Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

[Nino Brown]

clowns taking women to 5 star expensive restaurants on 1st date.

The food and service is good

 

[MushroomX]

youre a gotdamn fool for that

Seriously breh, they claiming...

"We have 15 new entrees on the menu, thats because we are sending nikkas out to Italy to learn from the finest chefs of sicily, rome, venice and tuscany who have years of experience making the same food you be eating on your plate."

shyt, the only place they be sending them is Little Italy while some fat high management motherfukker actually goes to italy laughing about it. While at the Olive Garden some fat bytch is chewing on microwaved pasta thinking, "This shyt is really Italian food."

And then your hit with the bill... but then she says, "But dessert sounds nice."

 

[Turbulent]

i know chick who went on a first date with a dude to a protest (it was either against police brutality or the Occupy movement) and she told me it was weird at first but she loved it.

i once took a chick grocery shopping with me and she had legitimate fun. i've also went on movie dates, (that i paid for) and had fun. the point is, if a chick feels you, you could do anything with her, take her anywhere or nowhere but she'll be happy just cause she gets to share some space with you. and the same goes for dudes, don't be so tight with your money you can't enjoy it. if you feel like the chick is cool and you feel like taking her out, do it (and don't expect anything in return). Just follow your gut (and your budget).

 

[Turbulent]

Seriously breh, they claiming...

"We have 15 new entrees on the menu, thats because we are sending nikkas out to Italy to learn from the finest chefs of sicily, rome, venice and tuscany who have years of experience making the same food you be eating on your plate."

shyt, the only place they be sending them is Little Italy while some fat high management motherfukker actually goes to italy laughing about it. While at the Olive Garden some fat bytch is chewing on microwaved pasta thinking, "This shyt is really Italian food."

And then your hit with the bill... but then she says, "But dessert sounds nice."

 

[Rocket Scientist]

The food and service is good

And all you got was a kiss on cheek and a "thank you"?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I'm not saying be cheap brehs but on 1st date,be simple.Go out for a cup of coffee or something.

 

[Nino Brown]

And all you got was a kiss on cheek and a "thank you"?

It was a good day out

 

[Rocket Scientist]

It was a good day out

it's all good now you know next time

 

[KinksandCoils]

You assume too much.

This is 2014, you have to get ya ass out there and make money + contribute and I can cook my own meals and clean up after myself.

If you keep your house clean and eat clean then cooking and cleaning is a simple of a task as it can get.

you're telling me what I already know.

 

[KinksandCoils]

We're talking about dating, not marriage.

We're not even talking about cohabitation, brehette.

If two people are just dating, a woman needs to open up that purse.

Courting is a two-way process. The man should plan and pay. The woman should also plan things and pay.

Those are the best types of exchanges. They lead to less resentment and both parties feel like the other is being an active participant in the process. No man wants to be doing all this planning and paying when some other nikka is gettin' the p*ssy without having to do any of that shyt.

Can you imagine how you'd feel if you were giving all your time and energy to a man, cooking for him, giving him p*ssy, etc and he only barely shows up to spend time with you? Imagine if there was another chick who didn't do any of that for him, yet he spends 90% of his time with her?

Would you think that's a good deal, brehette?

I know but this post was based off of another post not the entire thread.

 

[onelastdeath]

Dudes always pull the equal rights bull until he wants her to do all the cooking and cleaning

Can't compare dating to a lengthy relationship.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Can't compare dating to a lengthy relationship.

Im not this was based on another post not the entire thread.

 

[Nino Brown]

Im not this was based on another post not the entire thread.

What would your ideal date be if I set the fun challenge of keeping it under $35.50

 

[dap-man]

it's two sides to this shyt. some dudes are just straight up tricks. trying to impress a chick with a front of money and extravagance they don't have.

and then some dudes are just trying too hard not to get played to the point where every little action becomes an elaborate scheme to not give her a single thing (where it almost becomes paranoia).

the truth is, whatever you are, some chick somewhere will always view you as a sucker, some chick somewhere will always be a user, some chick somewhere will always view the next guy as too cheap, and some chick will just naturally fukk with you. fukk with the chicks that genuinely want to fukk with you. too many dudes (and females) are trying to be everything to everyone. everyone wants to be a shapeshifter to get it all. adapting their personas to be able to get the "good girl", the golddigger, the hoe, the nerd chick, the cool chick, the awkward chick. why not just fukk with the ones that are choosing you at your natural state and leave the rest alone?

Dawg some people will never learn. The safest bet is to go dutch during the dating faze of things. Now win she becomes your woman, and it is a exclusive relationship that's when I think men should start to spend money one their woman.

 

[KinksandCoils]

What would your ideal date be if I set the fun challenge of keeping it under $35.50

if its hot out I like the beach. Thats free. We can bring our own food get in the water and relax.
We could do bowling
we could go out to eat. I always get something cheap anyways. That's always under 12.99 before tax.
There is events
There is the zoo
Parks
The point is not that you have to really spend much money or any at all. The point is the crib is bogus.