Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

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Smh men actually used to take women on dates so she would become his girl. Now it's chill at the crib cause I'm too cheap or to broke to spend a dime on u.

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:win: Legit. I do two of one things.

  • Coffee Shop
  • Take her to my house or go to hers, and make a meal that is about 1/3 of the price less than Olive Garden. :dahell: All they serve is Pasta and Breadsticks, you can make restaurant quality breadsticks that taste better and have less cac-imbedded poisons.
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thats cause men knew that once you drop them off at home..some other nikka wasnt waiting in the parking lot waiting for that 11pm text

"okay im home now...come in"

see back then females were loyal


today :mjlol:


you know how many times i seen a simp drop off a girl, get lame kiss....and some other dude who never spend a dime on her went to her crip and smashed
Women were notbanymore loyal than now they were restricted. Thats it , that's all...guys want loyalty and offer nothing in return.
 

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Smh men actually used to take women on dates so she would become his girl. Now it's chill at the crib cause I'm too cheap or to broke to spend a dime on u.
sometimes it's because the girl doesn't have the ability to make the guy want to take her out. you want to talk about back in the days. but back in the days people in general were more discrete. women today are sexually liberated. that's cool and all but what the fukk i look like taking you out on dates so you would become my girl" when the next guy is getting his dikk wet from you and everybody knows? not saying it didn't happen back then but shyt was more hush hush cause there was no social media, less exposals and more shame in general.

i don't think shyt was better (or worse) back then. it was just different :ld:it's like everyone wants the best of both worlds. Women want to have the option to behave like men (be promiscuous, be unladylike, "don't judge me", not cook, not clean, etc) but at the same time still want to keep the p*ssy power. Men want women to cook, clean, be submissive, they want to be the leaders etc but still want them to work fulltime and pay half the bills. both sides are fukked.
 

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we offer

humor
charisma
protection
security
leadership..
etc


:wtf: do yall do other than cooch

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Lol a guy that wants sex does not offer any of these things other than maybe charisma/humor to lead the woman into bed.if you are not with a girl that you enjoy being with blame your appendage. Men approach women. .
 

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it's two sides to this shyt. some dudes are just straight up tricks. trying to impress a chick with a front of money and extravagance they don't have.

and then some dudes are just trying too hard not to get played to the point where every little action becomes an elaborate scheme to not give her a single thing (where it almost becomes paranoia).

the truth is, whatever you are, some chick somewhere will always view you as a sucker, some chick somewhere will always be a user, some chick somewhere will always view the next guy as too cheap, and some chick will just naturally fukk with you. fukk with the chicks that genuinely want to fukk with you. too many dudes (and females) are trying to be everything to everyone. everyone wants to be a shapeshifter to get it all. adapting their personas to be able to get the "good girl", the golddigger, the hoe, the nerd chick, the cool chick, the awkward chick. why not just fukk with the ones that are choosing you at your natural state and leave the rest alone?

This is solid advice, you can only really live this way if you have fukked a lot of women tho or if u have self control because its hard not to adopt a fake personality if u know the girl u dealing with will fall for it.

But once you dun fukked a lot of bytches and are more comfortable with yourself and not pressed for p*ssy like that, then you can relax and be u and that's when you start really working on ur own pace.

Me for example I qualify women now, and I fukk with them if they benefit me, for instance if I have to go get a bytch it's a certain distance I won't exceed etc and other things like that. Even still with my experience and knowledge and all that it still get to a point sometimes where I break a code here and there because the bytch was to easy, or fine to pass up so I can imagine how hard it is for the younger dudes that still coming up will have it to just be their self.

A solution I will offer is have self discipline, if u gun spend, have a limit and don't go over it, that way if it don't workout at least u know u tried.
 

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we'd just have one mean staring contest when that bill came :beli:
cause you see it as a fight or a war. the scenario i described if the girl is actually trying to avoid awkwardness but the guy is just aloof. had she not paid, he would have with no hesitation but it's no psychological war. you're scenario is just a war of who's gonna come out on top and 1up the other.
 
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