote]

But, those are the primary men giving Black women the time of day!

Elite men of all races don't necessarily consider Black women their ideal mate! Black women are lucky most Black men of means actually do decide to stay inside the race when they marry.

Y'all actually believe this dumb shyt huh?

That has not been my experience. I've traveled the world....I've seen and experienced enough to know the above is a told by black AMERICAN men.

If things don't work out with my husband I plan to pick up another man of means and chances are he won't be black (not because there are no black men of means....simply because I've been across the fence for a minute and I'm not going back).

All a sister needs to do is keep her shyt together and sky is the limit.